A few weeks ago one of their overly-PC responses on a thread had me furiously typing out a rant/manifesto/suggestions-type letter to Oleg and Co.
After 2 pages I stopped and shit-canned it.
The bottom line is that THR is a private site owned by a single individual and modded by people that seem to share a common idea and stick by it. They set the rules and show little inclination to expand the scope of the board’s focus.
I can totally support their right to do that as it is private property but it doesn’t necessarily mean that I have to agree with it or play along.
Any on-line community will grow and change as time goes by. There are high and low points and a good board will grow and re-tailor itself (within limits) to the needs of the community. ARFCOM is a good example of that. Do we get along 100% of the time? Does everyone follow every rule every time? Nope, but with the help of mods and staff that are adults and live in the real-world, as well as cyberspace, we do a pretty good job keeping things lively and civil at the same time.
I have the overwhelming suspicion that the mindset of THR has become “if we act like certain things, ideas and language don't exist then they will go away and we’ll be better for it.” A bit too “let’s pretend” for my tastes and temperament.
Like I said, I’m giving THR a rest for a bit. I did the same with GT a while back when things got a little crazy over there.
Oh, and if anyone is tempted to go running back to TRH and do a "look what they're saying about us" thread, trying to create a tempest in a teapot, please don't. I'm not trying to start a war or even to change how THR is run, just voicing an opinion among on-line friends.
Remember it’s the only the Internet, it’s not worth getting upset about. [8D]