Marvl,
I had this EXACT same experience. IN a nutshell this is the sequence of events;
1)Arranged to have ar15 shipped to a*sho-uh, ffl.
2)Ar15 lower arives at FFL from private shipper.
3)FFl realizes this didn't come from another ffl. Freaks out.
4)Refuses to release the gun to me OR send it back to original shipper cause he's not an FFL.
5)Won't release AR to me DESPITE both a phone call AND a fax from Boise ATF arbitrator.
6)I arrange an FFL in Sellers State (40 bucks)and FFL in my State (15 bucks)
7)A**hole(ffl) ships gun back to FFL in Sellers State.
8)A**hole FFL in sellers state charges 40 bucks for the log in and 40 MORE bucks for log out to my NEW FFL. ^@#%#@#%@#$%@#
At this point im seriously considering joining Ms. Brady and HCI.
9)I FINALLY get my Christmas AR15 in about March.
Due to being so burned up about this I spoke with two lawyers, 5 cops, a judge, two FBI agents and multiple ATF agents. In the future my course of actions would be;
1)rational explanation like one poster suggested. Most times it won't work cause you're dealing with an idiot.
2)Call the cops, file a stolen goods report. Call the ATF and file a formal complaint about his business practices. Most Gun Shop owners get rightfully upset about the thought of the ATF even thinking about them.
3)Not leaving until you have a police stolen goods report and a criminal case. If you've got the dough, call a lawyer but I'd be happy with the Police Report and a nice ATF complaint.
Good luck, you are in for a long road. You will ask future FFL contacts MANY MANY questions in the future. I always do now....
Crash.