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Great post NG.
I'll keep you guys in my prayers.
I hold my dad in the same light. He had a stroke three years ago, and has been in a home, unable to speak. He tries to communicate, but it's very difficult and he can't form words.
I do miss his voice dearly, it was always a calming force no matter how severe the storm. I have learned to trust God more for that role in the time that has passed, though, and knowing my dad, he would probably say that his suffering was worth my spiritual growth. I'm sure that sounds like something your dad would say to you as well. Like your dad, mine was a preacher as well. He started back in 1985, late in life, though he knew the calling was there all along. ( There is a funny story regarding his decision to preach, and the "signs" from God )
Just keep taking care of him the best you can, and keep praying.
God Bless you and your family.
The toughest part is to know he has so much he wants to say, he gets frustrated but then I just speak out what he is thinking, then he nods yes or no.
He has such a great sense of humor..I asked him does he know old he is yesterday, he said yes I'm 48 years old but I feel like 102! Classis Dad..he always takes a moment to make you laugh.
Yesterday was probably the toughest day I have had the last 2 years, the reality began to sit in..I have been pretty much the primary care giver, all the doctor's visits all the midnight trips to the ER. I have enjoyed every last minute of it. One night it was 2 o'clock in the morning and he had fallen going to the bathroom, I hurried over and beat the ambulance, picked him up and put him the car..then hauled a$$ to the ER, one the way he said, "you'd better slow down or your gonna be taking a corpse to emergency room!" We both laughed and it was one of those times that I will never forget.