I have a Marlin 357 carbine I've had a long time. People bad talk 357 for deer, but it's not much off a 30/30. You can throw a 158 gr at 2000 compared to a 150 at 2300.
The thing is just treat it like a bow and go for the double lung shot. Usually a deer will lay down within 25 yards of that hit. As long as you give him a little time, he won't get back up. A lot of deer have been killed with a lot less like 32-20.
The gun has almost no felt recoil. On the other hand I have two 44 carbines, a Marlin and a Browning 92 and they both kick more than a 30-30 and are very sensitive to hold. You have to hold them the exact same way every time and hold them tight to get them to shoot well.
If you put a William's Foolproof rear sight on a Marlin, you should be good to go. Most of the new Marlins have horrible triggers from the factory, so you might want to count in a trigger job. I don't know if you could get that handled before opening day this year or not.
Overall, the 357 is adequate for deer if you pick your shots and can shoot. It's also hell on beavers and coyotes with 140 HP's. Don't rule out the 243/260 bolt gun though. A Remington Model 7 is a very nice rifle you never burn out on.