I don't have "manboobs" - but I do carry a forward-mounted reserve tank, otherwise known as a "table muscle." It's not outsized, but it DOES come in handy for extended operations...
As far as the "flip side" - this is for the lovely Miss Magnum...
Lemme tell ya something, if yer goin' thru all that to try to catch a man, yer lookin' for the wrong kind. I spend most of my time trying to convince my wife NOT to paint herself everyday (I actually prefer her natural colouration, believe it or don't) and I often wonder about the veracity and wisdom of the whole cosmetics industry. Frankly, I wish the whole damn industry would tak a running jump...
Weight? Hey, yer talkin' to a guy that thinks most women are too damn skinny! I don't know how these scrawny women become models, I think they look ill. Nothin' a good Midwestern farmer's diet wouldn't fix...
Clothes - woman, wear what you want. Wear nothing if you want - I'm a nudist at heart anyhow... It's always women that get after me for not wearing a shirt (or not buttoning up) - but I'm not stopping THEM from going shirtless if they want to...
Liposuction? See my comments on weight.
Shoes? Wear what you want to - I think of them as utilitarian more than anything else. Frankly, heels are impractical, and you should be able to run in whatever you have on your feet!
While boob jobs might be fun, I don't require them. Besides, home-grown is nicer than store-bought...
Shaving and waxing? Woman, G-d gave you a garden - let it grow!
So, find the right guy, then eat, drink, and be married! Most men are pretty shallow, but there are still some of us who are not...
FFZ