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Posted: 10/11/2004 6:58:45 PM EDT

Lets say blind, deaf, in a wheel chair or some other physicla handicap?

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:00:14 PM EDT

[#1]

Sure, why wouldn't you IF you were in love.

Eric The(TrueRomantic)Hun

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:01:28 PM EDT

[#2]

Hmm considering I'm chair bound. I would. However its always nice to have a able bodied SO to lend ya helping hand with something out of reach and such.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:02:22 PM EDT

[#3]

I didn't marry one, but my wife is now legally handicapped.

On the plus side, we do get the good parking..............sometimes, when she needs it.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:03:16 PM EDT

[#4]

Just knowing ME, I would say that she DID..........

And the black rifle handicap grows. I am aflicted. I told her I am buying a can, probably LRM. I think she knows my handicap.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:03:33 PM EDT

[#5]

She would have to be blind to marry me.

Bobwrench

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:03:36 PM EDT

[#6]

Depends on what type of handicap, I doubt i would marry a deaf for i would have to learn sign language. If she was missing an arm or a leg I think I would, but if she was parapalegic i highly doubt it. Now if i got married and the woman was handicapped later on I would stay with her no matter what.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:04:23 PM EDT

[#7]

Absolutely. If you're truly in love (which is one of the supposed prerequisites for marriage) then a physical handicap is irrelevant.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:04:32 PM EDT

[#8]

As far as I'm concerned all women are handicapped. Never trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die. No, I'm not a bitter divorcee.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:05:39 PM EDT

[#9]

Depending on the handicap, I guess, but I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:06:22 PM EDT

[#10]

I did. Didnt bother me a bit. and it didnt slow us down any either

Birth defect left her with an amputated leg at the knee

Only reason we divorced was her inability to manage finances which caused irreconcilable differences

IE bills not being paid and no explination of where the monies were going

Still felt the same way about her when we seperated as I did when we married, just couldnt live together anymore. We still carried on a relationship for over a year after we divorced.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:06:35 PM EDT

[#11]

An old girlfriend was defective, does that count? A critical first date question is now: Are you on psychoactive (legal, like Paxil) drugs?

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:10:20 PM EDT

[#12]

Depending on how you define handicap, it could be that we ALL married people with handicaps!

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:14:33 PM EDT

[#13]

Would she have big boobs?

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:15:38 PM EDT

[#14]

A physical handicap would not be a problem to me.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:15:45 PM EDT

[#15]

I've had my share of mentally handicaped crazy ones.

Deaf I could deal with, anything else, probably would be a no-go.

now, after marraige, thats a whole other story.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:21:20 PM EDT

[#16]

No.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:21:32 PM EDT

[#17]

Quoted:
I didn't marry one, but my wife is now legally handicapped.

On the plus side, we do get the good parking..............sometimes, when she needs it.

Sounds like my situation. M.S. ?

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:21:44 PM EDT

[#18]

Give me a gimp with a good personality over a hot chick who bores me and I'd be more then happy.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:22:27 PM EDT

[#19]

Yes, women marry men all the time

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:25:21 PM EDT

[#20]

I'd marry a mute woman--in a second.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:28:05 PM EDT

[#21]

Quoted:
Quoted:
I didn't marry one, but my wife is now legally handicapped.

On the plus side, we do get the good parking..............sometimes, when she needs it.

Sounds like my situation. M.S. ?

RSD - reflexive sympathetic dystrophy.

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:29:01 PM EDT

[#22]

Quoted:
I'd marry a mute woman--in a second.

Darn, beat me to it!

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:29:27 PM EDT

[#23]

Quoted:
Yes, women marry men all the time

I was trying to be nice tonight

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:30:09 PM EDT

[#24]

As long as she gave plenty of good head and did not bitch too much why not?

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:30:12 PM EDT

[#25]

Quoted:
Sure, why wouldn't you IF you were in love.

Eric The(TrueRomantic)Hun

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:34:33 PM EDT

[#26]

I am hard of hearing, I know that we all are handicaped in one way or another.

Later,

Badredfish

Posted: 10/11/2004 7:39:54 PM EDT

[#27]

By definition, yes. I mean she would HAVE to be crazy to marry me!!

Posted: 10/11/2004 8:06:44 PM EDT

[#28]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Yes, women marry men all the time

I was trying to be nice tonight

[stevemartin] thank you....thank you very much.....i just wanna thank you....thank you...thank you....thank you......[/stevemartin]

Posted: 10/23/2004 10:17:11 AM EDT

[#29]

i DID WANT TO DO THIS GIRL WHO CAME TO LOOK AT A HOUSE I HAD FOR SALE....SHE HAD A WALKER. SHE WAS FINE AND HAD A CERTAIN SWAGGER...

Posted: 10/23/2004 10:22:44 AM EDT

[#30]

Funny thing - I didnt mention it in the thread I started earlier - but this girl that I am dating now has Osteoporosis - there is no way to "tell" and I am not too familiar with the disease - but it is a handicap - other then that, she is cool as hell. No one is "perfect" and I would MUCH rather be seeing a girl with physical handicap then a chick with snotty attitude. Personality isnt everything - but it counts for something. Besides, this chick is still pretty damn hot and "energetic"............

Posted: 10/23/2004 10:29:18 AM EDT

[#31]

Quoted:
No.

To each is own of course, but I have this feeling that if someone made a conscious decision NOT to marry BECAUSE of the handicap . . . . later in life, "fate" would teach that person a lesson. . .

Its kinda like those poeple who always do everything to apprear perfect, well adjusted, envyable, and better than you. Then, life throws them a curve ball--kinda like the Cheney's with their dyke daughter . . . . .

Posted: 10/23/2004 10:32:11 AM EDT

[#32]

I have heard the perfect marriage is a blind woman married to a deaf man.

Posted: 10/23/2004 10:54:01 AM EDT

[#33]

As long as her dicksucker and pie worked. I always wanted to bang a chick with no legs. Pick her up and have at her

Posted: 10/23/2004 11:06:16 AM EDT

[#34]

When I was younger, I had the chance to date a girl with a handicap. She was blonde, pretty and had the same moral values I did. I decided to NOT date her because of the handicap. I regret not giving her that chance.

If I had the chance to do it all over again, I wouldn't hesitate to get to know her.

Posted: 10/23/2004 12:24:57 PM EDT

[#35]

Epileplitcs are great in bed they just don't have kids because of all of the drugs they are on, and the have to use IUD's because those pills won't let "the pill" work.

Posted: 10/23/2004 12:31:47 PM EDT

[#36]

sure

Posted: 10/23/2004 12:38:51 PM EDT

[#37]

Deaf-no problem
blind-maybe
amputee-might be a bit weird but yeah. That surfer chick who lost her arm to a shark is still a cutie, for example.
wheelchair bound-a very weak maybe.
crazy-no fkn way
moonbat liberal-see above.

Posted: 10/23/2004 12:41:06 PM EDT

[#38]

Quoted:
sure

I didn't believe it at first either but go online and look up Dilantin and Topamax.

Posted: 10/23/2004 1:02:50 PM EDT

[#39]

At one of my former jobs in a restaurant there was this guy that would come in and order the same thing every time. He always came to me because he was mute, and the first time I'd seen him his brother told me what he wanted........ he was damn hot though. I woulda dated him in a minute. The perfect man..... hot, great bod, mute.

Posted: 10/23/2004 1:08:42 PM EDT

[#40]

If her handicap was less than 12, no. I hate getting beat.

Posted: 10/23/2004 1:09:00 PM EDT

[#41]

My first wife was brain dead, does that count?

Posted: 10/23/2004 1:09:00 PM EDT

[#42]

Yes, I knew my wife to be has the beginning stages of Parkinsons and I still married her. She means that much to me.

Posted: 10/23/2004 1:10:44 PM EDT

[#43]

This thread has made me realize that I'm a vain man............

Posted: 10/23/2004 1:59:40 PM EDT

[#44]

It would depend on the size of thier monthly check fro the goverment.

Posted: 10/23/2004 2:17:30 PM EDT

[#45]

I dated a blind girl in High School for almost 2 years.

After graduation she went off to school and met a blind man. They got married about 3 years later.

I still see her parents every once in a while, they are great people. I get a Xmas card every year from her and the family. The 4 (the 2 of them, my wife and me)of us even went out to dinner and dancing when they came here for our class reunion.