On Saturday I picked up my 9 year old daughter for our first long visit. She is going to spend the summer with me. We have never spent more than a few hours together alone, so this is something new. Why didn't I take a bigger part in her life before? Probably a bit of immaturity on my part mixed with some hostilities from my ex.
Either way, I have her for the summer. I guess she is a good kid. She does throw pouting tantrums when she doesn't get her way, but she is 9. I have to keep reminding myself of that. Her living conditions at her mom's house aren't that great either. They are a classic Arkansas welfare family. The ex has 4 kids (only one is mine) and lives in a two bedroom house with her husband and mother. Nobody works and nobody has "time" for the kids. So my daughter is suffering in the "academics" department. I saw her report card and she is in remedial classes and doing well compared to the other kids in her class. However in her standardized tests she is below average in just about every subject. Her mom accredits her poor performance to genetic defects or disabilities. After only spending a few days with her I am seeing that her mind is wide open to learn. So, I think her poor test scores are a result of a disfunctional home life. She can read, but not as well as my 8 year old nephew. She isn't "stupid" by any means. She understands things that she has been exposed to and wants to learn new things.
Anyway, to make a story that is already growing long shorter, what is the best way to boost her academic abilities (reading, math, and science) substantially within the next six weeks without burning her (or me) out? I was thinking computer games that teach would be good for both of us to work on together, trips to museums and zoos, and lots of reading together. Am I too far off target with my strategy?