Quoted: I know i sound like a pussy but I really miss her and have slept really bad the last two nights worrying about her. At this point i hope she doesn't come back, I just hope i can find something better.
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Sounds like part of your problem right there. If she is playing games with you, she's winning. She's going to use that uncertainty and worry to mindfuck you any chance she gets.
Don't play her game. Don't play by her rules. You already did the right thing by calling her
once to say WTF. For now just leave it be. If you go crawling/wimpering back to her she's going to own your ass.
You're right; she'll be back eventually if she wants her stuff that's at your place. What you should do
now is collect all of her stuff in your place and box it up. Leave the box by the front door. When she shows up to get her stuff, hand her the box and say, "Have a nice day."
Hit it and quit it, man. You've known this woman for what? Four months? You're already this twitterpated over her? She's already playing these kinds of games? Not a good sign. Barring some extenuating circumstances regarding this situation, I think it's time for you to find a new woman.
Is this your first somewhat serious relationship? How old are you? How old is she?