Listened to NPR, for the first time over 10 seconds today. The subject was "Should we make it policy that a teenager that gets PRESCRIPTION birth control have to notify the parents". The guest was a liberal OB/GYN and Democratic representative for Milwaukee. He made me want to puke.
This guy was obviously against notifying the parents. The thrust (I made a funny, ha!) of his logic was that kids are going to do it anyway, and many kids aren't educated by the parents and/or parents will not talk with them about it, so by providing PRESCRIPTION birth control without notifying the parents, the kids are getting the "help" that they need to prevent unwanted pregnancy and STD's.
This makes me sick. According to the study they cited, 90% of kids who would quit taking birth control if the parents would be told, would continue to have sex, and therefore become "victims" of STD's and unwanted pregnancy.
Here is where they are oh so wrong.
1. The obvious issue of parental control and responsibility, and .gov intereference with that. One caller did bring this up, the response is "it's right because otherwise you will have STD's and unwanted pregnancy".
My issues with it:
1. Parents are responsible for and should have full control and authority over the teen. If you want to help the root cause, set up some way to educate the parents and encourage them to educate the teen, but do not usurp the parent's authority.
2. By usurping the parents authority in such a fashion, by default you teach the child that it is not important to be accountable to the parents. The system allows the teen to bypass accountability to the parents, and teaches them to not be accountable for thier behavior and to society in general. This has much larger implications for society.
3. The argument they used was flawed. 90% said they would quit using birth control but not sex if they had to tell the parents.
A. Only two types of birth control need a prescription, the injected type and the pill. It seems to me, this would encourage unprotected sex (without a condom). Thus ENCOURAGING the spread of STD's. The study did not ask how many would switch to using a condom, and that info would really be needed to complete the picture. Eliminating the prescription and switching to condoms would seem to me to be the way to address the issue while ACTUALLY addressing the issue of STD's, but what do I know?
My solution:
1. For the bleeding heart that just has to DO something "for the children": Educate parents on the importance of discussion sexual issues with teens, adopt a realistic attitude toward the issue, and insist that your kids talk to you when issues come up.
2. Insist that if they are going to do it, use a frigging condom...the best option for preventing pregnancy AND STD's!
3. Stay the hell out of the teen/parent relationship when it comes to accountability, the parent/child relationship MUST be the defining factor in establishing accountability and morality.
4. Do not prescribe any drug or substance to my kid that I will not be notified about!
It seems to me this strikes the right balance between addressing the issue, while maintaining respect for privacy and parental rights.
How about it people? TheKill for President?
/rant