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Posted: 9/9/2012 7:08:49 PM EDT

Ok so I met a girl about a week ago and had been texting her back and forth all week. I called her on Wed. and basically told her I was taking her on a date. I took her out Friday and we were both drinking alot, which is cool because I like to drink and evidently so does she. We spent probably 3-4 hours boozing and talking. Then she suggested we go to another bar closer to her house, which we did. Had another beer and THEN she suggested we go back to her place for another beer on the porch (actually her parent's place). At this point it's like 2 in the morning, we talked and drank some more until about 3-3:30. Everything seemed good BUT I think I screwed up by not kissing her, just a hug when I left. She told me to text or call her tomorrow. The next day we had a short text conversation and I tried to call her later that night. No phone answer and no call back or text since saturday. Now I really do not want to call her again or text her if she doesn't call me back because I find it disrespectful. Should I wait a couple days and try to contact her again or just let it go?

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:10:11 PM EDT

[#1]

read title and thought this was a deej thread.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:10:16 PM EDT

[#2]

She got what she wanted –– free booze.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:10:30 PM EDT

[#3]

Let it go.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:11:20 PM EDT

[#4]

Jerk off like everybody else.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:11:22 PM EDT

[#5]

Call and leave several messages.

Insert youtube vid from "Swingers" where John Favreau calls the girl he met.

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Posted: 9/9/2012 7:11:31 PM EDT

[#6]

Wait a few days. Shit comes up and some times, the new guy she is talking to is not the priority at the time. If you do not ever hear back from her then just move on. About all you can do.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:11:49 PM EDT

[#7]

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:11:52 PM EDT

[#8]

Fap.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:12:17 PM EDT

[#9]

First world problems

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Posted: 9/9/2012 7:12:33 PM EDT

[#10]

Quoted:
read title and thought this was a deej thread.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:12:54 PM EDT

[#11]

Let it go.

And in before someone accuses you of drunk driving and calls for your execution.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:13:13 PM EDT

[#12]

You were drinking back at her place and you didn't even kiss her? She thinks your're gay.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:13:35 PM EDT

[#13]

Quoted:

read title and thought this was a deej thread.

Lol first post

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:13:38 PM EDT

[#14]

Post her pics on the internet for everyone and then fap

oh, and first post and all

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:02 PM EDT

[#15]

Send her a message and ask her what she is doing next weekend and ask her out again.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:14 PM EDT

[#16]

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:25 PM EDT

[#17]

move along,

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:29 PM EDT

[#18]

Now that I think about it, what's her number I'll call her and see whats up

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:34 PM EDT

[#19]

stop calling!!!

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:36 PM EDT

[#20]

Quoted:

You were drinking back at her place and you didn't even kiss her? She thinks your're gay.

Probably could've stuck it in her too.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:14:36 PM EDT

[#21]

Relax all isn't lost, you have to retreat a little bit.
Wait about 3 days and send a simple text like, "what up?"
See how she responds. She feels like you are chasing, so she is retreating.
You need to retreat, and don't be so available.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:15:22 PM EDT

[#22]

Any pictures available for more accurate evaluation of the situation ?

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:16:06 PM EDT

[#23]

99 problems and a bitch ain't one...

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:16:13 PM EDT

[#24]

Quoted:
Let it go.

This.

If she's not answering or returning your call after the first date she's not interested. You failed whatever test she ran you through or she just wanted free booze that night. I have a $20 maximum on first dates. Helps weed out the girls that just come around when they want a free meal.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:16:35 PM EDT

[#25]

Put your hair up in curlers and eat a box of ice cream.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:17:46 PM EDT

[#26]

text her insults. bitches love insults.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:18:34 PM EDT

[#27]

Quoted:

Jerk off like everybody else.

Once again Pic nails it.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:19:15 PM EDT

[#28]

Amature.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:20:31 PM EDT

[#29]

It didn't work. Move on. Better to find out now than after a long relationship.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:20:50 PM EDT

[#30]

send her a pic message of your penis

this will win you her favor and she will call you back

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:20:55 PM EDT

[#31]

Quoted:
read title and thought this was a deej thread.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:21:00 PM EDT

[#32]

Dude, DO NOT back off. Call and text her repeatedly. She's playing hard to get. You know where she lives. Go park outside her house and learn her schedule. Call her from outside her house while she is inside. If no answer, leave a message telling her you can see her and you know what she's doing. Make sure you breath heavily while leaving a message. Chicks love the heavy breathing on their voice mail.

Trust me. This will work.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:21:57 PM EDT

[#33]

Quoted:
stop calling!!!

I called her once and haven't called her since. So I've already stopped. The question is if I should even call her again or just move on.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:22:53 PM EDT

[#34]

Quoted:

send her a pic message of your penis

this will win you her favor and she will call you back

Actually had a drunken friend do this. He awoke to bewb pics. He was then pissed at himself for blacking out.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:23:03 PM EDT

[#35]

Quoted:
send her a pic message of your penis

this will win you her favor and she will call you back

I have a philosophy on this. Either, "A", the girl will like it or "B", she will be repulsed. That's two options right there which means the odds are 50/50. Therefore, 1 out of every 2 women will appreciate some random dude showing their schlong.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:23:50 PM EDT

[#36]

my vote goes for sending her a dick pic.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:24:27 PM EDT

[#37]

Quoted:
You were drinking back at her place and you didn't even kiss her? She thinks your're gay.

Parent's place. I really didn't want to get busted by her gun owning dad putting the moves on his daughter at 3am on his porch.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:24:48 PM EDT

[#38]

Quoted:

Quoted:
stop calling!!!

I called her once and haven't called her since. So I've already stopped. The question is if I should even call her again or just move on.

Move on as if she never happened.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:25:05 PM EDT

[#39]

Quoted:

Quoted:
stop calling!!!

I called her once and haven't called her since. So I've already stopped. The question is if I should even call her again or just move on.

She's telling you she isn't interested. It's passive aggressive but that's how women are.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:27:02 PM EDT

[#40]

Quoted:

Quoted:
stop calling!!!

I called her once and haven't called her since. So I've already stopped. The question is if I should even call her again or just move on.

Call her when you actually have a reason to call her. "Hey, I'm doing this, thought I would give you a call and see if you wanted to come with." Beats the hell out of "hi, we met the other night. Miss me yet?"

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Posted: 9/9/2012 7:27:06 PM EDT

[#41]

I use the 3 day rule when calling a girl. It works well.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:27:39 PM EDT

[#42]

Quoted:
Jerk off like everybody else.

Done and done.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:29:04 PM EDT

[#43]

Quoted:
stop calling!!!

stop calling....

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:29:22 PM EDT

[#44]

Don't come here for women advice, If you wanna know the newest flavor of Mt Dew to hit the streets, or how to get Prestige on COD, GD is the place...Give her a few days, shoot her a text, if nothing, move on.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:30:18 PM EDT

[#45]

Go back to chronic masturbation until you meet someone new

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:30:24 PM EDT

[#46]

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:30:47 PM EDT

[#47]

Wait till next Saturday and text her with:

Just wanted to say I had a really good time last night. Where did you learn that thing with your tongue? DAMN! :D

Wait a few seconds then text again:

OOOPS! Disregard last text, wrong ho. ;)

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:31:07 PM EDT

[#48]

send her pictures of your dick...unless you have a small one. Then find a picture of a big dick and send it to her.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:31:13 PM EDT

[#49]

Quoted:
Don't come here for women advice, If you wanna know the newest flavor of Mt Dew to hit the streets, or how to get Prestige on COD, GD is the place...Give her a few days, shoot her a text, if nothing, move on.

I already know this. However I spend so much time on here I figure it couldn't hurt.

Posted: 9/9/2012 7:31:36 PM EDT

[#50]

move on to the one

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