Hey guys. Actually concerning the PRI barrel nut you can't file of a nub because the barrel nut is a solid piece with holes drilled through, even if I cut the metal between two holes the forend tub has two indexing pins that fit into the 3 & 9 o'clock holes in the barrel nut, so the nut must present a hole at the 12 o'clock for proper forend alignment. Good idea though...
As I see it from all your responses, I have 4 choices.
1- Hand tight + a bit more, to about 20 ft/lb
2- Torque to about 90-95 ft/lb
3- Remove 0.001 to 0.002 inches off the front of receiver threads.
4- Replace my upper, it is the most expensive piece but it is the only one I can get easily.
As of yesterday, I used option (1). If I use option (2) or (3) and things go bad, worst case scenario I will be forced to use option (4).
Thanks for all the replies, I would of thought a clean cut answer would have come out of this thread, but many have different technics and mind set about "torquing" issues. Makes for a nice debat, [:)]