There used to be all sorts of things said about stainless barrels. One was that they could not withstand heat, or held the heat longer. That has not been my experience. Half of my firearms have stainless barrels. Of my AR's, I have, or have had, an Oly Ultramatch barrel (1" bull), a 20" heavy barrel (HBAR contour), and a 16" heavy barrel.
Stainless vs chrome moly vs chrome lined just does not seem to be much of an issue for me. I like the corrosion resistance of stainless. That is an important factor in my high humidity area.
I am also not convinced that chromelined bores are less accurate for the average shooter. Perhaps for a benchrest or varmint shooter, but not for the average guy for general use (plinking, homeland defense, target).
I don't baby my stainless firearms.
My stainless barrels were not shiny. They are all from Olympic Arms, who put a "black oxide" coating on the barrels. It is a very deep, flat black, almost the same color as AR15 receivers. It is also durable. No one who has seen them even suspected they were stainless.
Some manufacturers bead blast their stainless barrels, which imparts a nice non-reflective urban gray color it them. They blend well with nearly any background, urban or woods.
Varmint hunters usually prefer free-floated fluted bull barrels, which are usually stainless.
Mine has a flattop receiver with free float tube, topped with a Leupold 6.5-20x Vari-X III. The barrel is an Olympic Arms 20" Ultramatch stainless bull barrel, a hair under 1" dia, with 1 x 8.5" twist, JP trigger and speed hammer, and Harris bipod.