I noticed the thread "Need help finding someone" and I got to thinking about trying to find my dad again. He split when he found out my mother was pregnant. I never met him. I have come close to finding him by word of mouth when I was a teenager, but it ended up always being a dead end with "he used to live here and I don't know where he moved too" I think about doing it once in a while and then forget about it for a few years.
Have any of you ever done this? Was it worth it? I just want to see what he looks like, maybe find out some medical history so I know what I'm in store for down the road
People take that sort of thing for granted but it is important....you know the typical -does diabetes run in the family, heart disease, cancer, etc.. And I want to ask the shithead why he split and then never gave a shit to try and find me later on.
Can anyone recommend a place that does this and is good at it?
Thanks!