Welcome to the club! I love ham radio, my level of acivity will fluctuate depending on what else is going on in my life but I always come back to it.
What kind of activity are you interested in? VHF UHF FM or SSB? Whats you budget?
For the most bang for your buck its hard to beat the Icom IC-706MKIIG. 6m,2m, 440 FM and SSB all in one package, plus HF coverage for when you upgrade and general coverage recive for HF listening.
For antenna, if you want a one antenna does all thats easy to put up, a discone is hard to beat. No gain to speak up, but broadbanded, needs no tuning, and not very expensive. Youcan upgrade once you can get on the roof yourself.
Lately I've been using almost all Motorola and Kenwood commercial grade gear, its not cheap, and more difficult to program, but the audio and ruggedness can't be beat!
BTW, there is a new site that explores the "dark underbelly" of our hobby so to speak, and its freakin hillarious!
www.hamsexy.com Those of you that are hams will laugh your ass off, be sure to check last weeks archives!