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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:11:54 PM EDT
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How about a strip club? See if she has a wild side in her, if she doesn't you don't want her anyways. Good girls get lap dances! [:D]
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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:19:44 PM EDT
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If she's a nice girl, you won't want to try and "stop short" with her at least until the second date.
Edited to add: I bet you didn't think that you would get info this useful, did you? |
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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:22:22 PM EDT
[#3]
stop short?
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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:33:22 PM EDT
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Quoted: stop short? [url]http://www.madblast.com/view.cfm?type=FunPage&display=1202[/url] |
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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:35:11 PM EDT
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tell her that she is welcome to bring another beautiful friend for "moral support" you may hit the jackpot.
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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:50:18 PM EDT
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My answer will be, by comparisson, boring.
On a first date, usually you want to establish some kind of intimacy. I'd suggest doing things where it will seem like you are sorta alone with each other. A non busy quiet Restraunt for dinner and "maybe" a movie. Cliche I know but for a reason. If you aren't prepared for a suggesting your place or mine to "hang out or maybe a drink" maybe a late night walk in a park or something. This is where living near a beach works wonders. When I used to go out with girls for the first time, I wanted it to be just "us" for as much as possible. When you have established that kind of relationship, THEN you can take her to a strip club for a lap dance. |
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Posted: 6/4/2002 10:54:33 PM EDT
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Warm almond oil, mood lighting, Enigma CD, Aroma Therapy Candles [:D]
Aviator [img]www.milpubs.com/aviator.gif[/img] |
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Posted: 6/4/2002 11:18:24 PM EDT
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The lady I am taking out is a girl I have been talking to for a while and has really helped me through some rough times. Then, relax! It's not really one of those scary first dates, because you already know her.z |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:36:51 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: stop short? [url]http://www.madblast.com/view.cfm?type=FunPage&display=1202[/url] Find a dance club, that allows you younguns in, that has Flamenco Dancing lessons then take her Flamenco Dancing there [:D] She will certainly remember you, one way or the other! |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:45:32 AM EDT
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If you haven't seen the movie "Something about Mary" you should as it has an excellent tip for what you should do in order to prepare for a first date.
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Posted: 6/5/2002 3:53:34 AM EDT
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Quoted: Quoted: stop short? [url]http://www.madblast.com/view.cfm?type=FunPage&display=1202[/url] Christ man, please don't post a link to that Gator infected, pop-up from hell POS web site again! [shock] |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:24:10 AM EDT
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DON'T talk about the 5 year relationship splits ville. Have fun. Manners are good. Be yourself. Be open to trying new things. TAKE HER SHOOTING. A lot of girls will either love it or hate it. But I bet it will be something she will always remember either way. If you really dig her. Try a picnic bfore the game or make her dinner. If it clicks romantically you'll know. If it doesn't she'll be a good reference for other girlz. She might even hook you up.
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:57:40 AM EDT
[#13]
A date? What's that?
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:36:21 AM EDT
[#14]
Quoted: Thursday, I am taking a beautiful women out to watch the hockey game. After the game you can celebrate the [red]Hurricane's[/red] victory at an ice cream parlor. She'll love it! |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:47:18 AM EDT
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Kung Fu master medcop say shoot her in the face.... if u shoot her in face and she run away it never ment to be.You shoot her in face and she stay ... she is yours forever.
for real.I hope it gos good for you.Take her some place nice.Dont just take her to BK or some crap like that.Ask her about her ideas on like .... see how she feels about guns. Have fun! Qbang |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:47:20 AM EDT
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Sundrop, I don't think celebrating a Hurricanes victory in Detroit would be a good idea but the ice cream parlor is pretty good. Go Wings!
Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:54:38 AM EDT
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Quoted: Warm almond oil, mood lighting, Enigma CD, Aroma Therapy Candles [:D] Aviator [img]www.milpubs.com/aviator.gif[/img] Aviator are you trying to score or put her to sleep? |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 12:32:15 PM EDT
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First of all, is she a hockey fan?
If not, then do the movie and dinner date. You need to spend some time with her, and get to know her outside of helping you with rough times. The movie will provide you with something to talk about. Listen to what she says about the movie and go on from there. Look for signals!!! Is she a little more dressed up than when you were just talking. Compliment her on her appearance!!! Do not talk about any ex GF's or being drunk and doing stupid guy things. Do not be sarcastic or talk to her like one of your guy friends. Since you have spent time with her, you are ahead of the game. She must like you to have been there for your during the rough times. Since this is the first real date, you will be getting to know each other so do not push things. Good luck. ARH |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 12:37:52 PM EDT
[#19]
Keep your hands off your genitals. Freaks them out.
Really. I know. Av. |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 12:52:55 PM EDT
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She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming!
Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 12:57:41 PM EDT
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Quoted: She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67 Most women still like doors and chairs held for them, as well as opening car doors. It is always best to err on the side of courtesy than rudeness. If she doesn't appreciate it, you will soon know, but that shouldn't be a date-breaker. |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:05:46 PM EDT
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Quoted: She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67 Do not take a woman to a sports bar with your friends on a first date. If she is going out with you, she wants to be with you and not your friends. Be a gentleman and treat her like a lady. If she does not appreciate it then one of her friends will. ARH |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:08:36 PM EDT
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Quoted: Kung Fu master medcop say shoot her in the face.... if u shoot her in face and she run away it never ment to be.You shoot her in face and she stay ... she is yours forever. for real.I hope it gos good for you.Take her some place nice.Dont just take her to BK or some crap like that.Ask her about her ideas on like .... see how she feels about guns. Have fun! Qbang You must have me confused with Strong Like Bull Sensible Master Beekeeper1. I only study under him…. he is the true master. My Kung Fu is weak compared to his. [:)] By all means....make sure she likes guns! medcop |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:18:32 PM EDT
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Take her to a nice restaurant, have a nice dinner, and go from there. Find out during dinner what she would like to do, that way you don't end up someplace where she doesn't want to be, or is uncomfortable. I'll second the opening doors and pulling out a chair for a woman. Most of them like that kind of stuff (unless she's a member of the NOW gang.)
Oh, and wear pants. It seems to help some. -Gloftoe |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:19:31 PM EDT
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Quoted: Try not to fart too many times. If she rips off a hot one, act like it didn't happen. Even to the point of passing out from the fumes. If sex should become possible, be safe. If it doesn't smell like it should, make an excuse to go to the bathroom and climb out the window. ROFLMAO!!!! Good advice though |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:22:30 PM EDT
[#26]
Good news fellows, not only does she like guns, she has one of her own!
Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:24:29 PM EDT
[#27]
Quoted: She is a semi-hockey fan kinda like me. It wouldn't brake my heart to miss the game. I am thinking about maybe taking her out tonight to the movies and dinner tonight after I get out of class. I think that might be just a littl emore romantic than taking her out to a sports bar with a few of my friends. What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67 Sports bar with your friends!!!!-ARGH-no no no "Hey remember the time Keving67 got really drunk and hurled on the nun-har har" Besides your friends will then try and steal your new girl to boinky boink with her. I saw one guy I know pay another $ 25 (the girl was in the bathroom) to leave and not try to pick up the girl they were both after, who had come with the first guy; and they were brothers. Trust no man around your women. Open doors until told otherwise. I do it, but my girlfriend used to find it annoying. She now runs ahead of me and holds the door for me 1/2 the time, it's kind of cute actually. If she is not that nutz about hockey go with dinner and a movie. Ice cream afterwards is always good, especially with these new (to me) silly drinking age laws. If you don't get anywhere with this girl, well at least you got ice cream. I say bring flowers. I'd rather lose trying too hard than think that I could have done better. Something nice, but not a million $. Fer chrissakes stay away from talking about guns-sheesh. Time for that later. Get a little smoochy smooch in first before showing her your Bushmaster. |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:29:34 PM EDT
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So here is my checklist so far:
1: open doors 2: no sports bars with friends!!! 3: wear pants 4: Dinner and a movie preferred 5: No swearing our talk of being drunk 6: Ice cream afterwards couldn't hurt 7: just the 2 of us I imagine I should clean my apartment and pick up my dirty close just incase it goes better than expected. Any more or anything I forgot? Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 1:31:43 PM EDT
[#29]
Geezuz clean that toilet! Blech
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:17:48 PM EDT
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Quoted: So here is my checklist so far: 1: open doors 2: no sports bars with friends!!! 3: wear pants 4: Dinner and a movie preferred 5: No swearing our talk of being drunk 6: Ice cream afterwards couldn't hurt 7: just the 2 of us I imagine I should clean my apartment and pick up my dirty close just incase it goes better than expected. Any more or anything I forgot? Keving67 Do the three S's. If you have a roommate let him know that if you show up with your lady friend he should be prepared to disappear. Make sure your wallet is fat. ARH |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:28:38 PM EDT
[#31]
Take her to your place for some roofies and a donkey punch. [stick]
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:36:26 PM EDT
[#32]
How about a drive in movie? Do they even have them anymore or have I just showed my age? fullclip
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:42:18 PM EDT
[#33]
Listen to the Tom Leykis show.
[url]www.blowmeuptom.com[/url] |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 2:51:39 PM EDT
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Quoted: How about a drive in movie? Do they even have them anymore or have I just showed my age? fullclip |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:12:46 PM EDT
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Seeing as the Wings will stomp them, I suggest you do not waste a chance to experience history. Joe Louis Arena is magical when the Wings are winning. But in the event you do get bored, leave during the 2nd period. Gets you out ahead of traffic.
There is another choice--Canada. If you're both over 19 you can hunker down together in a little pub in Windsor. Just don't take her to the "Canadian Ballet". Another choice is one of the casinos. Not very intimate, but interesting. All-time favorite first date choice is a comedy club, but not Thursday. They'll all be empty with the game going on, and an empty comedy club is painful. Good luck. Good luck. |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:18:39 PM EDT
[#36]
Origionally posted by ARH: Make sure your wallet is fat You mean as in have a lot of money, or for another reason. I do keep my wallet in my front pocket. Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:20:35 PM EDT
[#37]
Quoted: Good news fellows, not only does she like guns, she has one of her own! Keving67 Only one???? |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:21:25 PM EDT
[#38]
Bunghole, we used to have tom leykus on the radio here in Detroit but the radio station finally replaced him with something better. No offense.
Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:32:59 PM EDT
[#39]
Quoted: Thursday, I am taking a beautiful women out to watch the hockey game. I just got out of a 5 year relationship and have never really been on a first date. The lady I am taking out is a girl I have been talking to for a while and has really helped me through some rough times. Any ideas? I'm only 20 and so is she so the bar is out of the question. Keving67 Son, taking her out to a hockey seems like a lot of fun. The two of you get to scream your heads off when it comes cheering on your favorite team. Also, the two of you can share popcorn and soda together. Just be sure the both of you bring your own toothpaste and toothbrush because your breathe is going to smell bad after eating the snacks. You need to prepare yourself in case she gives you that goodnight kiss after you bring her home. Another thing, no funny stuff below the waist unless she says it's okay. ROTFLMAO Other than that, just relax and have fun. |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:33:52 PM EDT
[#40]
Quoted: What about opening doors and stuff like that? I know that I should but do girls really appreciate that kind of stuff? Keep them coming! Keving67 Even today with all this feminazi shit..you should always hold a door open for women...then if you get the chance later on, stick your tongue up her ass...they really like that [:D] |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:33:59 PM EDT
[#41]
Quoted: How about a strip club? See if she has a wild side in her, if she doesn't you don't want her anyways. Good girls get lap dances! [:D] |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:39:44 PM EDT
[#42]
Hell, I can't even afford one Wings ticket let alone 2. I think the cheapest seats are like 400$ a person.
Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:48:07 PM EDT
[#43]
Quoted: Origionally posted by ARH: Make sure your wallet is fat You mean as in have a lot of money, or for another reason. I do keep my wallet in my front pocket. Keving67 Yes on the money. ARH |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:50:13 PM EDT
[#44]
Quoted: Only one???? Yes, only one and its a 22. But I guess thats better than a Gore in 04' in her front lawn. Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 4:51:50 PM EDT
[#45]
Quoted: Yes on the money. ARH I'd imagine about 100$ ought to cover it. I hope so anyways. Keving67 |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:19:39 PM EDT
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$100 for one date? Isn't that running a bit high? What do you have in mind? What would cost $100?
I suggest a cheaper first date, in case it doesn't work out you wouldn't have sunk as much money. I'd hate to blow that much money on such an unknown. Where do you like? Are there any parks or beaches? Remember, moonlit promenades are free, make the best use of nearby public facilities. |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:32:43 PM EDT
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jz02, after I started thinking aobut it, 100 bucks is a lot of money! I would think dinner and a movie is like 40$ at the most and then something kinda romantic like a beach or a park or something if the night is going really good. But the problem is I live in a really crappy neighborhood (southfield, a suburb of Detroit) and there isn't much of a rural area around here.
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:43:10 PM EDT
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yeah I know, people seem to be very willing to blow a lot of money on dates and relationships. I don't mean to be cheap but I'd suggest that you watch the spending there a little, save a bit for the second date. [:)]
Anyway, be creative. What do you like? Are you a physical person as in you want to get physical ASAP (make out sessions, work with your hands, etc) or are you a talk and get to know her better person? |
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:48:13 PM EDT
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I know the girl pretty good, like since I was 5, but I haven't seen her in like a year and a half. I don't really know what I want. I guess what happens happens. The more the better I guess. [:D]
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Posted: 6/5/2002 6:56:47 PM EDT
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One thing, if you're going to get physical, do it in the right order. There's a sequence of events you must follow. Same with conversation, do it in an appropriate order. Everyone has a little shield, but in the physical sense and the mental sense. You have to convince her to drop her shield, and you do that gradually by making her comfortable, then move up one level, then make her comfortable with that and move up another level.
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