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I'm looking to identify some mac addresses on my home wifi that I can't seem to track down. Also wouldn't mind knowing what kind of other traffic is going on around my home.
Thanks
ETA-I'm definitely a noob with this stuff.
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First your mac addy's. you can look them up at the link, probably some device you added and forgot about. this gives the manufacturer data.
The stuff below assumes your "users" aren't trying to actively break the tools you put in.
mac maker lookup
Absolutely. This is a space in need of innovation, most of the tools available in the home price range suck, are grossly complex, or don't work. Securing networks is similar to securing your home or a facility physically. Multiple stacked things add up to a system.
First: control who gets in, when and where they go. Others have covered wpa2.
inspect traffic, this can be done with software on a pc you make into a firewall (between your modem and wireless router generally) or a device you buy. Assuming you don't want to manage or build this there are tools like this that will do a decent job. I've managed this function for large companies and it's a pain in the ass, expensive, and time consuming.
simple internet filter
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If this isn't what you are talking about a firewall that inspects traffic will give you reports on what is LEAVING / INCOMING and let you make rules, but they are a pain in the nuts, especially consumer stuff. The best software firewall is pfsense, they sell hardware as well.
Ubiquity seems to have the best home solution, the firewall and their ap's are what I use. From there you can let visitors use your internet, but not see your systems (good security), you can block sites or classes of traffic, or mac addresses from the system.
One major thing most people don't do is put guests in their own "space", especially if you have lots of people coming and going.
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