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Posted: 6/24/2017 12:43:05 AM EDT
Growing up we always had dogs. But for the last 4 years I've longed for the day we don't have dogs. I love my GSD, have had her about 10 years, but I'm so fucking tired of the shedding. I'm so tired of her tripping me up and always in my way.
It used to be bearable but my wife has been bugging me for 2-3 years for another dog. I finally gave in last December. She got a spoiled 6 year old Shih Tzu. Rescued him. He's a pretty good dog but he wants it his way. And now he's obsessed with me and has to be under my feet too. So now I have him always bugging me while I work from home. And my GSD that used to be lazy and wouldn't bother me all day while I worked has to prove herself to the new asshole 24/7 so they are both up my ass all day everyday. At night he gets scared and wants to be in bed with us and he'll go side to side for hours. All the while you hear CLICK CLICK CLICK from his nails on the floor. That noise is about to drive me fucking crazy. My wife barely cleans him, let alone cut his nails. I have to do it. Just like I have to trim his hair and take care of him all day long even though she promised I wouldn't have to. That's why I'm awake now. He started clawing on the bed. I was out hard but now I'm wide awake. And to top it off the GSD won't sleep in her bed in the living room, she wants to sleep on the floor in our room so you hear her adjusting and slopping all night. I'm tired of it all. If I didn't work from home it wouldn't be so bad. If I put them outside he'll dig out if he's out there too long. And they will both bark non stop if he doesn't dig out. Sure, everyone will say to train them to not bark. But you try training a dog while you're at work. No it's easier to just let them back in and shut my office door. But then my office gets hot because I have a glass wall and I hear them both laying up against the door and their nails clicking every time they move and their slopping noises while they lick themselves constantly. And don't even get me started on the house smelling like dogs. I'm fucking over it. I need peace in my life. |
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Growing up we always had dogs. But for the last 4 years I've longed for the day we don't have dogs. I love my GSD, have had her about 10 years, but I'm so fucking tired of the shedding. I'm so tired of her tripping me up and always in my way. It used to be bearable but my wife has been bugging me for 2-3 years for another dog. I finally gave in last December. She got a spoiled 6 year old Shih Tzu. Rescued him. He's a pretty good dog but he wants it his way. And now he's obsessed with me and has to be under my feet too. So now I have him always bugging me while I work from home. And my GSD that used to be lazy and wouldn't bother me all day while I worked has to prove herself to the new asshole 24/7 so they are both up my ass all day everyday. At night he gets scared and wants to be in bed with us and he'll go side to side for hours. All the while you hear CLICK CLICK CLICK from his nails on the floor. That noise is about to drive me fucking crazy. My wife barely cleans him, let alone cut his nails. I have to do it. Just like I have to trim his hair and take care of him all day long even though she promised I wouldn't have to. That's why I'm awake now. He started clawing on the bed. I was out hard but now I'm wide awake. And to top it off the GSD won't sleep in her bed in the living room, she wants to sleep on the floor in our room so you hear her adjusting and slopping all night. I'm tired of it all. If I didn't work from home it wouldn't be so bad. If I put them outside he'll dig out if he's out there too long. And they will both bark non stop if he doesn't dig out. Sure, everyone will say to train them to not bark. But you try training a dog while you're at work. No it's easier to just let them back in and shut my office door. But then my office gets hot because I have a glass wall and I hear them both laying up against the door and their nails clicking every time they move and their slopping noises while they lick themselves constantly. And don't even get me started on the house smelling like dogs. I'm fucking over it. I need peace in my life. View Quote |
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Not us - we're died in the wool dog parents. Hell, we don't really even go on "away" vacations any more, because we don't want to stress the babies with boarding.
But I can understand where you're coming from - I had dogs all my life growing up, and much to my surprise, my parents are through with it and refuse to get a dog, even though we tell them they need the companionship and walking exercise, and the house guarding assistance. |
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The first few months are tiresome because you need to teach the doggies but other than that - no.
Especially when they are old. They get old too quick. I have 3 beagles and while they keep me busy sometimes I don't mind it. They are such a comfort. I accept the shedding and other little things that go along with having a dog. I love taking care of my babies. I've always had a dog, can't imagine life without them. |
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Get grooming clippers. Shave it like a poodle. Your wife isn't grooming the dog. Laissez les bon temps roulez. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Growing up we always had dogs. But for the last 4 years I've longed for the day we don't have dogs. I love my GSD, have had her about 10 years, but I'm so fucking tired of the shedding. I'm so tired of her tripping me up and always in my way. It used to be bearable but my wife has been bugging me for 2-3 years for another dog. I finally gave in last December. She got a spoiled 6 year old Shih Tzu. Rescued him. He's a pretty good dog but he wants it his way. And now he's obsessed with me and has to be under my feet too. So now I have him always bugging me while I work from home. And my GSD that used to be lazy and wouldn't bother me all day while I worked has to prove herself to the new asshole 24/7 so they are both up my ass all day everyday. At night he gets scared and wants to be in bed with us and he'll go side to side for hours. All the while you hear CLICK CLICK CLICK from his nails on the floor. That noise is about to drive me fucking crazy. My wife barely cleans him, let alone cut his nails. I have to do it. Just like I have to trim his hair and take care of him all day long even though she promised I wouldn't have to. That's why I'm awake now. He started clawing on the bed. I was out hard but now I'm wide awake. And to top it off the GSD won't sleep in her bed in the living room, she wants to sleep on the floor in our room so you hear her adjusting and slopping all night. I'm tired of it all. If I didn't work from home it wouldn't be so bad. If I put them outside he'll dig out if he's out there too long. And they will both bark non stop if he doesn't dig out. Sure, everyone will say to train them to not bark. But you try training a dog while you're at work. No it's easier to just let them back in and shut my office door. But then my office gets hot because I have a glass wall and I hear them both laying up against the door and their nails clicking every time they move and their slopping noises while they lick themselves constantly. And don't even get me started on the house smelling like dogs. I'm fucking over it. I need peace in my life. |
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Yes, tired of piss on the carpets
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Maybe if I didn't get woken up every fucking night. I just want to be asleep right now but I'm pissed off. I kicked them out of the room and shut the door but now the little dog is barking and my wife is snoring. I'm about to lose my cool.
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Nope. We don't like shed fur everywhere, smelly houses or pain in the ass dogs so we get short haired breeds, keep them clean and train them.
ETA: I would stuff that bugger in a crate somewhere far away from my bedroom. |
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It has been a while but I think it is let the good times roll in French or I am drunk and made that up
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Maybe if I didn't get woken up every fucking night. I just want to be asleep right now but I'm pissed off. I kicked them out of the room and shut the door but now the little dog is barking and my wife is snoring. I'm about to lose my cool. View Quote |
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Maybe if I didn't get woken up every fucking night. I just want to be asleep right now but I'm pissed off. I kicked them out of the room and shut the door but now the little dog is barking and my wife is snoring. I'm about to lose my cool. View Quote |
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Have talk with wife about taking care of dogs. Have her pitch in on grooming or have her take dogs to groomer on her time/dime.
Board dogs and take a vacation. Come home, enjoy dogs. Be the Alpha. |
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Sometimes. Especially when I'm sore and tired. Constantly stepping over them.
Couldn't imagine not having them though. They bring a smile to my weary face. Course we do have six Goldies. |
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Have talk with wife about taking care of dogs. Have her pitch in on grooming or have her take dogs to groomer on her time/dime. Board dogs and take a vacation. Come home, enjoy dogs. Be the Alpha. View Quote I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. |
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I like my dog, he's a good dog, most of the time
I don't think I'll ever get anther after he's gone, although he's got 8-10 good years left so maybe it'll be different by then but yes I get tired of the midnight barking for no reason (only happens once a month maybe) yes It gets a little doggie smelling once in a while he needs haircut every 90 days and sheds like crazy all the time. but he's my buddy, sad to see me leave and glad to see me come home. |
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It's not even 10:00 PM yet. Are you old. I can't wait until I can get to a place with more land. I'll go from two to a personal pack of dogs. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Maybe if I didn't get woken up every fucking night. I just want to be asleep right now but I'm pissed off. I kicked them out of the room and shut the door but now the little dog is barking and my wife is snoring. I'm about to lose my cool. |
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I absolutely cannot imagine life without my GSD. Best thing I've done with my life in a long time
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My wife is suffering with some really heavy shit right now and can't handle me asking her to do something. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. View Quote |
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Nope.
My dog is my job. No dog = no job. Brushing, bathing, and proper training might help you with the issues you're having. Because I don't have any with mine. |
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My wife is suffering with some really heavy shit right now and can't handle me asking her to do something. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. View Quote |
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My wife is suffering with some really heavy shit right now and can't handle me asking her to do something. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Have talk with wife about taking care of dogs. Have her pitch in on grooming or have her take dogs to groomer on her time/dime. Board dogs and take a vacation. Come home, enjoy dogs. Be the Alpha. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. |
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Well, there's this other thread where we discuss how to off a cat without it thrashing around...http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/2006798_Thrashing--blood-all-over-ground-and-shoes---.html
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Just be there for her as much as you can. Talk to someone professional if you need to. Go fishing for a little bit and take your mind off things View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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My wife is suffering with some really heavy shit right now and can't handle me asking her to do something. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. |
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Nope. I love my dog. I'm an animal person and have always loved my dogs and cats, even the asshole ones.
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My wife is suffering with some really heavy shit right now and can't handle me asking her to do something. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. View Quote Seriously man, get some me time for 24 or 48 hours if you can. |
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If she can't take care of herself then why the fuck did you get her a dog to take care of? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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My wife is suffering with some really heavy shit right now and can't handle me asking her to do something. I'm all by myself when it comes to this shit. I have to be the rock all the fucking time. I'm snapping because I have to hold it in 24/7. Just gotta vent guys. Life can really fucking suck. I just want one day of fucking peace in my life. I knew how it would play out. Truth is I fell for the little shit at first but now I'm over it. |
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Fuck no... yes its work but my shepherds are my best friends... I may have to sacrifice some sleep, or time for them, but if and when it ever came down to it, those dogs would sacrifice theirs lives for my [their] family... Even if one of them is playing a little to rough with my kids, the other will come running like a bat out of hell and choke the other out... Dog lives matter yo...
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The best hunting dog and companion I've ever had has a rare form of cancer that requires lots of nasty medication. He's only 3 and will die in less than a year. It's incurable. One of the side effects of the meds is that he has to pee a lot. He wakes me up 3-4 times a night to go out. I wish I would have to get up several times a night for the next ten years for him because that means he would still be alive. But sadly I won't because he will be dead soon. Be happy for what you have OP.
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You refuse to sort out your dog pack. Now you are on here like Oprah. Dogs who can't control their mouths ride the lightning. Batteries are cheap. I've yet to meet a dog who won't bark through a collar correcting them if it's actually an appropriate time for them to do so. That yapping crap stops really quick. http://www.gundogsupply.com/tritbar.html Print this out and take it to a local dog groomer. Then inspect to see if they did it right. When/if they don't hand it back to them and demand they do it right. There should be no noise at all. Ever. Costs a whopping $10-15 and saves a headache for you. http://www.germanwatchdogs.com/blog/nails-how-long-is-too-long-for-your-german-shepherd/ Dogs are easy. That wife thing is going to be harder and far less rewarding... View Quote Yeah I'm ranting on here, but have you ever just got fed up man? If you say you haven't you're lying. |
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I love my dog. Sometimes I hate my dog.
Largely, he's a useless toy that I have to feed and makes me pick up literal shit. On the other hand, my 65lb tactical (he's black) rapid automatic attacking alarm system is pretty good. It runs on dog food and has a very loud audible alarm. ETA: if you set that alarm off, it also links up with a system which spews a very fast moving lead/copper mixture. |
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Me. Tired of them but the wife just made us get another little shit dog.
Pisses on the floor, shits on the deck. Always in the way with the other two dogs. It's horrible. They are a real pain in the ass. I long for the day of no pets. |
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Used three different bark collars on my GSD over the years. Two were automatic, the current one is a remote. She figured out the pattern on the auto ones. And I've tried for hours getting her to stop barking with the remote and all I can say is the bitch is stubborn. Yeah I'm ranting on here, but have you ever just got fed up man? If you say you haven't you're lying. View Quote I get what you're doing. You can do that or fix the problem... |
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Me. Tired of them but the wife just made us get another little shit dog. Pisses on the floor, shits on the deck. Always in the way with the other two dogs. It's horrible. They are a real pain in the ass. I long for the day of no pets. View Quote I didn't even mention the diarrhea and vomiting she's been leaving around the house. I've spent $600 at the vet in the last two months because of it and the last thing they suggested was to start giving her benafiber. All her tests look good. Not to mention you can't walk in the back yard without watching for yard bombs. We have almost an acre fenced in and she shits within 10 ft of the porch every damn time. |
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I have a 1 year old little girl but when the in laws have us take care of their dogs pretty much all of it falls on me.
I love those dogs like family but I totally get how you feel. One of them is old so she pees and shits wherever, and is a Yorkie so she's a total bitch to me anyways. Even though they're bathed they always smell like dog, and they trip me up the same as you describe. It's one thing after another and I can't wait until they get picked up by the in laws once they get back from a vacation. It just becomes another chore, really |
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What is your wife suffering from? Fibromyalgia or some other fake woman mental disorder?
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