I tend to use the same load.
I stick with 2 3/4 loads in general. Shorter shot columns tend to pattern a little better in the same diameter barrel. I don't care how many pellets I have, as long as I hit the target, but the #1 buck does it all. For me, better patterns, less recoil and using 2 3/4 gets an extra round in the mag tube. I like having an extra shot versus shooting 3".
I also like #4 too. One time I got my hands on some heavy duty cardboard. Big, thick, multi layer stuff, stiff as a board. I set up a few torso sized pieces and had at them with #4. In my case I had excellent patterns. What stayed with me, was when we inspected the targets, the amount of shredded cardboard that just POURED out from between the layers. Shredded is the only way to describe it! So if overpenetration is an issue, the #4 will do a massive amount of tissue damage and I am sure cause plenty of shock to the target.