From someone who has partied in TJ take it from me, that place is a fucking shit hole to the core.
It is only cool if you are underage and can't party here in the states. That is the ONLY reason I can see why someone would leave San Diego and go to TJ.
I have been in a few of the strip clubs down there and they are nothing like the states. The woman are very nasty for the most part and some of the clubs are in basements with leaky pipes and weird smells.
You run the risk of dropping your drawers and getting rolled by the bitches "home boys". It happens all the time.
Stay in San Diego and party around the Gas Lamp District, you will have more fun and won't get in trouble.
By the way, there are plenty of horny chicks here in the U.S. If you really want a hooker, come to Vegas and drive about 45 minutes out to Pahrump, you can get fixed up real nice there. It's gonna cost you though, plan on dropping around $300 to get off.