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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:40:48 PM EDT
[#1]
I will never forgive you for starting this thread.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:41:33 PM EDT
[#2]
Quoted: I will never forgive you for starting this thread.  |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:42:21 PM EDT
[#3]
I can't remember who all of my business contacts are, and you think I'm going to remember people I don't like?
I've got better things to fill my head with, thanks. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:43:31 PM EDT
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I try to forgive for most things. Some things I hold a grudge for a little while then forgive.. just depends on the day and the person..
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:43:32 PM EDT
[#5]
IBTP.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:44:28 PM EDT
[#6]
Quoted: I can't remember who all of my business contacts are, and you think I'm going to remember people I don't like? I've got better things to fill my head with, thanks. I'm extremely absent minded and forget shit on a regular basis but there are certain people whom when I see my jaw clenches and I get very angry. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:44:35 PM EDT
[#7]
Yes, and when they die I have them stuffed and mounted to the wall.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:44:57 PM EDT
[#8]
If you make a mistake, you own up to it.
If you have a problem with me, come talk to me about it. You can avoid a lot of problems with those two rules. I don't hold grudges, but I remember things. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:45:00 PM EDT
[#9]
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IBTP. Dammit. Needs moar pole. Stupid thread. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:46:03 PM EDT
[#10]
I regard past performance as an indicator of future behavior.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:46:39 PM EDT
[#11]
when given enough years I will get over most things.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:47:09 PM EDT
[#12]
I have found grudges to be a waste of time. so i donnt bother.
on the other hand, if i am wronged by someone, they will find it hard to get back in the "trust tree". |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:48:56 PM EDT
[#13]
Forgive and remember.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:48:57 PM EDT
[#14]
fuck ya!
i wont speak to my wife's cousin since he pulled a dick move and pissed me off... she tells me i should be "the better man" and talk to him... fuck him.... |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:49:03 PM EDT
[#15]
The correct answer I guess is no, but I think in reality It would depend on how badly I've been slighted
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:51:14 PM EDT
[#16]
No , however I WILL remember what you ,did/didn't do , and you will not get a chance to wrong me/mine again for a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time.
Other than that area my interaction with you will be pretty much normal |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:54:19 PM EDT
[#17]
Fuck yes. Cross me once and you might get away with it but if I can, I'll get you back. Cross me twice and I'll do everything I can do to fuck you over.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:56:07 PM EDT
[#18]
If someone makes a drink come out through my nose, I will hold a grudge FOR LIFE!
Consider yourselves warned. 
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:56:16 PM EDT
[#19]
Years ago I did, until I realized I was only
giving power over me to the other person Now I just move on |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:56:44 PM EDT
[#20]
Yup...I have paid people back years or even decades later.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:58:06 PM EDT
[#21]
Taking every grudge I ever had to the grave.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:58:35 PM EDT
[#22]
Yup.... I rarely forgive...
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:59:04 PM EDT
[#23]
Depends on the offense and the time frame for retribution.
The LCPL that dogged the shit out of me while on a working party in boot camp, he gets a pass. It was 37 years ago. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 2:59:19 PM EDT
[#24]
One of the few things in life that I remember are the people that wronged me. It's not easy getting on my list but once you're on it you'll never come off. I also hold a fairly robust scorched earth policy on things. I burn bridges like it's going out of style. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:00:12 PM EDT
[#25]
I have Irish Alzheimers...I forget everything but a grudge.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:00:14 PM EDT
[#26]
Hold a grudge?
Like an Ayatollah! |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:01:25 PM EDT
[#27]
Quoted: Yup...I have paid people back years or even decades later.  Care to share? |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:02:40 PM EDT
[#28]
I never forget, I never forgive...
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:03:03 PM EDT
[#29]
I don't forget...either friends and people who have been helpful or generous in some way or people who have fucked me over or ripped me off in some way. I never forget.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:03:26 PM EDT
[#30]
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If you make a mistake, you own up to it. If you have a problem with me, come talk to me about it. You can avoid a lot of problems with those two rules. I don't hold grudges, but I remember things. Well put Sir, well put. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:05:59 PM EDT
[#31]
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Forgive and remember. I am like this and I believe it is best |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:17:39 PM EDT
[#32]
never forgive or forget....
...keeps me warm at night.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:19:20 PM EDT
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Quoted: Took me to many years to realize this...Years ago I did, until I realized I was only giving power over me to the other person Now I just move on |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:19:56 PM EDT
[#34]
Depends. I have a few.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:20:54 PM EDT
[#35]
Sometimes. Though I find it a waste of time for the most part.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:23:20 PM EDT
[#36]
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... I don't hold grudges, but I remember things. This. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:23:34 PM EDT
[#37]
i don't hold grudges against people who do me wrong, but i never trust them again.
If you insult my wife or daughter, i'll do just about anything to make your life a little bit harder. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:25:11 PM EDT
[#38]
My philosophy is "Trust until proven untrustworthy." Once someone has proven to be untrustworthy, I will NEVER trust them again. Period, end of story. If you consider that "holding a grudge", then yes. Do I try to get back at them... not necessarily. But my trust is gone forever.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:26:18 PM EDT
[#39]
Im 95% forgiving , for the other 5%, I will fucking bury you given the chance .
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:28:46 PM EDT
[#40]
If it's worth holding,i hold it
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:28:50 PM EDT
[#41]
Quoted: My philosophy is "Trust until proven untrustworthy." Once someone has proven to be untrustworthy, I will NEVER trust them again. Period, end of story. If you consider that "holding a grudge", then yes. Do I try to get back at them... not necessarily. But my trust is gone forever. Exactly |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:30:07 PM EDT
[#42]
No, if I did I would hate all of you.
You've all pissed me off at some point.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:31:01 PM EDT
[#43]
All that hate's gonna burn you up, kid.
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:31:33 PM EDT
[#44]
Yup, I have a few!!
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:34:40 PM EDT
[#45]
I don't recall
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:38:36 PM EDT
[#46]
I wouldn't say it's necessarily a grudge, per se.
If you don't pay me money you owe me for work I've done, you can GET FUCKED. You are now on my SHITHEAD list and I wouldn't piss down your throat if your guts were on fire. Please understand, this is strictly a business consideration. Nothing personal, but I will never hit another lick for you, MOTHERFUCKER. You finally pay up months later and want me to come over to do another job? Yeah, sure, I'm getting in my truck right now FUCK YOU. 
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:39:35 PM EDT
[#47]
I'm staff here ... I don't hold grudges but have one hell of a shit head listing!
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:42:10 PM EDT
[#48]
Quoted:
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Took me to many years to realize this...
Years ago I did, until I realized I was only giving power over me to the other person Now I just move on Same here, It is freeing to walk away. |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:46:09 PM EDT
[#49]
I try really hard not to carry hate. It seems to bother me more than the hatee. So i just consider them thrown out of my life.
I don`t care to know good or bad about them, if they win the lottery or get squashed flat by a garbage truck, its all the same to me. I consider them not just dead, but not human any more. Not worth giving a hoot about. I do this for me and my peace, not theirs. But they need to leave me alone and don`t push it,or it won`t go well. Carry a grudge? maybe not, but i don`t forget where i left it. Scruff |
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Posted: 10/3/2011 3:47:17 PM EDT
[#50]
Quoted: I don't forget...either friends and people who have been helpful or generous in some way or people who have fucked me over or ripped me off in some way. I never forget. |
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