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Posted: 9/9/2010 8:19:28 PM EDT

For people that live with their SO, do you 2 go to bed at the same times?

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:21:28 PM EDT

[#1]

Nope. She's been in bed for almost 3 hours already.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:22:08 PM EDT

[#2]

No.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:22:35 PM EDT

[#3]

I usually go to bed about an hour after her and get up an hour after in the morning. I work from home and I can roll out of bed at noon some days if I want to.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:22:56 PM EDT

[#4]

When I had one yes....would do what she called "cuddling", whatever the fuck that is....guess it's where you pretend that you aren't pissed cause she denied you sex:-/. Then once the beast passed out I'd get on the computer to proceed to rub one out;-)

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:24 PM EDT

[#5]

Nope and haven't since the first 2-3 years of our marriage and we've been married 23 years.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:25 PM EDT

[#6]

Within 2-3 hours. She goes to bed first. She is a morning person, I'm a night owl. Works out perfectly

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:30 PM EDT

[#7]

Most of the time. It frustrates her that I always fall asleep first.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:23:37 PM EDT

[#8]

Quoted:
For people that live with their SO, do you 2 go to bed at the same times?

Every night. Rarely I dwell on jobs in progress and stay up late and can't sleep.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:24:06 PM EDT

[#9]

nope. shes likes to watch her shows in bed, I like to watch the news. by the time i get to bed shes been asleep for an hour.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:25:00 PM EDT

[#10]

Hardly ever. He goes to bed usually before I do. Sometimes it's just and hour, other times it's a couple hours.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:25:39 PM EDT

[#11]

We rarely even sleep during the same time of day.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:27:39 PM EDT

[#12]

Nope. I don't sleep much and the wife is sleeping 5 minutes after getting in bed. I stay up and reload/ watch old westerns, or surf GD.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:28:10 PM EDT

[#13]

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:32:08 PM EDT

[#14]

I put "occasionally yes" because I work 24 hour shifts and I'm only home 3 or 4 times a week depending on how much OT I decide to work.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:38:30 PM EDT

[#15]

Nope. I either go to bed way earlier or fall asleep on the couch at night to avoid sexual intimacy.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:42:00 PM EDT

[#16]

Dont really feel like laying there and rubbing her back unless shes going to rub me back

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:46:24 PM EDT

[#17]

She falls asleep on the couch about 9 or 10 usually, I go to bed around 11 or 12

Upside is I get to watch what I want on the tv while she's sawing Zs

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:50:55 PM EDT

[#18]

Almost always... that when we have sex

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:53:02 PM EDT

[#19]

No, almost never.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:54:29 PM EDT

[#20]

No.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:55:07 PM EDT

[#21]

wife in bed at 10, Im in bed at 2

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:57:15 PM EDT

[#22]

Nope.

She thinks that she needs 9-10 hours of sleep to function.

She goes to bed at about 9, gets up at 7.

I go to bed about 3ish, wake up about 8-9.

Posted: 9/9/2010 8:59:19 PM EDT

[#23]

Quoted:

wife in bed at 10, Im in bed at 2

Same here.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:05:32 PM EDT

[#24]

No, she makes me lay in bed and cuddle her then leeches on to me. I have to wait for her to fall asleep then slowly peel off arms and legs until I can slide out of bed.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:07:55 PM EDT

[#25]

I hardly ever go to bed at the same time as the wife. I work nights and when I'm not working I will go to bed around 2am-3am and get up at 7am on weekdays.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:12:41 PM EDT

[#26]

No. She cries herself to sleep around 9 pm. I stagger in around 5 am or so, depending on what time the bar tosses me out.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:30:08 PM EDT

[#27]

I work mids, she works days. Sometimes we get to sleep together during the weekends...it's quality time, and I cherish it. Just sleeping together is a recharge for the both of us. (10 years)

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:40:04 PM EDT

[#28]

No. I am a night owl on my days off . I tend to stay up until 2 or 3am catching up on emails, listening to music, surfing the net, etc.. Mrs. 45ProCarry is in bed by 10pm.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:42:11 PM EDT

[#29]

What a question to ask at night on ARFCOM.

Of course they don't, why the heck do you think they are online right now (surfing BOTD).

"When you can't get it from the wife, get it from ARFCOM"

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:42:54 PM EDT

[#30]

Insomnia.....I dont sleep............

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:43:00 PM EDT

[#31]

Only when I'm going to hit it

Sakic #19

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:46:19 PM EDT

[#32]

Nope. She's off to bed between 9-11pm. I go to bed at 12:30-2. She goes to school full time, I work fully time and go to school at night. If I'm not up late studying then I'm burning off steam and drinking a few beers. However, every night I take about 15-30 min to tuck her into bed. Give her a back rub, chat, etc.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:47:20 PM EDT

[#33]

Usually. I changed shifts, so now she is asleep when I get home sometimes. Other times she stays up for me to get home then crashes out but I stay up. 4 or 5 nights a week we go out or she works late and we crash out at the same time.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:48:30 PM EDT

[#34]

We hot bunk during my work week. I kick her out of bed when i get home from work.

on my days off she's always in bed before me.

Posted: 9/9/2010 9:54:20 PM EDT

[#35]

Yes, I have a rule in the house that we goto bed at the same time. Doesnt mean sleep, just in the bed at the same time.

Posted: 9/9/2010 10:52:26 PM EDT

[#36]

Quoted:
Nope. She's been in bed for almost 3 hours already.

same here.

Posted: 9/9/2010 10:52:32 PM EDT

[#37]

Awesome J/W.

GF has been bitching non stop because I go to bed 2-4hours after her usually. She says I wake her up and I offer to sleep on my couch in my man room, she says that will just piss her off because I'm not in bed then when she gets up... lol.

Posted: 9/9/2010 11:08:23 PM EDT

[#38]

Quoted:
When I had one yes....would do what she called "cuddling", whatever the fuck that is....guess it's where you pretend that you aren't pissed cause she denied you sex:-/. Then once the beast passed out I'd get on the computer to proceed to rub one out;-)

+100

Posted: 9/9/2010 11:22:35 PM EDT

[#39]

Only after a good night at the Bar after sex.... is the only time we sleep together. Other wise after 15 plus year of being on 3rd Shift I am a Day sleeper she is a 11pm to 7am sleeper.

Posted: 9/10/2010 12:58:57 AM EDT

[#40]

My wife works a regular 9-5 job and goes to bed around 11 PM. I work second shift (2 PM - 10 PM) and go to bed around 1 AM or 2 AM.

Posted: 9/10/2010 1:01:20 AM EDT

[#41]

Never have.. weird work schedules... one of the top things that have ticked off prior gfs.

Posted: 9/10/2010 1:10:23 AM EDT

[#42]

I work a rotating 12 hour schedule, I vary rarely see my wife.

Posted: 9/10/2010 1:11:51 AM EDT

[#43]

Quoted:
We hot bunk during my work week. I kick her out of bed when i get home from work.

on my days off she's always in bed before me.

That is us too. I get home at 700 hours. She's already showered by then.

Posted: 9/10/2010 1:12:13 AM EDT

[#44]

Quoted:
Nope. She's off to bed between 9-11pm. I go to bed at 12:30-2. She goes to school full time, I work fully time and go to school at night. If I'm not up late studying then I'm burning off steam and drinking a few beers. However, every night I take about 15-30 min to tuck her into bed. Give her a back rub, chat, etc.

Awwwwwwwwwwwww, seriously