Very sorry to hear that. My Dad is just about all done with the lung cancer. He's gone thru everything........chemo, radiation, Iressa drugs, Tarceva, etc. We think it slowed the cancer down, but he's running out of time and I'll be amazed if he makes it to Thanks giving.
Spend time with him, tell him that you love him, thank him for all the things you've done together and he's done for you, and apoligize for all the dumb things you've done that have brought shame on the family name.
Much of these were recommeded here off ARFCOM. I had a similar talk to my Dad about the above paragraph.............he simply looked at me with wide eyes, started to get some tears coming out of his eyes, gave me the biggest hug he has ever given me, and said "Steve, I'm just so damn proud of you............I couldn't of asked for a better son".
I love my Dad and am gonna miss him.
Spend time with him and try to make him smile.
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