If I read you right, there's a dent in your extension tube??
First, you need to do a better job or removing the dent, or buy a new extension.
Second, don't screw the clamp screw down so tight.
I know, the Choate clamp tends to move under recoil, so you have to tighten it down, but not so tight the extension tube collapses.
Third, chuck the Choate magazine follower in a drill and use some sand paper wrapped around a file to sand down the diameter just a LITTLE bit. NOT TOO MUCH.
Some Choate followers are just a bit too big for some tubes.
The best clamp for you will be the Uncle Mike's version of the Remington factory clamp.
This one doesn't need to be screwed down so tight:
You can help things stay stuck, by putting small pieces of black electrician's tape on the extension part of the clamp.
This give the clamp more friction and it stays put.
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