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Posted: 5/7/2002 4:35:17 PM EDT
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Yes Yes and YES. The lawyer thing i am still not to sure on. The first one f**ked me over
In Alabama support is a set amount based on the number of kids and what your base salary is. Bonuses and Overtime are not counted as they are not guaranteed income. Once you are in the system the State basically owns your ass until the kids turn 21. |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 4:39:04 PM EDT
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I had problems with arrears when I was layed off. All I did was make arangements with the Friend of the Court/Devil to make payments on the arrears. (new job)They can issue a court order and take a little extra out of your check t opay on the arrears.
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:00:14 PM EDT
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Who pays child support?
Thanks to welfare and horny, irresponsible dumbf**ks who don't evaluate the long term effects of their decisions, we all pay child support. |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:03:15 PM EDT
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I do.
Rule #1: Never go to court with out a lawyer. Rule #2: She wants as much of your money as she can get and the state is there to help her do it so see rule #1. Rule #3: Do not try to play Mr. Nice Guy you'll only get fucked over. Rule #4: No rule supercedes rule #1! Seriously the best thing you can do is pay on time and regularly with no arrears. They can take your tax returns here in PA they can suspend your driver, hunting, and fishing license if you don't pay on time. Basically your bent over and they can stick it up your ass when they/she wants. Tough it out get it all in legal documents and follow them to the letter. Do not give them/her any way to mess with you. I can tell you some fucked up shit my daughters mom did to me. |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:15:36 PM EDT
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Boomer,you are a dumbf**k.Do you even have the balls to reproduce?Or is it you are gay and dont worry about a wife screwing you over.
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:28:59 PM EDT
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Quoted: If you do,have you had problems with arrears even though you have paid?Did you have to retain a lawyer or did you handle it yourself?ADVICE MAN! I assume the problem is with a support collection agency. The one here is tough to deal with, I've had clients come in with screwed up accounts and had little luck without an attorney. You'd better be keeping a record of what's paid-keep all your paystubs, or if you pay her ALWAYS get a receipt. There are plenty of crumby lazy lawyers out there, get a written retainer and an itemized bill (not that those can't be made to come out to whatever the lawyer wants them to) Check with other people who have hired lawyers and always talk to three different ones if you can. Oh and if you pay for a lawyer get one who does this all the time, the one who did your house closing may not be the guy to go to if he's not familiar with child support law |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:34:24 PM EDT
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She married you for[rolleyes]LUV[rolleyes]MONEY,SECURITY.With out a "good lawyer" now shes after as much MONEY = SECURITY as she can get.Hell,she'll probablly go for your retirement too.Really you guys that do not learn the first time(T_B_Slayer)probablly drink to much.[;)]
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:36:15 PM EDT
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Quoted: Boomer,you are a dumbf**k.Do you even have the balls to reproduce?Or is it you are gay and dont worry about a wife screwing you over. I happen to have a wife and 3 children. Some of us still view marriage as a long term commitment and thus exercise significant care and wisdom in selecting an appropriate partner. And I would bet dollars to donuts that if for some unforeseen, inexplicable reason my wife and I did seperate, we would be mature and remain at least amicable enough to do what was in our children's best interests, not our own. Don't take out your frustrations on me. Choose more wisely next time. |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:37:41 PM EDT
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Want advice? What is your problem? Best advice? City of Exile formula.
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Posted: 5/7/2002 5:42:57 PM EDT
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Thank you Aimless,for the advice.
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Posted: 5/7/2002 7:21:04 PM EDT
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araddict, I don't know if boomer's initial post was "aimed" at you - I could be wrong, but I didn't think it was.
I agree with Boomer - he hit the nail on the head. Boomer, I also know that men and women can get crazy and sometimes the person you married isn't the person you're married to/divorcing now! Keep good records and receipts and save your money - if it isn't in the kid's best interest to be with her, then get a lawyer and YOU get custody and the child support checks. Have custody of my 11 yr old son, so I know. good luck! |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 7:37:18 PM EDT
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I am on the opposite side of the fence on this one. I have custody of my 3 kids and she pays me support so I don't have to many answers. If you want to know how to hammer the person who doesn't pay support that is another story.
Origanally Posted By: Boomer And I would bet dollars to donuts that if for some unforeseen, inexplicable reason my wife and I did seperate, we would be mature and remain at least amicable enough to do what was in our children's best interests, not our own. It is almost slim to none that people break on good terms and then can remain calm during the divorce procedures. I used to think the same thing you did until my wife decided to up and leave the family for another man, all I can tell you is that things went down hill quick after that. I hope that nothing like that ever happens to you so you don't have to find out what it is like. |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 8:41:16 PM EDT
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Quoted: araddict, I don't know if boomer's initial post was "aimed" at you - I could be wrong, but I didn't think it was. That's correct, my initial post wasn't "aimed" at anyone in particular. We were asked "Who pays child support". As taxpayers, unfortunately we all do for the various consequences of divorce and single parenting. It's that simple. |
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Posted: 5/7/2002 10:03:30 PM EDT
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Yup, I have to pay it.... if I didn't, the employee would get in trouble..... (joke, in reference of an employer deducting from the employee).
(Sorry if it was bad taste) |
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