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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:31:34 AM EDT
[#1]
You should have put this in the religion forum.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:32:23 AM EDT
[#2]
well except I am not religious.... |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:32:35 AM EDT
[#3]
Paragraphs are your friend
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:33:06 AM EDT
[#4]
pics?
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:33:37 AM EDT
[#5]
Here we go...... |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:33:52 AM EDT
[#6]
Ok, so your wife and another chick got it on while you and the other guy did what exactly???
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:33:54 AM EDT
[#7]
I'm talking about the basis for the coming shitstorm, not you. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:35:02 AM EDT
[#8]
Ah, I understand completely, well it should be interesting |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:35:59 AM EDT
[#9]
I played with mine, he with his (wife that is, don't get the wrong idea) |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:36:40 AM EDT
[#10]
what is happening.... |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:37:05 AM EDT
[#11]
One question: why?
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:38:19 AM EDT
[#12]
What? You are not going to post pics I can whack to, so I am going to critique your grammar. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:38:39 AM EDT
[#13]
I would think that the sexual frustration that will occur as you watch will get the better of you.
And whether you want to admit it or not, you resent the fact that your wife is getting something she wants, and you aren't getting anything. If not, you will. If she is into other women, she needs to find one that she will share with you without getting jealous. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:38:44 AM EDT
[#14]
Did you get sloppy seconds?
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:39:02 AM EDT
[#15]
In Before The Failed Marriage!
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:39:20 AM EDT
[#16]
why what, if you are asking why I would want to see my wife with another woman then I would ask why not. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:40:37 AM EDT
[#17]
So the 4 of you had sex but the guys only with their wives though the wives did with each other as well?
No wonder you haven't been getting any. Your wife is either bi or a closet lesbian. I have a feeling your marriage won't be around much longer but I'm just a guy on the internet.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:42:20 AM EDT
[#18]
I am often reminded why i am happy not making my life more complicated with stupid actions such as these.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:43:37 AM EDT
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no we have kids and this is the first time in months we have had a sitter. I would say she is definitely bi, a lot of woman have those fantasies it is whether or not they follow thru with them. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:43:46 AM EDT
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As Alien said: So the 4 of you had sex but the guys only with their wives though the wives did with each other as well? No wonder you haven't been getting any. Your wife is either bi or a closet lesbian. Plus what in the fuck is the point, what's wrong with sex just with you and your wife? |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:44:50 AM EDT
[#21]
I'll make a few predictions for this thread:
1: People who have been in similar situations will chime in with positive comments and another group who have done it will chime in with how it completely ruined their relationship. 2: People who have never been in a similar situation, but secretly want to, will condemn the actions and talk about how it will ruin your relationship. 3: People will ask for pics (see above). 4: People who are morally superior will condem your actions based on morals... 5: People like me will read it and say "WGAF?" and wonder why you haven't just gone ahead with a threesome since it's obvious your wife digs chicks to a certain extent. From now on, find a chick who isn't married (no other guys to worry about), jump in with them and have a good time. It's clearly something you would like to participate in and you only go around once... so live it up. If it ruins your marriage you can look back and say "It was fun while it lasted". |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:45:16 AM EDT
[#22]
 better check on your wife. she might be over there without you.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:45:22 AM EDT
[#23]
Nothing is wrong with that, it was something I have always wanted to see in person, not video, and haven't so she wanted to be a team player and do that for me, and I might add it was something to see. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:52:20 AM EDT
[#24]
you are what's wrong with this world.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:54:41 AM EDT
[#25]
I like it when your wife does that too.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:56:53 AM EDT
[#26]
There're a few things higher on my list of what's wrong with this world. A few things higher than two wives fooling around with their husbands watching and each couple then goes on their own and has sex. Quite a few things, really. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:01:14 AM EDT
[#27]
Soooooo, what's going to happen when the wife wants to enjoy you and another man "lovin" each other?
AB |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:05:35 AM EDT
[#28]
Just why are you married then since marriage is a religion based philosopy.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:09:31 AM EDT
[#29]
No we don't! A solid block of text like that is terribly difficult to read. You just lost half (or more) of the people who would have read your post. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:10:36 AM EDT
[#30]
Hmmm...
How you choose to run your marriage is not up to my judgement, nor anyone else's. When you post something that will assuredly elicit negative responses, you're opening the door for certain judgement, so don't get upset when you get it. That said, you had a fantasy and it was acted out. Good for you. We all have our fantasies, it's about how far people are willing to go to fulfill them. No matter what 'rules' you laid down, you're still testing the fundamentals of your marriage, and that's playing with fire. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:15:57 AM EDT
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To pre-empt any more religious talk, here is a good website on Christian sexuality that explains how to properly have a threesome within a Christian marriage, among other important things: Christian Sexuality, Pornography, Etc. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:48:33 AM EDT
[#32]
Bingo. Marriages like this do NOT survive. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:18:21 AM EDT
[#33]
Marriage is not necessarily a religion based philosophy, it is a union of a man and a woman who are committed to eachother period. That is why some marriages happen ina church others say at the justice of the peace. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:20:58 AM EDT
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It's something that transcends religion. It was around in ancient Roman times etc. Various religions have just come up with rituals/ceremonies to accommodate it. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:22:19 AM EDT
[#35]
Idiot.
Your marriage is now doomed. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:24:31 AM EDT
[#36]
Yeah, me too. Getting married being the main "stupid action" that I have avoided thusfar, to keep my life less complicated. I honestly have no idea why any clear-thinking male under the age of 50 gets married these days. There is literally no reason to do it. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:25:18 AM EDT
[#37]
Oh please, watching my wife fool around with another woman does not doom my marriage at all. I am almost willing to bet that is something you yourself as will most males (assuming you are a guy) would be into and would probably jump if the situation arose for them. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:26:22 AM EDT
[#38]
No, they're not reaching...
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:26:42 AM EDT
[#39]
You're well on your way to being a swinger. Your wife didn't pick a married friend by accident. Before you know it you'll be watching your buddy stuff your wife. Probably in ways she doesn't let you. Not my version of fun, but to each his own.
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:28:31 AM EDT
[#40]
Not my version of fun either and it won't happen as long as I am married. It is very difficult finding single woman that are into that so if you decide to play that game it is usually packaged this way. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:29:51 AM EDT
[#41]
Best post of the day by far. You really want to watch the "someday" mother of your children snarfing on some other bitches snatch? That fucking sick man. THat's college shit, not married shit. Good job hefner!!! 
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:30:18 AM EDT
[#42]
Apparently not LOL |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:31:46 AM EDT
[#43]
Wrong. I would NEVER want to see my wife with another person, period. You have opened the door to all sorts of jealously, hurt feelings, and questioning about your relatioship, that WILL come to the surface, sooner or later. If you can watch your WIFE with another person, you don't care enough about your relationship to remain commited sexually--THE most intimate aspect of the relationship is now blown, and it will tough to get it back. You are obviously too immature to understand this, and are enjoying the cheap thrill right now. Bad shit WILL happen to your relationship because of this. Just be sure give us an update when it happens. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:33:53 AM EDT
[#44]
You know, I've thought about this before. Could I handle seeing my wife munching muff or smoking pole?
No, I just couldn't. She is mine and I am her's. It would make me physically sick to see her with another man (or woman). |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:38:32 AM EDT
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+1 If they are both that secure in thier relationship to be able to do what excites them, TOGETHOR then who the f*ck are the rest of us to judge them for it? I myself am not open to posting the details of my life or sex life for everyone to crituiqe it and suggest that everyone else just STFU. I'm sure that all the posts on here that were derogaroty came from "PERFECT" folks who havn't done anything in thier lives that everyone wouldn't agree with. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:41:26 AM EDT
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No dude, couples get together to SWING. She's already got you doing it in the same room with another dude, it's just a matter of time til she tries to talk you into the old switcheroo. How many times did you catch her glancing over at the other couple, hmm? It's a simple matter of counting. THREEsomes involve THREE. Foursomes eventually involve a strange penis in your wife. Believe what you want, I'm just telling you where you are heading. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:45:04 AM EDT
[#47]
Well put, it all depends on how secure you are with yourself and your spouse period, I would never watch my wife with another man, I know she is doing this to please me as well as satisfy her own curious needs. As long as it stays open and the communication is there there will be no problems. I would love to be a fly on the wall in the houses of some of these folks, it would be quite amusing. The negative posts do not bother me in the least, I knew well before i posted what kind of responses I would get. I find it entertaining as well as informative which is why I did it. I wouldn't post this on a site where I knew everyone. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:47:04 AM EDT
[#48]
No shit. Somehow I think if she's geared this way in the first place, this marriage ain't gonna last long. I for one, would have stongly encouraged this shit while we were going out, got it out of my system, then looked for someone more suited to be "mother of my children" material. But that's just me. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:47:38 AM EDT
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It is not a question of what I believe or what I don't, you may very well be right but she knows that would be the end of us, to this day she has always been up front and honest with me about everything and I have with her. She knows that if that happens she is out and personally I don't think she will risk that but who knows, life goes on either way. |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 11:49:15 AM EDT
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It’d be interesting to statistically analyze the infidelity/divorce rates for sexually adventurous couples versus sexually repressed, prudish couples.
I’m inclined to believe the repression brings more harm. |
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