The best folder for you will, like the best handgun, rifle, holster, significant other, vary from person to person.
The trend today is towards mass produced single bladed knives with some form of single handed opening/closing mechanism. These are nice and have the advantage of letting you operate them with just one hand.
The other major choice is the traditional slipjoint multibladed knife. For general use, these usually work better since there is a selection of blades for different purposes. The down side is that it usually takes two hands to open or close them.
Start with what you expect your most common uses will be. A 2.5-3.5 inch blade is great for opening boxes while a smaller blade is better for precision work. A swept blade, one where the cutting edge curves, will give you more cutting surface for a given length. A straight edge makes it easier to cut with the tip while giving precision in shaving type actions.
To start off, forget about what steel is used and ignore any claims about which material is better. Almost all work well. Blades from high carbon steels will need to be kept oiled but will be easier to sharpen. The stainless blades will take more neglect but be harder to sharpen.
As with many things, fondle as many different knives as you can and see how they feel in your hand.