I know the answer is highly individualistic, but I do not get the city thing much.
From 1-10 years old I lived 20 minutes from DC, when 10 we moved out to the more rural burbs 40 minutes outside of DC to a town about about 3000 with cow farms.
Now I live about 40 minutes from DC but in northern VA suburbs. I can be in the country in 15 minutes.
I think I have lived a pretty balanced life between city and country.
I have been to many cities, and even spent 24 hours alone in New York City sight seeing and survived just fine. Even had a good time.
I also have spent plenty of time on farms, in the woods, in the middle of nowhere.
I have a friend who grew up in nothing but city. We went on a work trip that involved us driving several hours into the country and she was amazed, completely astounded and a little afraid at how many trees there were.
I mentioned taking my girlfriend for a romantic getaway and she started suggesting things in NYC or in DC and I stopped her and said "getaway!". It is supposed to be relaxing.
But to her, the city is relaxing. Taking in the sights or a show, eating at a fancy restaurant you have to make a reservation at and pay an arm and leg to park at is relaxing. Luckily she is not my gf. My gf shares my views on what is relaxing.
I am sticking to my mountain resort in the Shenandoah.
So what is more relaxing/fun/appealing to you?
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City: