WOW. Thanks again for all the great replies, support, and prayers. A couple of people mentioned Atkins. Although Atkins produced really good results for me at one time, I find it very difficult to maintain. The one thing that works for me is structure and the realization that food is there to sustain me, not to entertain me. I eat lots of fruit, a deli select turkey sandwhich for lunch, and a chicken breast with rice and a veggie for dinner. No more cokes, lots of water. No eating after 7pm. Finding something to do instead of firing up the pit and sitting around it drinking beer on weekends will be the real challenge [:D]. Walks in the morning and evenings until I get stronger. For those that offered to partner up, I might take you up on that in the future. Right now I have to (re)train myself.
I hate to bump this up again.....I promise I am not an ATTENTION WHORE....LOL..But I wanted to respond to all the great replies and tell all of you ... Thanks.