I dunno, I'm not inclined to just dump her at the corner over this. This seems like a solvable issue to me. It's not like we've been going out for two weeks, we've been together for almost a year. We tend to find the same activites fun, we share a few friends, she's pleasant, has a sense of humor, likes guns, likes my cooking (I enjoy cooking), hates communists, dislikes hippies, isn't crazy or tempermental, is quite loyal, and, to top it all off, is really really attractive. It's not easy to find those qualities all in one package, and in someone who also happens to like me. Unless her problems get worse, I can't see us breaking up over this; I'd much rather work it out.
Mistergreens, she's pretty petite, but I've never seen her eat a salad when there's meat to be had. If she has self esteem problems, they don't stem from food.
mejames, I'll see if I can rustle up a picture. I'm a patient man, I can take a lot of BS ;)