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Posted: 5/7/2004 8:20:26 PM EDT
The Pornstar thread inspired me. I'm curious. Why or why not? Feel free to elaborate as much as you want.
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:22:15 PM EDT
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Quoted:
The Pornstar thread inspired me. I'm curious. Why or why not? Feel free to elaborate as much as you want.



nope.

then again, if she made enough to where i didnt have to work. ok
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:28:17 PM EDT
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I would marry the RIGHT exotic dancer!
I went to college with several ladies who were in the dancing business to support their kids and get an education.
I also have met several women who had made a career out of it.

With some its the means to an end.
With some its the end!

BIG Difference!
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:28:56 PM EDT
[#3]
IBTL
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:29:47 PM EDT
[#4]


Quoted:

Quoted:
The Pornstar thread inspired me. I'm curious. Why or why not? Feel free to elaborate as much as you want.



nope.

then again, if she made enough to where i didnt have to work. ok

O' YOU SOUND LIKE A woman!!!!!!
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:29:57 PM EDT
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Quoted:
IBTL




why would that be?
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:31:08 PM EDT
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I also had one who was looking into it, she got annoying.  Would I date her yea, bang the hell out of her, yea, Marry No.  

Why?

Becuase Im not planning on getting married my life is fucked enough as it is.
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:33:29 PM EDT
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Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:
The Pornstar thread inspired me. I'm curious. Why or why not? Feel free to elaborate as much as you want.



nope.

then again, if she made enough to where i didnt have to work. ok

O' YOU SOUND LIKE A woman!!!!!!



oh, your such a big silly
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:38:26 PM EDT
[#8]
Sure I would, I know several and they are really down to earth. You would be surprized by how normal they are, plus it's only a job and some have told me that atleast it's better than working somewhere like Wal-Mart. I had a good laugh and had to agree. Thanks Arvin
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:38:30 PM EDT
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This thread is worthless without pics.

+1
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:42:16 PM EDT
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I've been around a couple of dancers. Well maybe more than a couple

I've dated two. If you could call it dating. All I can say is that I couln't stand to be around them for more than a few hours at a time. Rocking bodies and alot of fun for awhile but dumb as a lump of shit. Both had kids and I'm pretty sure a drug habit as well. I know this isn't the situation for all dancers but I'd pass.

Now I have a very good friend one of four that I actually give a shit about, that is dating a dancer. He's been seeing her for almost two years. She is a little different, she has some medical bills for an illness that has required a few operations and is on several very expensive prescriptions. She is very smart, kind, funny, has a great personality, has never complained about her situation and always has a positive outlook on life. Oh, and she is gorgeous! He would marry her, but she won't do it. She thinks it will be harder on him if she dies.
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:42:50 PM EDT
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I'd have to disagree with Arvin. As a group, I'd say they are some of the most confused and unhappy people I've met. We all have different perspectives but if you're taking votes, lets drop marry and ask would I even consider trying to date an exotic dancer, even once.... NOT A CHANCE.
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 8:46:22 PM EDT
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From what I have heard alot of them are into Coke/Meth have to take that into account.
Link Posted: 5/7/2004 9:00:06 PM EDT
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I lived in NYC with a young lady who was a professional ballet dancer.  In the off season, she supported herself as a cage dancer at several clubs.  She graduated Magna Cum Laude from a prestigious university with degrees in both Psychology and Dance.  Unfortunately, neither paid the bills.  Far as I'm concerned, it was just another job that paid the rent.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 5:59:53 AM EDT
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No. Too screw up in the head to be a good mother.

Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:03:25 AM EDT
[#15]
Fuck no.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:04:52 AM EDT
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Quoted:
Would you marry an Exotic Dancer?  


No or a pornstar or a prostitute or a pickpocket or an alien, etc. etc. ad nauseam....
Sheesh !
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:06:30 AM EDT
[#17]
No comment
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:43:33 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:44:47 AM EDT
[#19]

Originally Posted By raven
IBTL



Why do guys do this all the time?
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:52:39 AM EDT
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well i dated one, i really cared for her, she made good money. i guess i would. i thought about it with her. until she was used on the strip clubs billboard.  i always had a fear that some guy would come up to me and say somthing and start a fight. Ronald
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:53:01 AM EDT
[#21]
I would not date one let alone marry one. Way to fucked in the head.

Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:54:08 AM EDT
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I might, but I wouldn't tell anybody about it.  I have seen some smokin hot dancers.

To answer the hun.  Yes, I have met some that were not whores.  Just college girls who needed tuition money.  They were no more whores than any of the other girls on campus and probably less than most.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:59:56 AM EDT
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Quoted:
Provided she wasn't a whore.



There's two kinds of strippers, ones who are whores, and ones who aren't whores yet.

They get sucked into that stripper lifestyle, and any morals and values they may have once had go out the window.  They see guys as nothing but ATM machines that require a bump and grind instead of a PIN number.  Strippers, while often some of the hottest women on earth, and generally some of the most pathetic.  Not to mention, they typically think that their customers are the most pathetic type of men.  If you think she's smiling at you because she thinks you're different than all the other losers that come in, think again.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:04:03 AM EDT
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Quoted:
There's two kinds of strippers, ones who are whores, and ones who aren't whores yet.

They get sucked into that stripper lifestyle, and any morals and values they may have once had go out the window.  They see guys as nothing but ATM machines that require a bump and grind instead of a PIN number.  Strippers, while often some of the hottest women on earth, and generally some of the most pathetic.  Not to mention, they typically think that their customers are the most pathetic type of men.  If you think she's smiling at you because she thinks you're different than all the other losers that come in, think again.


Cha-ching.

On...the...money. Good post.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:04:06 AM EDT
[#25]

Quoted:
It might bother me, just a wee bit, but IF I fell in love with an 'exotic dancer' I would have no problems marrying her.

Provided she wasn't a whore.

I wouldn't marry a wealthy female doctor or lawyer if they had ever been a whore.

Now, the question is - are there any topless dancers who are not also whores?

Is 'whore' a perjorative term?

Damn straight it is!

Eric The(HolierThanFew)Hun




Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:11:41 AM EDT
[#26]

Quoted:

There's two kinds of strippers, ones who are whores, and ones who aren't whores yet.




Now thats funny!
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:13:53 AM EDT
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i've gone out with three "dancers" in my life.  all three were very smart and two have their heads on straight.  

the messed up one came from a wealthy faimly and private schools.  she was ok until she started doing x.  she ended up marrying a mexican.  

one came from a single mom faimly who went to private catholic schools until he mom married a professor of dentisty at a notable eastern university.  after me she married a bass player in a band that has two grammies.

the third one came from a dirt poor southern faimly, has a little boy, owns her own house and has $25,000 in stocks and mutual funds i keep track of for her.

the two woman who have their heads on straight stayed away from drugs and both were "real dancers" and not just strippers.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:26:31 AM EDT
[#28]
Would I marry one?  Nope
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:27:38 AM EDT
[#29]

Quoted:

Quoted:
It might bother me, just a wee bit, but IF I fell in love with an 'exotic dancer' I would have no problems marrying her.

Provided she wasn't a whore.

I wouldn't marry a wealthy female doctor or lawyer if they had ever been a whore.

Now, the question is - are there any topless dancers who are not also whores?

Is 'whore' a perjorative term?

Damn straight it is!

Eric The(HolierThanFew)Hun




Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?





Jesus didn't marry Mary Magdelaine, did He
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:29:17 AM EDT
[#30]
Does wet t-shirt contests and hot legs contest count? If so yes I did, now she would not strip. One of her girlfriends dared her to enter a wet tshirt contest once. This was after we were married. She did it and won. That same night at the same club they had the hot legs contest, she enters that one and wins. She must have gotten it out of her system because she never has done it again.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:41:12 AM EDT
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Quoted:

Jesus didn't marry Mary Magdelaine, did He



The jury is still out on that one. Many biblical scholars are not sure.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:41:42 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 7:47:08 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:00:28 AM EDT
[#34]
ETH, while the book is fiction, The Davinci Code is based on a segment of belief within certain theological circles regarding the theory of the Holy bloodline. Discovery Civilization had an extensive documentary on it a couple months ago and there were numerous scholars debating the theory. IIRC, ABD had a show on the same topic. Again, numerous scholars debated it.

The conclusion that both documentaries came to was that there's not enough evidence to either prove or disprove it either way.

I didn't just make it up.

Really.

Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:07:27 AM EDT
[#35]
Marry one?  no.

They do make a delightful drinking buddy though!
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:15:50 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:31:50 AM EDT
[#37]
NO WAY  
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:31:59 AM EDT
[#38]
ETH, I don't want to hijack this topic with this specific debate (which really is a debate over whether or not some biblical scholars believe this, not whether or not it's true).

Start a new topic if you like, and I will continue to search for the transcripts of both documentaries so that I may provide you with a couple of the names of the scholars who argues on favor of the Jesus/Magdeline relationship, and emerge from the debate as a winner.

Ben(UnderstandingTheSpecificDebateInWhichWeAreEngaged)Dover

Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:38:47 AM EDT
[#39]
I would marry a stripper.

Was Mary Magdelaine hot?
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:45:20 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:10:21 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:18:20 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:28:06 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:36:06 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:00:34 AM EDT
[#45]

Quoted:

Quoted:
It might bother me, just a wee bit, but IF I fell in love with an 'exotic dancer' I would have no problems marrying her.

Provided she wasn't a whore.

I wouldn't marry a wealthy female doctor or lawyer if they had ever been a whore.

Now, the question is - are there any topless dancers who are not also whores?

Is 'whore' a perjorative term?

Damn straight it is!

Eric The(HolierThanFew)Hun




Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?




How dare you question Eric the Hun, Grand Mullah and spiritual leader of the Christian Taliban!!
Infial!! Repent now or suffer the curse of a 1000  lice infested camels ass fucking you through out eternity!!
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:07:02 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:33:06 AM EDT
[#47]
by ETH,...Just remember the Code of Conduct and we will all go home safe and sound this evening!
[/quoute]

Absolutly ETH, just watching your back and clarifying your 'position' as I see it.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:41:16 AM EDT
[#48]
in an attempt to rehijack this thread back on topic from the religious right and those going to hell

NO i wouldn't

i had a roommate that dated and married one. She was an ok girl but had a rough history and had not been dacing long when they met.  I went out with several of her freinds and at one time probobly knew every topless dancer in pensacola florida. With a RARE exception they are ALL fucked in the head in one way or another. Out of over a hundred or so that i knew personally 1 actually finished her degree and became an nurse anesthtist. Last i heard she was dancing again because it paid better.

90% of them are on drugs or alcholics. Most have at least 1 kid by POS that has since bailed on them.

There are too many decent women out their without the bagage to even consider a stripper.

Although i rather do enjoy looking at them
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 10:41:28 AM EDT
[#49]
Actually, being a stripper or being in the sex trade IS different than being a bank teller... and the motivation is NOT just money.  Sometimes it is the attention, sometimes it is the drugs, sometimes it is low self-esteem... etc, etc

Consider this.... someone who is a stripper has put a price on something that most people would only share with someone they are intimate with.  What part of being a bank teller is relevant in your sex life (other than the occasional fetish dress up game )?  

IMHO, FWIW, yadda, yadda.... someone who can put a price on something that should be so special and personal has something fundamentally fucked up with them.  
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 11:05:33 AM EDT
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