Let me put it this way, if I received a receiver extension that was in question (or any other part), I would trash can the part, and order a new one from someone like J&T, DPMS, or Bushmaster.
I have had firearms self-destruct in my hands (read KB big time), and if there is any question of the quality/performance of a part or rifle, I'm not going to fire the weapon until it’s fixed to be 100% reliable. Just so you know, I may tweak a part here and there, but have also have had to throw away new parts. (PITA trying to get replacements parts from vendors that are just as bad as the first part they originally sent out.)
To answer your question if the back of the receiver extension breaks again (or the other receiver extension that you have) and lets the butt stock walk rearward (away from the receiver), the back of the extension is not going to stop the buffer, and what will happen is the carrier key is going to make contact with the back of lower at the top of threads for the extension. If allowed to make contact enough times, the carrier key will crack the lower receiver.
Bottom line, when in question, change out the part to one that you can trust. It's way cheaper in the long run then waiting for a part to go belly up and take more than it’s self out.
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Note the marks on the top of the threads for the receiver extension. This is were the key was making contact with the receiver, and caused it to crack.