... Seriously, I'm not sure that there really is such a thing. A crisis from what? A crisis is finding out you have a debilitating and terminal disease. Or finding out your son or daughter was killed the night before.
... A crisis? From what, your career or your wife? You don't need to ask this board how to handle those types of "crisis". You already know that answer. My hedge against “the crisis” is fighting boredom. Every time I start feeling sorry for myself I look at others that have it so much worse. It’s not their pathetic situation that gets me through my crisis but rather observing how they handle it with grace, strength, and motivation and are looking for anything but pity.
... So without trying to sound callous or indifferent, I have a suggestion if you’re experiencing a mid life crisis. Do something completely different from your normal routine. It doesn’t need to involve huge amounts of cash but it should require a significant amount of your time. Plan to build something. Whether it’s a Harley Davidson from the ground up, contracting your own pool and backyard landscape or erect a cabin up north. Put your project manager’s cap on and dig into a long-term project like these and you’ll forget all about your crisis. I’m not big on organized religion but if you were of the inclination maybe some time donated to your church or some other worthy charitable cause would be good for you. If you’ve never attended college, start taking some evening courses in something that may interest you but have no experience in.
... Even relatively small “adjustments” in your life can keep you “fresh”. Example, when is the last time you rode your bicycle to work or to the store? What do you do after dinner? Change it, go for a walk. Skip lunches or leave the site and have it somewhere else with different people. Change your diet and join a gym. This list goes on. If there are mid-life crisis they’re temporary things.
... By the way [b]The_Macallan[/b], thanks again for dropping by last Friday with the nice gift for my recreation room, and I’m not sure what the hubbub was all about a later that night prank phone call, but if it really was me; I’m sorry dude. Please come by sometime when you can stay a bit longer bro.