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Posted: 8/15/2005 6:01:37 PM EDT

A good friend of hers was dating this guy for 5 years. They even owned a home together. Well a few months back on his birthday her friend bought him a new desktop PC. He got really drunk and threw it out the window that night. She got pissed, so he ended up hitting her for mouthing off. She gets her cell phone out and tells him that she is going to call the cops. He grabs the phone and throws it against the wall.

The next morning she leaves him. So for the past few months my girlfriend has been calling him really bad names (no problems here) well the couple had been thinking about getting together but he got really drunk on Saturday night, got on a crotch rocket and hit a tree going 125 MPH. He died. She is now upset that he died and sad that her friend is going through a rough time. I feel nothing......dude was a dumbass. I am having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's sadness because I really don't see it as a reason to be sad. Her friend now doens't have to worry about getting back together with a POS.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:03:54 PM EDT

[#1]

First- Darwinism cures stupidity.

Second, him dying probably saved her from being killed by that asshole. Thus a life lost is indeed a life saved.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:04:19 PM EDT

[#2]

Women and logic don't always go together.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:05:19 PM EDT

[#3]

Damn shame about the tree.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:05:22 PM EDT

[#4]

Quoted:
Her friend now doens't have to worry about getting back together with a POS.

Hopefully seeking out abusive assholes won't become a pattern of behavior for this friend of yours.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:07:19 PM EDT

[#5]

Quoted:
First- Darwinism cures stupidity.

Second, him dying probably saved her from being killed by that asshole. Thus a life lost is indeed a life saved.

+1

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:07:25 PM EDT

[#6]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

Agreed

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:07:43 PM EDT

[#7]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

Damn shame about the bike.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:08:07 PM EDT

[#8]

The better part is that she may now own the house 100% and won't have to worry about being bounced off the walls for the rest of her life!

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:08:33 PM EDT

[#9]

Anybody that hits a woman deserves to die, looks like things worked out for the best. Anybody that rides a motorcycle drunk doesn't have much of a chance either.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:08:50 PM EDT

[#10]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.
Damn shame about the bike.

Damn shame we don't have pix of the g/f.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:10 PM EDT

[#11]

Wimmens are the strangest creatures on this planet. When one is sad, it is inexplicably doubled by her friends. Go figure. No matter what you do, it will be wrong. Just avoid them both for a bit till they get over it.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:11 PM EDT

[#12]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

+1

I hope it pulls through this tramatic experience.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:15 PM EDT

[#13]

Hmmm...Probably saved her from an abusive future with him. On the other hand, I suppose I can see why she would be upset that he's dead. She obviously had an emotional attachment to the guy, or she wouldn't have considered getting back together with him. Your girlfriend is just being the supportive friend, it looks like.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:16 PM EDT

[#14]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Her friend now doens't have to worry about getting back together with a POS.

Hopefully seeking out abusive assholes won't become a pattern of behavior for this friend of yours.

That's wishful thinking. Girls like her don't change. May God have mercy on her lost, pathetic life.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:17 PM EDT

[#15]

Probably shameful waste of a good bike.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:37 PM EDT

[#16]

Fucktard throws a new computer (a gift) out the window.

Gets drunk, beats up girl.

Smashed girl's cellphone when she says she'll call the cops.

Fucktard gets drunk and kills himself at 125mph.

Girl is upset because fucktard is dead and can't get back together with girl he beat up.

Does *anyone* need a better example of the fact that fundamentally, women are NOT wired the same as men?

Your GF should be telling her friend that fate has intervened and set her free to find a *GOOD* man.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:53 PM EDT

[#17]

Quoted:
The better part is that she may now own the house 100% and won't have to worry about being bounced off the walls for the rest of her life!

They already sold it, and it is a good thing, since they were not married. His parents would be the owners of the other half.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:59 PM EDT

[#18]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.
Damn shame about the bike.

damn shame about both tree and bike.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:10:09 PM EDT

[#19]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

I hope it will recover.

Oh, yeah, don't worry about your GF; women like to be sad, it makes them happy.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:10:21 PM EDT

[#20]

Quoted:
She is now upset that he died and sad that her friend is going through a rough time. I feel nothing......dude was a dumbass. I am having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's sadness because I really don't see it as a reason to be sad. Her friend now doens't have to worry about getting back together with a POS.

You're GF doesn't need logic. She needs you to hug her and give up all that 'emotional understanding' for her. Just be there for her if she wants to talk or cry on you.

Wimminz ain't logical, but they sure are fun when they're not bawlin'.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:10:23 PM EDT

[#21]

Quoted:
A good friend of hers was dating this guy for 5 years. They even owned a home together. Well a few months back on his birthday her friend bought him a new desktop PC. He got really drunk and threw it out the window that night. She got pissed, so he ended up hitting her for mouthing off. She gets her cell phone out and tells him that she is going to call the cops. He grabs the phone and throws it against the wall.

The next morning she leaves him. So for the past few months my girlfriend has been calling him really bad names (no problems here) well the couple had been thinking about getting together but he got really drunk on Saturday night, got on a crotch rocket and hit a tree going 125 MPH. He died. She is now upset that he died and sad that her friend is going through a rough time. I feel nothing......dude was a dumbass. I am having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's sadness because I really don't see it as a reason to be sad. Her friend now doens't have to worry about getting back together with a POS.

While I think his death is a good thing . . . emotional attachments rarely involve logic.

I love my youngest brother, but I know he is an ignorant dip who will probably end up doing something similar to this guy. Doesn't mean that I won't weep for the end of his mortal life.

No matter how he treated her, she loved him. She had not yet gotten to the point where his actions overwhelmed her hope (however fruitless).

Completely understandable that she is upset.

Also completely understandable that you are not.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:11:45 PM EDT

[#22]

You should have a sympathy three-way.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:11:50 PM EDT

[#23]

Quoted:
Women and logic don't ~~always~~ ever go together.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:11:53 PM EDT

[#24]

Damn shame about the tree and the bike. Now everyone should be happy.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:11:53 PM EDT

[#25]

Drama queens all.
Anything to feed all that negative shit. I swear it it like opium for them.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:13:03 PM EDT

[#26]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.
Damn shame about the bike.

damn shame about both tree and bike.

And the PC and Cell phone .... such a waste

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:13:43 PM EDT

[#27]

Quoted:
First- Darwinism cures stupidity.

I'll give that a big "hell yeah!"

This guy sounds like a career f-up.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:14:08 PM EDT

[#28]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Women and logic don't ~~always~~ ever go together.

+1

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:15:22 PM EDT

[#29]

I was in a situation like this. My girlfriend was sad because a guy we knew died a little more than a year ago. It was originally said that he died of a heart issue, but I always thought something was up.

I never liked the kid because I knew that he was a big druggie like all his friends. Later, a lot of us found out that the real reason he died was an over dose. The idiot got what he asked for. My only qualm with it was taht he made his mother go through this shit. (He was 17.)

I couldn't understand her sadness but there was only one thing to do, sit there next to her while she's sad, don't bother saying anything, it'll probably be the wrong thing. (I learned that the hard way.)

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:22:48 PM EDT

[#30]

Quoted:
Anybody that hits a woman deserves to die

Women initiate violence just as often as men. Men, however, are usually stronger and end up winning.
I am not excusing hitting women. Just as if some guy in a bar wants to fight you, the best option is to remove yourself from the situation.
I do agree that about 75% of men who hit women had no fucking business doing it and deserve a beat down at the least. Same goes for women.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:39:34 PM EDT

[#31]

tell her congrats, the house is all hers now !!!!!!!

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:45:14 PM EDT

[#32]

Quoted:
You should have a sympathy three-way.

Big +1. Its the only way to be sure.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:46:53 PM EDT

[#33]

Sounds like too much alcohol in the body of a psychopath.

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:49:12 PM EDT

[#34]

Anyone who would hit a woman is lower than worm shit. My sympathy level is less than zero.

Good riddance. Sorry the tree had to get hurt. But at least it did mankind a genuine service.

Let's see pics of the crash so we can laugh.

CJ

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:50:35 PM EDT

[#35]

I hate to be a rude ass but +2.

Quoted:
Quoted:
First- Darwinism cures stupidity.

Second, him dying probably saved her from being killed by that asshole. Thus a life lost is indeed a life saved.

+1

Posted: 8/15/2005 6:55:03 PM EDT

[#36]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

+1 and the bike.

Posted: 8/16/2005 2:21:20 AM EDT

[#37]

Quoted:
I was in a situation like this. My girlfriend was sad because a guy we knew died a little more than a year ago. It was originally said that he died of a heart issue, but I always thought something was up.

I never liked the kid because I knew that he was a big druggie like all his friends. Later, a lot of us found out that the real reason he died was an over dose.

Right. So it WAS a heart problem.

His heart simply exploded when it topped 300 BPM.

What a dumbass. A DEAD dumbass.

CJ

Posted: 8/16/2005 3:20:27 AM EDT

[#38]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

Ehh, I'm sure it'll buff out.

Posted: 8/16/2005 3:32:01 AM EDT

[#39]

Quoted:
A good friend of hers was dating this guy for 5 years. They even owned a home together. Well a few months back on his birthday her friend bought him a new desktop PC. He got really drunk and threw it out the window that night. She got pissed, so he ended up hitting her for mouthing off. She gets her cell phone out and tells him that she is going to call the cops. He grabs the phone and throws it against the wall.

The next morning she leaves him. So for the past few months my girlfriend has been calling him really bad names (no problems here) well the couple had been thinking about getting together but he got really drunk on Saturday night, got on a crotch rocket and hit a tree going 125 MPH. He died. She is now upset that he died and sad that her friend is going through a rough time. I feel nothing......dude was a dumbass. I am having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's sadness because I really don't see it as a reason to be sad. Her friend now doens't have to worry about getting back together with a POS.

She probably bought him a Macincrap... which is why he went over the edge. I'd feel the same way if I got such a POS!

Posted: 8/16/2005 4:04:32 AM EDT

[#40]

They even owned a home together.

There's the first problem right there.

Posted: 8/16/2005 4:06:13 AM EDT

[#41]

Quoted:
They even owned a home together.

There's the first problem right there.

Uh, I don't think owning a home caused him to be a drunk asshole.

Posted: 8/16/2005 4:09:54 AM EDT

[#42]

Quoted:
Quoted:
They even owned a home together.

There's the first problem right there.
Uh, I don't think owning a home caused him to be a drunk asshole.

Being a drunken asshole causes home ownership.

Posted: 8/16/2005 4:20:21 AM EDT

[#43]

Quoted:
Damn shame about the tree.

second that one it hurts getting run into at 125

Posted: 8/16/2005 4:31:51 AM EDT

[#44]

Quoted:
You're GF doesn't need logic. She needs you to hug her and give up all that 'emotional understanding' for her. Just be there for her if she wants to talk or cry on you.

Wimminz ain't logical, but they sure are fun when they're not bawlin'.

Ding We have a winner.

On both counts.

Her friend is hurt, so she's hurt, hell guys do the same thing, we've been known to go back to women who are no good for us whatsoever, right? You always hope you can "make them better".

Hope she gest over it soon and finds a non-asshole!

/PHil

Posted: 8/16/2005 4:32:41 AM EDT

[#45]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
They even owned a home together.

There's the first problem right there.
Uh, I don't think owning a home caused him to be a drunk asshole.
Being a drunken asshole causes home ownership.

Is that like the inverse correlation between the pirate population and global warming?

Oh and too bad about the bank that gave him the loan for the motorcycle since odds are he didn't have collision on the bike.

Posted: 8/16/2005 5:11:18 AM EDT

[#46]

That he died prevented further abuse. If they had married, it would have spiraled downwards into a domestic violence situation. Darwin wins - again.

Posted: 8/16/2005 5:27:29 AM EDT

[#47]

Quoted:
Anybody that hits a woman deserves to die, looks like things worked out for the best. Anybody that rides a motorcycle drunk doesn't have much of a chance either.

Bullshit! I got into a fight once with a guy when his sister came up behind me and started to hit me in the back with a baseball bat. Fortunately she couldn't swing worth a damn. After I got done with him I dropped her, one hit is all it took.

I haven't hit a woman since. But, if you throw a punch, you better be able to take a punch.