Mike, One of these days we will have to do a lengthy post on eyes and the issues that go with them! Especially for thsoe of us who grew up shooting with one eye closed on a shotgun. I have multiple "issues". Main one is my eyes are good to arms length or so, I wear glasses for distance. So the magnification of my glasses makes focusing on the rear sight a pain in the ass. I won't wear bifocals and I can't stick my finger in my eye to wear contacts.
Then also I have true cross eye dominance issues. I can't go to 3d movies, those damn 3d glasses don't work for me. And supposedly I also have an injured eye muscle from a fight years ago.
When I started handgun shooting, I loved it because I treated it like shotgun shooting. Just going off that front sight, but when I wanted to shoot tighter groups at farther distances for hunting, I decided on trying scopes.
About 20 years ago I put a B-square mount on Ruger Mark II and a 2x scope. That same year I bought my slug barrel. On my barrel the optics are forward over the barrel. I put 1.5x handgun scope on the slug barrel.
Using both those guns, with extended eye relief helped me to adapt to shooting like your brother does. I never moved up to higher than 2x. I would suggest a cheap red dot sight, zero power like a used Tasco PDP. For shtoguns, the battery will probably last 10 years plus with as little as you use it, even if you leave it on for 6 months. This would be a great way for you to try shooting with both eyes open.
I have spent the last few years learning to shoot with 2 eyes open on a plain shotgun. It really helps on sporting clays. When I hunt I do it instinctively but when I target shoot, it is a different story.