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Posted: 8/4/2005 7:16:21 PM EDT

I'm 10 days away from the 1 yr anniversary of my ex-wife having left me for an internet Romeo. My mom says this guy did me a huge favor by stealing her away. I agree,

So my question is should I get one of those fat lady cards from Spencers, & send it to him saying thanks for solving my biggest problems?

My mom says I should, but my grandma says I shouldn't. I really want to, but I don't want to be a a**hole. By the way, my ex is 5' 7" & weighs about 275.

pole coming.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:17:13 PM EDT

[#1]

Oh yes, most definitely do it.

I just thought about that, she weighs almost twice as much as me and I have 3 inches on her.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:17:39 PM EDT

[#2]

in before the pole?

eta: how much did your wife weigh when you married her???

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:17:46 PM EDT

[#3]

IBTP!!

And yes, do it.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:18:20 PM EDT

[#4]

Quoted:
in before the pole?

North...or South?

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:19:51 PM EDT

[#5]

the best revenge is living well, my ex ran off with my bestman just before the wedding and now I couldn't be happier, fuck them both, they're not worth your time or thoughts.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:19:51 PM EDT

[#6]

No.Be an adult. Move on with your life.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:32 PM EDT

[#7]

Quoted:
By the way, my ex is 5' 7" & weighs about 275.

This is different than when she was with you?

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:39 PM EDT

[#8]

No, just be happy she's gone.

Shit like that just brings them back into your circle for awhile. That's never a good thing.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:43 PM EDT

[#9]

Quoted:
Quoted:
in before the pole?

North...or South?

You choose.

Today would have been our 15th anniversary. I can noe offically forget this date forever.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:20:48 PM EDT

[#10]

man, i just remember you sharing the heartburn you were feeling.......i'd just let it go.

it would be funny as crap, but no contact at all with anyone like that is the best policy.
but thats just me.....

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:22:09 PM EDT

[#11]

Quoted:
in before the pole?

eta: how much did your wife weigh when you married her???

About 160, she was very hot. Not anymore!

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:23:57 PM EDT

[#12]

I think a nice card is a great way to show you can still be an asshole sometimes.

Sgat1r5

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:26:21 PM EDT

[#13]

Searcherfortruth,

In your heart, you know that is unnecessary.

Live good

GM

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:26:38 PM EDT

[#14]

Don't do it. My revenge came sweet as she and her lover are living in a run down shack living off PA tax payers. I own a home, a car,truck and jeep. great wife and kids. She is still friends with my sister. I love the look on her face when I roll in and make like she was never part of my former life. Oh, and I like to use the uh...uh...Sheila, thats right...whew!.. I almost forgot yer name

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:27:35 PM EDT

[#15]

Mothers know best...

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:32:38 PM EDT

[#16]

+1 on mom

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:34:14 PM EDT

[#17]

Get on with your life already. Sheesh!

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:35:37 PM EDT

[#18]

275 !!! hock.gif

Yep, huge favor, you must thank the man.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:36:56 PM EDT

[#19]

Quoted:
Get on with your life already. Sheesh!

You have no idea of how I'd like to, but she is still doing her best to cause me trouble. I can't go into it right now.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:38:22 PM EDT

[#20]

Take the $2.50 and buy Asher some popcorn at the movie.

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:44:36 PM EDT

[#21]

[ 20 ] votes for " No way, that's real low class." ??

"Buncha slack-jawed faggots"

Posted: 8/4/2005 7:50:22 PM EDT

[#22]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Get on with your life already. Sheesh!

You have no idea of how I'd like to, but she is still doing her best to cause me trouble. I can't go into it right now.

Let her try all she wants but only you can give her power. (I know that is easy to say)

You have always seemed like a good guy to me and I don't see being inflamitory or mean spirited getting you any closer to resolution or closure in this matter.

Rise above it my friend.... you know in your heart what is the right answer to this question.

Posted: 8/4/2005 8:01:10 PM EDT

[#23]

Take the high road.

Posted: 8/4/2005 8:11:55 PM EDT

[#24]

Well, the card would be funny and well deserved. However, it will just let them know you are still thinking of them; there are better ways to 'rub it in their face'.

Posted: 8/4/2005 8:30:30 PM EDT

[#25]

What ever happened to the good old ays where people'd wait till the middle of winter? Then take a steaming dump on the other person's car. Leaving a ncie frozen turd on their hood for awhile.

Posted: 8/5/2005 3:38:55 AM EDT

[#26]

Quoted:
What ever happened to the good old ays where people'd wait till the middle of winter? Then take a steaming dump on the other person's car. Leaving a ncie frozen turd on their hood for awhile.

Oh my goodnes!

Posted: 8/5/2005 3:41:47 AM EDT

[#27]

Quoted:
Don't do it. My revenge came sweet as she and her lover are living in a run down shack living off PA tax payers. I own a home, a car,truck and jeep. great wife and kids. She is still friends with my sister. I love the look on her face when I roll in and make like she was never part of my former life. Oh, and I like to use the uh...uh...Sheila, thats right...whew!.. I almost forgot yer name

Now that's funny!

Posted: 8/5/2005 3:44:46 AM EDT

[#28]

You're not over her until you can achieve an attitude of indifference towards her. Just let it go. They'll punish each other far better than you could.

Posted: 8/5/2005 4:00:16 AM EDT

[#29]

It was actually y mothers idea, but it sounds pretty funny to me. I don't think much on her anymore.

She called to talk to my son last week & started to cry & told me she really misses me. I said oh,well

Posted: 8/5/2005 4:07:26 AM EDT

[#30]

Good for you. This is the voice of experience: When you truly get to the point where you are indifferent to her, your life will be much better, and it will drive home to her the mistake she made.

Posted: 8/5/2005 4:38:53 AM EDT

[#31]

Quoted:
Take the high road.

^^^

Posted: 8/5/2005 4:42:20 AM EDT

[#32]

No, just move along.

Posted: 8/5/2005 5:05:16 AM EDT

[#33]

Send him a thank you card and send her a 10 pound box of bon bon's.

Posted: 8/5/2005 5:59:33 AM EDT

[#34]

Quoted:
No.Be an adult. Move on with your life.

+1

Posted: 8/5/2005 6:03:48 AM EDT

[#35]

If it were ME, I wouldn't do it.

Since it's YOUR life........

Hells yeah! Do it!

If you don't you're a

Posted: 8/5/2005 6:08:30 AM EDT

[#36]

Take the high road.

What he said.

Posted: 8/5/2005 6:08:49 AM EDT

[#37]

Move on.

Posted: 8/5/2005 8:00:46 AM EDT

[#38]

move on...

acknowledging shows you still think about it...

move on...

Posted: 8/5/2005 8:02:13 AM EDT

[#39]

IBTP-
and don't do it.

Posted: 8/5/2005 8:24:14 AM EDT

[#40]

Leave 'em be. Let sleeping dogs lie.

Posted: 8/5/2005 8:25:41 AM EDT

[#41]

Don't be a HATER.

Just be HAPPY

Posted: 8/5/2005 8:29:44 AM EDT

[#42]

Be the bigger person and move on with your life.

Posted: 8/6/2005 7:10:29 PM EDT

[#43]

I'm not going to do it. Him living with her is his punishment. I need not be the salt bearer.

I also like the idea of her thinking I have forgotten her.

I had her served with a restraining order yesterday, when she came to pick up my son for her 1st weekend visitation. Now we have a court day coming up. I'm sueing her for child support, & permanantly making her visitation in my county only. She is really angry now. It ruined her plans for the weekend, & she brought him home today at 1:30 instead of 6 on Sunday.

She called me to tell me she was bringing him home early, & told me the boy told her I'm always saying I still love her, & hope we get remaried.

My son is still hoping, it makes me so sad for him. I know he is the one who is being hurt the most. He got a real bad deal. No kid deserves to be from a split home.

Maybe someday I will find a new wife, but it will never be the same for him. My parents were divorced when I was 7, & I know 1st hand how he's feeling, & what he's thinking.

Any way, it's the high road to China for me.

Posted: 8/6/2005 7:14:59 PM EDT

[#44]

Quoted:
No.Be an adult. Move on with your life.

+1

Posted: 8/6/2005 7:16:30 PM EDT

[#45]

Quoted:
Move on.

+1

275...Damn

Thats a lot of Ho-ho's!!

Posted: 8/6/2005 8:57:30 PM EDT

[#46]

I just tipped the scale to the no-s favor. Let the dead dog lie. It could bite you in the kister later. Just look forward and go on.

Over & out.

Posted: 8/6/2005 9:36:04 PM EDT

[#47]

Wait until all of your court BS is settled and THEN send the card

Posted: 8/6/2005 9:37:29 PM EDT

[#48]

Foxtrot India...Fcuk IT!
Send him a thank you card... i would...

Posted: 8/6/2005 9:47:01 PM EDT

[#49]

Let it go. Don't even give either one of them the satisfaction of knowing that they are even remotely on your mind. Why lower yourself, anyway?

Posted: 8/6/2005 11:00:52 PM EDT

[#50]

Best revenge is not to give a shit about her anymore... think of the time and effort you are using to get a card, write what you want and mail it... let it go.

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