[b]IF[/b] Applebee had been paying attention this man would not have gotten so close to him to begin with.
How close you do allow a strange to you?
a vagrant? a moocher at the traffic light?
[b]Nobody can state "un-equivocally" what is the "correct" thing to do in a situation like this, (which is why there's no reason to ask these questions). You will do what you have trained to do.[/b]
If you are the type of person who exits a vehicle, with your mind on collecting your crap outta the front, back or trunk. And don't "observe" what's going on around you, then what happens happens and I'd advise you do what the man with the gun tells ya to do.
If on the other hand, your a person who is "observant" and one who doesn't allow the un-authorized approach of strangers, and you are in the habit of being verbal with strangers and state something like "Who the hell are you?, What do you want? or that's close enough!" Then your reaction to this unwarranted approach will have already placed you into action, allowing differing choices to be available to you.
They may be mad or taken a-back, "when", in the course of my day, I stop at a red light (on my scoot) and notice a "moocher" advancing in my direction only to be greeted with "Stop Right There, I don't want what ya got, ain't got nuthin for you, so [b]STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME[/b]!" But I have yet to have been treated worse than being "cursed at" which I am more than happy to smile at and respond with "have a nice day." [b]And they have not violated my space.[/b]
Most criminals are cowards, it takes far more courage to resist or train for trouble than it does to commit it.
YMMV,
Mike
PS - for what it's worth I was brought up believing that allowing a crime to be commited in your presents or to you, merely encouraged the criminal to do it again to someone else. In olden times they'd have charged ya for giving him your wallet. I think it's best to "pay attention" giving ya more choices up front, but would not hesitate to comply, cower or do most anything to pacify the assailant, right up to the point where I shot the bastard, which makes certain nobody else will be harmed, robbed or otherwise molested by this particular perpetrator.