Ok for the tightening thing just go to Tantals website, just google it, its pretty simple. As for the sight, u are completely OVERTHINKING this, its sooo simple ull kick urself once u finally get it. The idea is not to get both eyes looking thru the reticle, but line up only one eye looking thru the hood, this way when you are looking AT YOUR TARGET, with both eyes open, the red dot will be in focus, and yes the hood will be blurry, a sort of ghost image that you should not focus on, and in time u will come to forget about. Its a similar concept to iron sites in that you focus on the front sight with the target out of focus and the rear sight out of focus, except this time with the red dot, only your target is in focus. Your brain will subconsiously line everything up and focus the dot. Practice looking at the target with both eyes open. While continuously looking at it, shoulder the rifle so that your shooting eye is looking thru the Kobra's hood, now that both eyes are still on the target, your brain automaticly blends the two seperate images each of your eyes sees into one image with the dot on the target. This is the same principal to how the boresight reticle of the apache helicopter works, there is a monocle containing flight data and a gunsight resting just in front of the pilots right eye, the other eye is unobstructed. Everywhere he looks he sees the reticle and flight data. All he has to do is turn his head and squeeze the trigger. Same idea, if you dont think about it, your brain will do all the work, THE KEY IS FOCUS ONLY ON YOUR TARGET!!!!!!!!!