Besides the diving, and motorcycles, our childhood sounds about the same. My Dad and I had a conversation when I was around 23, I told him, I was tired of him being my Dad, and asked, "why can't he be my friend", I also said" I know when I do wrong, and don't need you to tell me, why can't we just have fun together, without you being on my ass all the time". He said, "because I'm your Dad, not your buddy"......About 2 or 3 months later, we had been fishing, and had a few beers, he said, "Son, I've been thinking, from now own your my buddy, and if you need my advice just ask"..........I think I called him with a question everyday after, and I was 34 when he died. I never had a question, that he couldn't answer. I miss him for a 1000 reasons, but not being able to ask his advice, or just a question on how to fix somthing, is what I miss most. I always knew his answers only had my best interest in mind, without any motive. You are very blessed, to still have your Dad, and I really do wish you many more years together........Treeman