Fair disclosure: Not a cop here, but have a somewhat similar story
When I was in EMT school, we all had a minimum of 4 clinic shifts towards the end of the program. 1 shift working in the ER, 1 on an ambulance, 1 on a fire crew, and 1 more of your choice. We were under STRICT orders to do EXACTLY what we were told to do by our crews / trainers. So if you were told to treat that wound, take that blood pressure, perform CPR on the victim, etc, you goddamn well better jump in and do it to the best of your ability.
I had a fellow female student, whose mom was a long time practicing paramedic. During her ER shift, they bring in an older woman in cardiac arrest. ER Doc tells her to get in there, relieve the paramedic doing compressions, and start pumping. Student refuses and breaks into tears. Her later explanation was "that woman reminded me of my dead grand ma". Student was immediately sent home, and on the next school day, she had to meet with the Dean of the program, and he washes her out right then and there.
I'm shocked the female officer hasn't been given the boot yet. She's a threat to you, other officers, and the public.