I think a variable-depth primer seating tool is a good thing.
There is a fairly wide range of "in-spec" primer heights. Different manufacturers' primers wind up being different heights (that's total distance from outside of the cup to the top/front of the anvil's legs) for a number of reasons.
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this article about the relationship between primers (and cup thickness) and chamber pressure, you'll find a chart with the specific cup depths of a number of common primers. They vary by more than 0.008" from one brand to another, and even vary more than 0.005" within the same brand and primer size.
This is one reason why it is sometimes challenging to just go by feel. Add to that the variations in primer outside diameter and variations in primer pocket diameters, and you can wind up with more or less seating resistance before you get the primer bottomed out.
I started thinking about primer seating depth when I started getting into reloading Berdan primed cases. The anvil is part of the case, so you can't go by feel; you have to seat for a specific depth of the primer cup below the case head.
With Boxer cases, if you uniform the primer pockets, you can actually calculate how deep below the head your primer cup needs to be for the anvil legs to contact the bottom of the pocket. Measure the depth your uniformed pockets are, the height of your chosen primers, and subtract height from tenth. Once you do that, you will know whether or not you're seating your primers properly.