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Posted: 8/29/2005 10:38:09 AM EDT
Whats the ARFCOM stance on marrying third cousins? No i don not want to marry any of my third cousins. Hell i never even met a 2nd cousin.
What is a third cousin anyway. Would it be my cousins, cousins, cousin? So yah or nay on marrying your 3rd cousin if shes hot? This outta be good. Matt |
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I'd say no.
There are cousins who I have no blood relation to, but I view them as relatives. Marrying a relative is just weird coming from my background. Now legally it would depend on your state and from a genetics standpoint there isn't much fear as long as its not done for generations. |
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If I'm not mistaken, the law in most states says 3rd cousin is OK. I could be wrong in this.
Jokes aside, if there's not a biological problem with it and you didn't grow up knowing this person as your "cousin", I don't see what the big deal is. |
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I think Kentucky and Mississippi are both ok with marrying your sister so we're ok. |
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Attn: Bible thumpers! Question. the bible has no restriction on sex with a cousin, correct? Thanks! I've read in Discovery that the odds of cousin spawn had some genetic defect is around 3 or 4%, whic is the same odds for a woman at 40 having children. Random people spawn are around 1% chance of SOME (ie: any, could be harmless or could be CF) genetic defect. |
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I did a quick google search and 3rd cousins have the same Great Great Grand parents.
Matt |
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I believe that genetic research has shown that reproduction wiht 2nd cousins really doesn't have many of the risks that people have traditionally believed.
Third would seem to be completely okay. (Dislaimer: Not an expert, and since I don't have any hot cousins, I never really thought about it anyway ) |
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thanks, i was wondering what the hell a 3rd cousin was. Then again, I don't know what a 2nd cousin is. TXL |
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That's interesting. I never heard that. "Don't think unnatural thoughts about your cousin, Russ" |
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26 states allow marriage to cousins. However, I think it's probably not too good for the gene pool.
States That Allow Marriage To Cousins A Alabama: First cousins, yes. Alaska: First cousins, yes. Arizona: First cousins, yes, only if they are over a certain age or cannot bear children. Half cousins, yes. Arkansas: No B C California: First cousins, yes. Colorado: First cousins, yes. Connecticut: First cousins, yes. D Delaware: No District of Columbia: First cousins, yes. E F Florida: First cousins, yes. G Georgia: First cousins, yes. H Hawaii: First cousins, yes. I Idaho: No Illinois: First cousins, yes, only if they are over a certain age or cannot bear children. Indiana: First cousins once removed, yes, only if they are over a certain age or cannot bear children. Iowa: No J K Kansas: Half cousins, yes. Kentucky: No L Louisiana: Adopted cousins, yes. M Maine: First cousins, yes, only if they are over a certain age or cannot bear children, or if they get genetic counseling. Maryland: First cousins, yes. Massachusetts: First cousins, yes. Michigan: No Minnesota: No, unless aboriginal culture of the couple permits cousin marriages. Mississippi: Adopted cousins, yes. Missouri: No Montana: Half cousins, yes. N Nebraska: Half cousins, yes. Nevada: Half cousins, yes. New Hampshire: No New Jersey: First cousins, yes. New Mexico: First cousins, yes. New York: First cousins, yes. North Carolina: First cousins, yes. Double first cousins are not allowed to get married. North Dakota: No O Ohio: No Oklahoma: Half cousins, yes. Oregon: Adopted cousins, yes. P Pennsylvania: No Q R Rhode Island: First cousins, yes. S South Carolina: First cousins, yes. South Dakota: No T Tennessee: First cousins, yes. Texas: First cousins, yes. U Utah: First cousins, yes, only if they are over a certain age or cannot bear children. V Vermont: First cousins, yes. Virginia: First cousins, yes. W Washington: No West Virginia: Adopted cousins, yes. Wisconsin: First cousins once removed, yes, only if they are over a certain age or cannot bear children. Wyoming: No X Y Z |
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I always thought your "second cousin" was your cousin's kid (or your parent's cousin). Guess I was wrong.
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Bwahaha! I agree completely! BigDozer66 |
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Legally? In every place I've heard of it's fine.
Genetically? I'd expect it's just fine and dandy. 2nd cousins are supposed to be far enough out. Ethically? That's the stumbling block, now isn't it? |
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In some states 1st cousins can legally marry although some may have age or other restrictions. ETA: Damn some of you guys are fast. |
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I had a 2nd cousin that was HOT! I'd have done her in a heartbeat.
Her sister,whom I'm sure I could have had,was,er,not so hot,to be polite.Very friendly and flirty.And she sure looked like she'd be fun.Found out years later that their Mom,my Dad's cousing,was adopted,so not even blood.DOH!Dave |
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you're a brave man Dave. disgusting, but brave. |
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Just to see if I've got this straight...
2nd cousins are the offspring of a parents cousin, so, the daughter of my fathers cousin would be my second cousin. So my 3rd cousin would be the grandson/daughter of my grandfather/mother's cousin? Is this right? |
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Biologically its ok to marry your sister. Its only when its done generation after generation that its an issue. |
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FDR married his cousin. I know they weren't first cousins, but maybe second or third.
Eleanor was pretty ugly and of course a liberal, maybe that's what's wrong with them. |
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State of the Art thinking at Arfcom is that you shouldn't marry AT ALL. Just rent the pie.
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Saddam Hussein married his cousin. It's a common thing in the muslim world. Imagine being a suicide bomber and you blow up and meet your 72 virgins and they're all family members
ETA: I'm da page 2 king |
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en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin www.genealogy.com/16_cousn.html |
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If they aint good enough for their own family, they ain't good enough for us ! |
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Biologically the concept of marriage is meaningless. It is only generations of sibling spawn that is the issue. |
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Elenore and Franklin Roosevelt were 3rd cousins.... I am surprised at the number of states that allow 1st Cousins! Thats wierd, I had thought the standard was pretty universal at 2nd Cousin. |
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It never ceases to amaze me where we get these questions from....
But I thought it appropriate to post the lyrics of a famous song from the...1940s! I'm My Own Grandpa by Guy Lombardo (Yes, 'the' Guy Lombardo) Now many many years ago when I was twenty-three I was married to a widow who was pretty as can be This widow had a grown-up daughter who had hair of red My father fell in love with her and soon they too were wed Oh I'm my own grandpa I'm my own granpa It sounds funny I know, But it really is so Oh I'm my own grandpa This made my dad my son-in-law and changed my very life My daughter was my mother 'cause she was my father's wife To complicate the matter even though it brought me joy I soon became the father of a bouncing baby boy My little baby then became a brother-in-law to Dad And so became my uncle, though it made me very sad For if he was my uncle, then that also made him br'ther Of the widow's grown-up daughter who was also my stepmother Father's wife then had a son who kept them on the run And he became my grandchild, for he was my daughter's son My wife is now my mother's mother and it makes me blue Because altho' she is my wife, she's my grandmother too Now if my wife is my grandmother, then I'm her grandchild And every time I think of it, it nearly drives me wild For now I have become the strangest case I ever saw As husband of my grandmother, I am my own grandpa. BTW, I liked Ray Stevens' version better....or even Grandpa Jones'! Eric The(Grandpa,Himself)Hun |
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Now isn't it possible, with all the "secrets" families have, someone could already be married to a cousin, or worse.
Just a thought. |
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Billy Bob was getty freaky with his sister Sue Bob. Sue Bob goes: "Dang Billy Bob, you freak almost as good as Pa" Billy Bob goes: "Yeah, ma tells me that too!" |
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A second cousin is offspring from your great grandfather that isn't a first cousin. A third cousin is the offspring from your great great grandfather that isn't a second or first cousin. Cousins must be part of the same generation. If not, then the relation is to the cousin and then "removed" by the number of generations. The father or child of your second cousin would be a second cousin once removed for example. |
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Inbreeding-why go down the street when you can go down the hall?
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Its hard to call it that when its that many generations removed... |
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I can't believe you even know who your 3rd cousins are. I don't even know who my 2nd cousins are.
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I say ok, I doubt any state prohibits 3rd cousins. There is not much genetic similarity left after adding in all those other genes from other famies. Christ, GA allows first coursin marriages. |
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3rd cousins are about all I have. I have 1 first cousin I actually like. The others can soak their heads as far as I'm concerned. I have a whole slew of 3rd cousins, but I'd never consider marrying one...
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its not the marrying part that raises the most eyebrows, its the thought of consumation and procreation that boggles the mind and turns most peoples stomach, people'd be calling you Archie Bunker, cause you keep it all in the family, and I guess if she's your cousin on your daddy's side, she wouldn't even have to change her last name, you sure you didn't relocate to New Jersey from the Ozarks? |
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Marrying your 3rd Cousin is OK…
Sex with your 1st cousin is also very OK! ANdy |
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yepper and its wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy outta tune |
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Back to the ORIGINAL question...................Is she HOT???
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We can't trust his answer. We obviously need PICS!!! |
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Ok you southerners....
Look at this one:
So, the young chickie maries the old fart... they have a child... the old fart dies and she marries the old fart's grandson (hopefully from another marrage).... Please try to draw that family tree and does the new husband get to call her Grandma as well? From lastconfederatewidow.com/ |
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Well Adam and Eve had children
who did their kids marry????? Just something to think about I think you can marry a third Cousin, but wiouldnt you feel strange at family reunions????? FREE
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Thank you for pointing this out so I didn't have to type it. What most people refer to as "second cousin" (ie, your parent's cousin) is actuall your FIRST cousin, once removed. |
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