I have not. We have some friends that are going through some problems in their marriage. While she would go to work in the evenings, he would lay on the couch and sleep instead of watching the kids (4 and 9). They complained to their mother. She confronted him and this led to a huge fight in which he declared that she could not find a better husband. She answered that with a line something to the effect of "maybe I already have someone in mind". She was not serious. At this point, he got pissed and started threatening to kill whoever it was she had in mind. He then promptly whipped out his dick and threatened to piss on her for not respecting him. Apparently, it was decided that she was not worthy of piss so he spit on her. Then he called her names that would land me in the grave (plus I would never call my wife names like that) then he spit on her again. Well, she kicked his ass out and is having problems taking him back without counseling and anger management classes. They have been married for 12 years. The only history between them is verbal abuse, cussing each other, from both sides. I talked to him and he feels like shit and knows what he did was inexcusable. He says he wants to stay with her. Do you guys think a person could recover from such an incident. I don't, but wanted some other opinions. I wonder if his actions are an indication that he will get physical and hit her later? They seem to be asking us for some guidance and I don't have a clue. I am leaning towards......stay the hell out of it and don't answer the phone. Any opinions?