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Posted: 6/3/2011 8:34:08 PM EDT
I have a theory that 90% of men that prefer "thick" women only do so because they can't get a woman that doesn't have a large ass and thick thighs.


Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:34:48 PM EDT
[#1]
que the "not this shit again pic"
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:36:44 PM EDT
[#2]
It applies in a lot of cases.......but my buddy who can and has swung some smoking hot thin chicks in his day......

Is now a chubby chaser. His wife is about 5'5" and 225.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:36:47 PM EDT
[#3]
wrong
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:37:57 PM EDT
[#4]

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:37:59 PM EDT
[#5]
I am SURE that's some of it, for some guys. And as Americans get fatter, the whole "big is beautiful" thing kind of gets used as an excuse to not even try to lose weight etc.

However, part of it can just be age, maturity, and a wider standard of what's feminine/pretty/sexy.

There are a LOT of women who are perfectly normal but picky guys, or younger guys who are overly programmed by mass-media think are "fat" too.

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:38:15 PM EDT
[#6]
Fats where it's at!

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Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:39:44 PM EDT
[#7]
Mostly true.

However there are some guys that honestly do like the big gals.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:41:23 PM EDT
[#8]
Quoted:
Mostly true.

However there are some guys that honestly do like the big gals.


+1
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:42:21 PM EDT
[#9]



Quoted:


I have a theory that 90% of men that prefer "thick" woman only do so because they can't get a woman that doesn't have a large ass and thick thighs.







Closet zoophiliacs that just can't quite bring themselves to go interspecies.



 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:43:37 PM EDT
[#10]
A woman with curves is just that, a woman. A REAL woman. Curves in all the right places make for a sexy woman. The "Thick girls" thread pretty much sums it up. Real men want a real woman. Not some Kate Moss reject. opinions vary.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:45:14 PM EDT
[#11]
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There are a LOT of women who are perfectly normal but picky guys, or younger guys who are overly programmed by mass-media think are "fat" too.



This.

I continue to be amazed at some things I read in GD and elsewhere on the net about women.  I don't know if it is porn, Hollywood, or what - but some guys have a very distorted view of normal.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:46:12 PM EDT
[#12]
This thread is just oozing originality.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:48:39 PM EDT
[#13]
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:49:23 PM EDT
[#14]
Had numerous of both, like the bigger women, they seem to put more effort into the relationship, and don't seem to have as many pussy power trips.

That said, big or small, stay away from the crazy.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:49:23 PM EDT
[#15]
i love all kinds of women...there have been some thicker chicks that i found very attractive, but alot of that is probably personality and how they carry themselves.

i prefer the chicks that have a healthy weight...i just cant get them
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:50:44 PM EDT
[#16]
I married a skinny woman, skinny enough that I'll occasionally go on a cooking spree of very rich foods if I notice more ribs than normal.  She's 5'8" and about 125.  I was drug along shopping with her a few weeks ago and found out that she wears a size zero skirt.

Before her, I had women that were short, tall, skinny, fat, pretty, and ugly.  

I had loads of fun one summer with a gal that was a bit on the plump side, she was very flexible, very eager to please, and had earth-shaking, bed soaking, screaming orgasms.

I also had fun with a very slim and lithe girl who was a swimmer.  She was strong and sexy, but a bit of a bore in bed.  At 17 I didn't much care, because she was female and willing.

There was a drunken fling with a girl who was a collegiate volleyball player, probably 6'2" (I'm 5'9") and 180 pounds, very little of it fat.  She was scary strong for a girl.  Kind of a butterface though.  

As long as a woman is reasonably fit with average looks, I'm attracted.  I've never been good looking enough to be terribly picky.  
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:52:43 PM EDT
[#17]
I think part of the issue is threshold of fat-in-a-nasty-way is too subjective.
P.S. This damn fly has been buzzing around the room for an hour now.  Does not the damn thing get tired???!!?!?
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:52:55 PM EDT
[#18]



Quoted:


I have a theory that 90% of men that prefer "thick" woman only do so because they can't get a woman that doesn't have a large ass and thick thighs.







I have nothing for you but a CoC violation, so just go enjoy the basement.



 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:53:53 PM EDT
[#19]



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There are a LOT of women who are perfectly normal but picky guys, or younger guys who are overly programmed by mass-media think are "fat" too.







This.



I continue to be amazed at some things I read in GD and elsewhere on the net about women.  I don't know if it is porn, Hollywood, or what - but some guys have a very distorted view of normal.


Again, this.  Add in some denial and....



 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:58:41 PM EDT
[#20]
Give me  a woman, Sz 10-12 who is comfortable with her weight and who she is, rather than a 0-2 who is bulemic and has mental issues.



My Preference is proportional gals top dimensions bigger than the bottom.  I don't dig the skinny, can see the ribs, and especially pelvic bones....yuck!    I just don't find that attractive.



The problem is, Full-Figured, used to be like Jane Russel and Marilyn Monroe, not these Sz 20-26 at 5'4" who use the term now.  



Big-Boned is a lie.



Its a thyroid problem is a lie.



Its a self-control, self-esteem problem.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 8:59:55 PM EDT
[#21]



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There are a LOT of women who are perfectly normal but picky guys, or younger guys who are overly programmed by mass-media think are "fat" too.







This.



I continue to be amazed at some things I read in GD and elsewhere on the net about women.  I don't know if it is porn, Hollywood, or what - but some guys have a very distorted view of normal.


<––––––––Picky guy here.



If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.





 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:00:56 PM EDT
[#22]
I can have any woman I want.  Really.  Hate on if you want.  Thick women are my preference.  I like 'em.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:02:43 PM EDT
[#23]
To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?

I think you are confusing "prefer" with "settled for" when it comes to guys who are with THICK women.

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:08:11 PM EDT
[#24]



Quoted:


I have a theory that 90% of men that prefer "thick" woman only do so because they can't get a woman that doesn't have a large ass and thick thighs.







On the internet any guy can ogle any shape of female they wish.

Were you a team member you could see that the "thick girls" BOTD thread has run 171 pages while the "low body fat" BOTD thread has 34 pages.



I don't think what guys choose to look at on the web has as much to do with what they can get in real life as it does with what they enjoy looking at.

So unless arfcom is just an anomaly your theory is bunk.





 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:11:43 PM EDT
[#25]
Make a thread. Pic of self/SO and state preference.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:12:53 PM EDT
[#26]
I like thin, i like normal, i like curvy/ thick, but i dont like obese.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:13:53 PM EDT
[#27]
Quoted:


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If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.

 



Quoted:
To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?

...



Skinny is not equal to "takes care of herself" or "exercises."  It is a body type.  

Is this woman not in shape, or not taking "care of herself?"



She will never look like a gymnast or centerfold, regardless of diet or exercise - but guys who like her aren't "settling" for a woman who doesn't "take care of herself."
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:19:33 PM EDT
[#28]





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If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.





 

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To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?





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Skinny is not equal to "takes care of herself" or "exercises."  It is a body type.  





Is this woman not in shape, or not taking "care of herself?"





http://www.goredlands.com/images/sball/2011/11SB_Aleisha_Martinez_action_AOW.jpg?max_width=300





She will never look like a gymnast or centerfold, regardless of diet or exercise - but guys who like her aren't "settling" for a woman who doesn't "take care of herself."



She's a lot smaller than the "thick" women GD defends.
 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:19:56 PM EDT
[#29]
I concur.

Most men would not turn down a '10'.  The one's that will bang a fatty are either (A) unable to get anything better; or (B) unable to work to get anything better.

I admittedly am on the border.  I'm just 'light' enough to be able to get the decently hot chicks, yet still viewed as 'obtainable' to the fatties.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:20:52 PM EDT
[#30]
Quoted:
A woman with curves is just that, a woman. A REAL woman. Curves in all the right places make for a sexy woman. The "Thick girls" thread pretty much sums it up. Real men want a real woman. Not some Kate Moss reject. opinions vary.


There it is, right there.

MY theory is, guys who like skinny-ass women do so because it allows them to think their
dick's are as long as everybody else's.

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:29:05 PM EDT
[#31]



Quoted:



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If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.



 







Quoted:

To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?



...







Skinny is not equal to "takes care of herself" or "exercises."  It is a body type.  





It *can* be a body type. Funny how that "body type" changes in middle age when she isn't eating right or exercising.



 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:30:09 PM EDT
[#32]
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.







 
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:30:39 PM EDT
[#33]
Quoted:
I have a theory that 90% of men that prefer "thick" woman only do so because they can't get a woman that doesn't have a large ass and thick thighs.



I have a theory that you're a moron.

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:34:34 PM EDT
[#34]
Quoted:

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If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.

 



Quoted:
To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?

...



Skinny is not equal to "takes care of herself" or "exercises."  It is a body type.  

Is this woman not in shape, or not taking "care of herself?"

http://www.goredlands.com/images/sball/2011/11SB_Aleisha_Martinez_action_AOW.jpg?max_width=300

She will never look like a gymnast or centerfold, regardless of diet or exercise - but guys who like her aren't "settling" for a woman who doesn't "take care of herself."

She's a lot smaller than the "thick" women GD defends.

 


"GD" hardly acts with one mind when talking about women.

That woman would be considered a cow in the fashion industry  but she is a collegiate athlete, and no doubt in great shape.

I'm not a fan of fat rolls, but am also not a fan of people thinking who think women all could look like Victoria's Secret models if they "took care of themselves."  Not even Victoria's Secret models look like Victoria's Secret models!
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:35:03 PM EDT
[#35]
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The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


left = too skinny

right = too fat

middle = just right

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:36:53 PM EDT
[#36]
Not true.

If I wanted to fuck a boy, I'd do that.

I like girls, and I like boobs, and, I like hips.  It's
all in what you find sexy.  Do you think it's impossible
that people would find something sexy that you don't?

Hell, If a girl has more than two piercings in each ear
I simply don't find her sexy, because it's my opinion that
more than that is a cry for attention which = shit I don't
need to deal with.

More than one or two modest tats?  Same thing.  
They do nothing for me.  

Multiple colored hair?  Same thing.  

I fully accept that some guys may like girls that look like
boys, are tatted up and have more piercings than a circus
freak, and that's fine with me.  

I happen to like girls with a little substance to them.  Look at it
this way;  More androgeny for you.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:37:23 PM EDT
[#37]
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


All three look good to my eyes.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:37:24 PM EDT
[#38]
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


If I had my choice between them, I'd take the one of the far right - and I wouldn't be at all upset if she gained 20-30 lbs of baby weight, either.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:38:35 PM EDT
[#39]
I guess that's a chop, but the chick on the left looks like she is wearing a diaper under her panties... Incontinence from starving, muscle atrophy?

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:38:54 PM EDT
[#40]
Quoted:
Quoted:
If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.  

Quoted:
To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?

Skinny is not equal to "takes care of herself" or "exercises."  It is a body type.  
Is this woman not in shape, or not taking "care of herself?"
http://www.goredlands.com/images/sball/2011/11SB_Aleisha_Martinez_action_AOW.jpg?max_width=300
She will never look like a gymnast or centerfold, regardless of diet or exercise - but guys who like her aren't "settling" for a woman who doesn't "take care of herself."


Give her 5 years after she stops playing college softball and she'll won't look like that.  

Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:39:28 PM EDT
[#41]
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


I would take the far right for the win.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:40:02 PM EDT
[#42]
Quoted:
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


left = too skinny

right = too fat

middle = just right



What is interesting, is when people are forced to pick between the left or the right.

I have done threads just like that, and the rhetoric was predictable.

The skinny woman "took care of herself" (perhaps by vomiting up her meals and doing heroin?) while the curvy woman was "grotesque" and "obese" and those who preferred her (the majority here) were "chubby chasers."
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:42:07 PM EDT
[#43]
Quoted:
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


If I had my choice between them, I'd take the one of the far right - and I wouldn't be at all upset if she gained 20-30 lbs of baby weight, either.


Right or middle would be fine for me.  

I honestly don't have any attraction towards the one on the far left.
Bone prominances skeeve me out.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:43:38 PM EDT
[#44]
I don't care what size she is as long as she's a whore in the bedroom.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:43:43 PM EDT
[#45]
Quoted:
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If she isn't exercising while trying to attract a mate, that is a bad indication for how she'll take care of herself when she lands one.  

Quoted:
To me THICK = LAZY, UNHEALTHY, UNFIT.  Who wants that?? If I'm going to eat well, and exercise to stay in shape.....why would I want a girl that doesn't take care of herself?

Skinny is not equal to "takes care of herself" or "exercises."  It is a body type.  
Is this woman not in shape, or not taking "care of herself?"
http://www.goredlands.com/images/sball/2011/11SB_Aleisha_Martinez_action_AOW.jpg?max_width=300
She will never look like a gymnast or centerfold, regardless of diet or exercise - but guys who like her aren't "settling" for a woman who doesn't "take care of herself."


Give her 5 years after she stops playing college softball and she'll won't look like that.  



So exercising to stay in shape would be a bad indicator for you?  That seems to go against what Waveform believes.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:44:18 PM EDT
[#46]
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


All 3 are good in my book but I do prefer the one on the right. Women are supposed to have a higher bodyfat percentage than men. It fills all of the right places just the way I like them. There is a fine line though. The girl on the right has some room to gain a few pounds but she isn't too far off from being fat to me.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:45:45 PM EDT
[#47]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  


left = too skinny

right = too fat

middle = just right



What is interesting, is when people are forced to pick between the left or the right.

I have done threads just like that, and the rhetoric was predictable.

The skinny woman "took care of herself" (perhaps by vomiting up her meals and doing heroin?) while the curvy woman was "grotesque" and "obese" and those who preferred her (the majority here) were "chubby chasers."


I usually agree with most of your posts, but here we'll have to agree to disagree.  i.e., the softball player above.  She could get in shape if she wanted.  She's cute but dumpy, and could do something about it, if she wanted.

If I had to choose between left or right, I'd base it on personality (Wow, what a concept. ) or leave for an AO with healthy people
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:46:17 PM EDT
[#48]
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There are a LOT of women who are perfectly normal but picky guys, or younger guys who are overly programmed by mass-media think are "fat" too.



This.

I continue to be amazed at some things I read in GD and elsewhere on the net about women.  I don't know if it is porn, Hollywood, or what - but some guys have a very distorted view of normal.

Again, this.  Add in some denial and....
 

So many things are fucked up here though. I have never seen a bunch of men more worried about how they appear to others in my life. Men asking for opinions on hair or clothes. Men talking about losing "man cards" if someone may like music that isn't Arfcom approved. Men starting rants an filling them with bastardized versions of cuss words just so they can get an internet "10". I'm embarrassed sometimes on how women are treated by some on here. I don't know when people equated being a man with acting like a Neanderthal. Sad really.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:46:40 PM EDT
[#49]
And men who like waifishly thin chicks are fags.
Link Posted: 6/3/2011 9:48:17 PM EDT
[#50]



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Quoted:

The girl on the right is what I consider thick, the one on the left is what I consider skinny. Not these land whales some are defending. Kate moss isn't skinny, she's a skeleton. All 3 look good to me as long as they aren't dudes.



http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ec66zi3Zw0A/SX5NgNbVsxI/AAAAAAAAAdU/C6bl86t1sTg/s400/women1.jpg  




All 3 are good in my book but I do prefer the one on the right. Women are supposed to have a higher bodyfat percentage than men. It fills all of the right places just the way I like them. There is a fine line though. The girl on the right has some room to gain a few pounds but she isn't too far off from being fat to me.


I agree, she could gain a few pounds and still look good. I prefer a blend of the first two chicks but the thick girl looks good and I would be all over her. She wears here weight well, still looks tight, not flabby.



 
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