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Posted: 8/12/2004 3:10:43 PM EDT
I ran a quick errand to the store to return a few videos, & get a couple more. I picked out some & this lady with two kids walked up to the counter maybe 10 seconds ahead of me & started checking out. No big deal. I was in a hurry, because my wife was angry that I took the only vehicle to do the errand, as day care was just getting over, & she wanted to go to the gym to exersize, so I was told to be quick. So anyways, this female, who's checking out ahead of me walks off into the video store to shop some more. I saw what she was doing, & said in a mild voice,..." Come on lady, your holding everyone else up." That's when the checkout girl, voided her checkout, & started mine. The womans teenage duaghters face showed a slight feeling of shock, & the 8 to 10 year old had a strange look as well.

So was I rude, or was she the rude one?

Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:12:48 PM EDT
[#1]
you are fine, she was ignorant, and rude. You may have returned the favor though!!!!
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:12:59 PM EDT
[#2]
She was rude!  Hell, you don't check out if you're not ready.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:14:50 PM EDT
[#3]
in todays world people are self centered , it somtimes helps to wake them up to the fact that there are others in  it..... no you wern't rude .
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:14:57 PM EDT
[#4]
I'd have done the same. I dislike people are are inconsiderat of others. Ive pissed off many people in line when i felt they where just wasteing time
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:15:22 PM EDT
[#5]
She was rude, you were rude. Two rudes make a right!
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:17:17 PM EDT
[#6]
She was rude. You may have considered asking the clerk to check you out while the woman shopped rather than address her directly. Rude or not, she is presumed to be a lady. You are presumed to be a gentleman and should not be curt with a woman you are unfamiliar with.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:18:13 PM EDT
[#7]
didn't they teach you any manners in the marines!
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:20:36 PM EDT
[#8]

Quoted:
She was rude. You may have considered asking the clerk to check you out while the woman shopped rather than address her directly. Rude or not, she is presumed to be a lady. You are presumed to be a gentleman and should not be curt with a woman you are unfamiliar with.


the product of a proper up bringin
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:23:01 PM EDT
[#9]
ok, who's gonna say poke her and post pics?
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:23:10 PM EDT
[#10]
She was being ignorant & self-centered.

Too bad for her kids that mum is setting such a self-centred example.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:24:42 PM EDT
[#11]
You should have slapped her as well and spit in her face.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:24:45 PM EDT
[#12]
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:26:36 PM EDT
[#13]
Checkout means checkout to me. You have got your booty and are ready to exit premises.

Folks around here get to the checkout and hold up the line while their offspring filter in with more goods, saying "hold on a minute" and then arguing with offspring about how they can't have it...

I deal with it well now, amazing how age mellowed me out, somewhat.

Searcher, I say you did well.

Danny

Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:32:21 PM EDT
[#14]
Just so ya'll know, I didn't yell it, or say it in an angry voice. Just a mild soft, voice to let her know I & others were waiting while she re-shoped.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:33:25 PM EDT
[#15]

Quoted:
didn't they teach you any manners in the marines!



he should have been a little more polite and said:

excuse me Mam, do you mind if I go ahead of you since your still looking?
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:39:33 PM EDT
[#16]

Quoted:
ok, who's gonna say poke herin the pooper and post pics?

Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:42:08 PM EDT
[#17]
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:45:02 PM EDT
[#18]
She's an inconsiderate twat.  
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:50:08 PM EDT
[#19]
It's all about ME!!!
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:52:46 PM EDT
[#20]
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 3:59:07 PM EDT
[#21]
I know this, if my wife want's to run & get something while were checking out, if she not back by the time the checkout is done, if anyone is waiting behind me she knows to get in line behind them.

If I haven't started to unload, I will let others go ahead of me, till she gets back. I also write my check out as far as I can ahead of time, so as to make it a speedy process, or I have my cash in my hand when the total is reached. I do my best to always make it quick & easy, for others as well as myself.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:03:08 PM EDT
[#22]
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:05:02 PM EDT
[#23]
don't worry man, you are ok
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:07:13 PM EDT
[#24]

Quoted:
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Hey, didn't anyone think my first post was at least a little funny?  








Yep!

Danny
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:07:52 PM EDT
[#25]
Were her daughers hot?
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:09:11 PM EDT
[#26]

Quoted:
She was selfish and rude--I would have locked her account on the spot.  Selfish bitch.  



I did! but also so true.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:09:41 PM EDT
[#27]
Was what I did rude?
[ 3 ]  Not exactly rude, but not polites either. [ 4.05% ]
[ 2 ]  Very rude. [ 2.7% ]
[ 38 ]  She had it coming for re-shoping from the checkout line. [ 51.35% ]



[ 27 ]  You did fine. [ 36.49% ]
[ 27 ]  Imbroglio set you up man. It's his fault. [ 36.49% ]



The two highlighted are the same percentage yet the bar graphs are way off. Imbroglios hacked Poll station 6! Lockdown is emanant.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:21:41 PM EDT
[#28]
Can't stand people like that. I find it difficult to bite my tongue sometimes as well.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:37:59 PM EDT
[#29]

Quoted:

Quoted:
She was rude. You may have considered asking the clerk to check you out while the woman shopped rather than address her directly. Rude or not, she is presumed to be a lady. You are presumed to be a gentleman and should not be curt with a woman you are unfamiliar with.


the product of a proper up bringin




LADIES are NOT rude or CELF CENTERED. She addressed that presumption by putting everyone on hold...as a self centered cunt.   A LADY would have asked the people behind her if it was okay, or, she would have offered for the next person to go ahead hoping the the person behind him was a LADY or GENTLEMAN and would let her cut back in line.   Winches, strumpets, chicken-heads, limosine -liberals, welfare mommas, are rude and celf centered.                

You did the right thing. To hell with this self centered cum dumpster.

-HS

Link Posted: 8/12/2004 4:40:45 PM EDT
[#30]
You could have worded it better.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 5:02:19 PM EDT
[#31]

Quoted:
She was rude. You may have considered asking the clerk to check you out while the woman shopped rather than address her directly. Rude or not, she is presumed to be a lady. You are presumed to be a gentleman and should not be curt with a woman you are unfamiliar with.



+1

That and she was a women with kids with her, I always cut them slack

I still would have talked to the check out clerk like mentioned above


GM
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 5:08:36 PM EDT
[#32]
What a self centered bitch
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 5:09:17 PM EDT
[#33]
Who cares IF you were rude? You got home in a timely manner, and the wife was happy. What else matters?
AB
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 5:10:37 PM EDT
[#34]
Hell she will get over it.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 5:20:45 PM EDT
[#35]


 I raise my glass to you !  
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 6:47:18 PM EDT
[#36]
YOU GOTTA SLEEP WITH YOUR WIFE, NOT THAT RUDE BROAD!

Sometimes you gotta let A holes know that they are A holes.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 6:53:43 PM EDT
[#37]

Quoted:
She was selfish and rude--I would have locked her account on the spot.  Selfish bitch.  


Link Posted: 8/12/2004 6:59:19 PM EDT
[#38]

Quoted:
So was I rude, or was she the rude one?



Her!  She tried to completely monopolize the clerk, wasting the time of anybody else who wanted to check out.  I can't stand people like that.  It's good that her daughters saw her get smacked down for being a bitch.
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 7:08:22 PM EDT
[#39]
Not rude on your part at all. BTW was she a MILF?
Link Posted: 8/12/2004 10:07:06 PM EDT
[#40]
It was very arrogant of her to assume that noone would mind waiting for her to shop more. If you're not through pay for they stuff at the counter and let the people behind you be checked out. You can always go back to get more after that. I think we need to band together to teach basic manor's to the people of the world. This will be lesson two. Lesson one;Always say please.
Link Posted: 8/13/2004 11:54:53 AM EDT
[#41]
Next time,....& I know there will be. I will say, excuse me miss, are you shoping or checking out? The reason I ask is I'd like to check out, but I can't till you do. or address the check out person, & ask if I may be checked out while the nuckle head,....er....other person shops some more.
Link Posted: 8/13/2004 11:59:15 AM EDT
[#42]
Very rude ! Don't be an asshat !
(Just joking, you should have slapped the kids, too! )
Link Posted: 8/13/2004 12:03:25 PM EDT
[#43]
Are you supposed to reserve a spot in line at the grocery store before you get what you need?  Fuck no, when your shopping, you get what you want and then you go get in line.  The lady was very inconsiderate, you didn't do anything wrong.
Link Posted: 8/13/2004 5:20:25 PM EDT
[#44]
I'm glad to see that for the most part ya'll agree with me, in that I didn't believe I was rude. I could have stated it different, or talked with the checker instead, but acording to my peers on this site I did pretty good.

Was what I did rude?

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

[ 24 ]  Not exactly rude, but not polite either.  [ 10.91% ]
[ 7 ]  Very rude.  [ 3.18% ]
[ 116 ]  She had it coming for re-shoping from the checkout line.  [ 52.73% ]
[ 61 ]  You did fine.  [ 27.73% ]
[ 61 ]  Imbroglio set you up man. It's his fault.  [ 27.73% ]

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Total Votes :: 220

Only 7 rudes out of 220. You seven know what you can do with yourself? Joking, I'm joking.
Link Posted: 8/19/2004 4:06:50 AM EDT
[#45]
Mods, please lock this post. Thank you.
Link Posted: 8/19/2004 4:09:54 AM EDT
[#46]
IBTL
Link Posted: 8/19/2004 4:22:10 AM EDT
[#47]

Quoted:
She was selfish and rude--I would have locked her account on the spot.  Selfish bitch.  





Link Posted: 8/19/2004 5:29:53 AM EDT
[#48]
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