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Posted: 8/31/2010 11:43:54 AM EDT
Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  

I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.

I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  

Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:45:46 AM EDT
[#1]
Girls have what guys want
Guys dont always have what girls want

Easy for most girls to get laid not true for dudes
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:46:20 AM EDT
[#2]
Because women don't need to try to get fucked.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:47:03 AM EDT
[#3]
Lock, key, etc....
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:47:10 AM EDT
[#4]
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:47:14 AM EDT
[#5]
Guys are still considered sluts- people just don't care as much- maybe if promiscuous women didn't talk about being promicuous it would be easier to handle for 'society'

My guy friends tell me it's the anatomy that changes everything....you get me?
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:47:47 AM EDT
[#6]
Your friend is a slut. She is just trying to justify it.

Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:47:51 AM EDT
[#7]
Women get pregnant, men don't.
Women have maybe 200 eggs, men have many billions of sperm.
Women don't have to game men, they just have to say "lets have sex".


Steve
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:48:37 AM EDT
[#8]
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:50:33 AM EDT
[#9]
Next time your friend is trying to justify it to you just take her to a public place and both announce you are horny and want to have sex.  See which one actually gets takers.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:52:04 AM EDT
[#10]



Quoted:


Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  



I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.



I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  





The problem is with the toleration of male 'players', not the standard to which a good woman is held.
 
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:52:11 AM EDT
[#11]
I was watching a female comic the other day complaining about woman magazine stories about how to turn on your man. The joke went something like this.

Women, if you want to turn on your man.....Take off a sock.

So it takes so little to get a man into bed with you, how can a woman be a player?

Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:53:01 AM EDT
[#12]
I know a few women that are really good "players" and I don't have a problem with it at all..
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:55:50 AM EDT
[#13]
It would seem she is keeping score the wrong way.  Challenge is the key.  If it is easy to do, it doesn't mean much.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:55:52 AM EDT
[#14]
Quoted:
Guys are still considered sluts- people just don't care as much- maybe if promiscuous women didn't talk about being promicuous it would be easier to handle for 'society'

My guy friends tell me it's the anatomy that changes everything....you get me?


I do. My buddy always points out that a bar of soap will rid him of the last woman he was with.

Of course I usually point out that's only true if he gets out w/o disease or pregnancy.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:56:30 AM EDT
[#15]
Strange as it may seem, men and women are different.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:56:44 AM EDT
[#16]
Because its much easier to get a girls juice off your junk vs getting your jizz out of her dumpster.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 11:58:19 AM EDT
[#17]
Quoted:
Women get pregnant, men don't.
Women have maybe 200 eggs, men have many billions of sperm.
Women don't have to game men, they just have to say "lets have sex".


Steve


If this were even remotely true they would have their periods for four years and never have another one.... You failed Sex Ed didn't you!!
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:04:00 PM EDT
[#18]
From an evolutionary sense, a man is supposed to spread his seed as far and as wide as he can with as many partners as possible.  A female is not.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:04:21 PM EDT
[#19]
it is all about effort.



society rewards hard work, a good player has to work hard at it.



a woman does not have to work hard to be at the same level and therefore is looked down upon.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:06:42 PM EDT
[#20]
Never considered it much of an issue either way.  To each his, or her, own.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:09:30 PM EDT
[#21]
Quoted:
From an evolutionary sense, a man is supposed to spread his seed as far and as wide as he can with as many partners as possible.  A female is not.


So from an "evolutionary sense" wouldn't it be logical that the women will inevidabley have to bread with multiple men? I mean there are only so many women and all the men running around spreading seed..
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:11:02 PM EDT
[#22]
hey  if its wasnt for easy sluty females with daddy issues .

we too would have man love thursdays here in the US..

god bless these sluts.  
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:11:11 PM EDT
[#23]
They are players.

It's called fucking your best friend behind your back.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:11:42 PM EDT
[#24]
I have read somewhere that the head of the penis is actually shaped like it is in order to plunge out the semen of the man who was just there before you.

I think we were screwing like bobono monkeys back in the day.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:13:21 PM EDT
[#25]
Because men are primal creatures with the one (truely animal) goal to spread their seed to as many women as possible to protect his bloodlines future and his place in the tribe.



So man laying with many women = pack leader.



Woman laying with many men = used by a ton of pack leaders.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:13:28 PM EDT
[#26]
Quoted:
I have read somewhere that the head of the penis is actually shaped like it is in order to plunge out the semen of the man who was just there before you.

I think we were screwing like bobono monkeys back in the day.


TMI
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:14:44 PM EDT
[#27]
If you have a lock that opens when any key is inserted, it's a shitty lock.



If a key opens up any locks it enters, then it's a master key.




Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:15:32 PM EDT
[#28]
Quoted:
Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  

I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.

I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  



I'd like to meet her
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:16:52 PM EDT
[#29]
Quoted:
Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  

I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.

I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  





I'm not going to sat it. No I'm not going to say a thing. DG keep your mouth shut. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:18:08 PM EDT
[#30]

Many women do call guys who sleep around a lot sluts, pigs, dogs...

Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:20:45 PM EDT
[#31]
I knew a couple of Wolves in sheeps clothing ...
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:22:14 PM EDT
[#32]
there's no double standard..

guys who get a lot of girls are hated by girls of quality (usually)
girls who get a lot of guys are hated by guys of quality (usually)

Guys cheer for other guys whoring it up. I've seen girls do the same to eachother.

My golden rule is, if you have to worry about if you have STDs or not, you are banging too many people too soon
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:34:30 PM EDT
[#33]
because it requires almost zero effort for a woman to get a man into bed...
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:35:52 PM EDT
[#34]
Quoted:
Strange as it may seem, men and women are different.


Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:37:57 PM EDT
[#35]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Guys are still considered sluts- people just don't care as much- maybe if promiscuous women didn't talk about being promicuous it would be easier to handle for 'society'

My guy friends tell me it's the anatomy that changes everything....you get me?


I do. My buddy always points out that a bar of soap will rid him of the last woman he was with.

Of course I usually point out that's only true if he gets out w/o disease or pregnancy.


yeah even tho he's the one dipping instead of getting dipped that doesn't mean he goes home clean...eiw
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:40:00 PM EDT
[#36]



Quoted:


Because women don't need to try to get fucked.


This is what is completely fucked-up about sex.



Some guys, if not most, will fuck ANYTHING that moves...They have NO standards.



 
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:45:40 PM EDT
[#37]
Quoted:

Quoted:
Because women don't need to try to get fucked.

This is what is completely fucked-up about sex.

Some guys, if not most, will fuck ANYTHING that moves...They have NO standards.
 


True, but girls don't want to fuck those guys either.  They want a hot guy to fuck them.  
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:46:29 PM EDT
[#38]
A "free spirited" woman fucks whoever she wants.

A slut fucks everybody.

There's the difference.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:49:31 PM EDT
[#39]
I bet your friend is a fat chick.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:55:08 PM EDT
[#40]
Pics of said friend or GTFO.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:55:27 PM EDT
[#41]
Quoted:

A "free spirited" woman fucks whoever she wants.

A slut fucks everybody.

There's the difference.



Which way is the line? For either?

Link Posted: 8/31/2010 12:58:10 PM EDT
[#42]
Quoted:
Pics of said friend or GTFO.


Quoted:
I bet your friend is a fat chick.



Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:00:04 PM EDT
[#43]
Quoted:
Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  

I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.

I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  



1.  Guys don't get pregnant and get on WIC and welfare and poop out another generation of welfare parasites/future gang-bangers....
2.  Guys don't get pregnant and then trap another girl into paying child support for 18 years when she is not the "mother".
3.  Guys don't get pregnant and expect their parents to let them live at home forever and help raise the illegitimate hell-spawn.....
4.  I don't rever promiscuous men as :studs or players" - nor does anyone who's opinion I would respect.  I doo see that attitude on MTV a lot tho....
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:00:30 PM EDT
[#44]
Meh, whatever makes her sleep better at night. You should know better then this, where are the photos???
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:01:44 PM EDT
[#45]
Because we usually end up having to do the laundry.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:02:07 PM EDT
[#46]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  

I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.

I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  



1.  Guys don;t get pregnant and get on WIC and welfare and poop out another generation of welfare parasites/future gang-bangers....
2.  Guys don;t get pregnant and then trap another girl into paying child support for 18 years when she is not the "mother".
3.  Guys don't get pregnant and expect their parents to let them live at home forever and help raise the illegitimate hell-spawn.....
4.  I don't rever promiscuous men as :studs or players" - nor does anyone who's opinion I would respect.  I doo see that attitude on MTV a lot tho....


This should have been the first fucking post.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:03:02 PM EDT
[#47]
Quoted:
Because we usually end up having to do the laundry.


Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:03:33 PM EDT
[#48]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Why the double standard?  If a guy is having sex with a lot of different women, he is revered as a stud or a player.  If a woman is out screwing a lot of different people she is referred to as a slut or skank.  

I've had more than one discussion before with a female who tries to justify her life of promiscuity by saying the double standard isn't right.  She thinks she's the equivalent of a player or stud and people hate on her because they all wish they could be like her.

I have a hard time saying she's wrong.  



1.  Guys don;t get pregnant and get on WIC and welfare and poop out another generation of welfare parasites/future gang-bangers....
2.  Guys don;t get pregnant and then trap another girl into paying child support for 18 years when she is not the "mother".
3.  Guys don't get pregnant and expect their parents to let them live at home forever and help raise the illegitimate hell-spawn.....
4.  I don't rever promiscuous men as :studs or players" - nor does anyone who's opinion I would respect.  I doo see that attitude on MTV a lot tho....


This should have been the first fucking post.


So that the first post could win?

Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:05:04 PM EDT
[#49]
Quoted:
Girls have what guys want
Guys dont always have what girls want

Easy for most girls to get laid not true for dudes


Yeah, I have to agree with this.
Link Posted: 8/31/2010 1:11:30 PM EDT
[#50]
It's like going to the casino.

The thing is, teh wimminz gamble with receiving childs support...whilst teh men are risking 18 yrs of child support payments.

It's always less stressful to gamble with other people's money.  

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