Many spare parts kits contain parts that are not really "field replaceable". It is no use carrying around an ejector, spring, and pin, if you don't also plan to carry a punch, hammer, and vise. Duh.
However, the DPMS BP-01 kit seems to have most of what you will need.
In MY opinion, the field replaceable parts to have are:
Extractor, its pin and spring (assembly)
Firing Pin
Firing Pin Retainer ("cotter pin")
3 Gas Rings -OR- better, a McFarland Ring.
Hammer Spring
Trigger Spring
Hammer/Trigger Pin
Disconnector Spring
Cam Pin
My "emergency field repair kits" are stored in Stow-away II grips right on the rifles, which look similar to the stock grip, but with a trapdoor. They are available now from Bushmaster ($13?), but I have not seen them anywhere else. They used to be made by Lone Star Ordnance, which is now seemingly out of business.
Some people just prefer to keep a complete bolt assembly.
The GI cleaning kit is a necessity! All you need is there (which should include Break-Free and patches, if not, add them).
Other parts you might consider for back at the shop are a complete lower receiver parts kit.