It's been a while since I've posted, and it sucks that I'm returning with a post like this.
About three weeks ago my brother discovered that his wife has had multiple affairs in the five years they have been married. He hired a PI firm and has consulted with an attorney, and has familiarized himself with divorce law in VA. In the last couple of weeks the PI firm has compiled a mountain of data including photos, a couple of years worth of texts between the wife and Dbs (provided by my brother), and the like.
She's currently traveling to Canada with their two small children and will return in a week or so. He has informed her that she will either sign a separation agreement drafted by his attorney in which he will split all assets 50/50 and award no alimony, or he will file and take the case to court, subpoenaing the two most recent DBs to testify.
He has a few guns in the house, and found her 9mm and put it in the safe along with the rest of them as she tried to take her own life about 15 years ago (long before they met).
Although he has done his due diligence and the law seems to be on his side regarding the affairs/divorce, my concern is that this woman will either try to:
A) hamstring the process and his access to their home/children by saying she fears for her life ("Because guns!") and filing a restraining order, or;
B) encouraging some kind of retaliation from one of the DBs with whom she's having an affair. Both have a lot to lose - one of them is a prominent businessman who is married with three kids, and who has been EXTREMELY concerned that the affair will come to light.
Am I being overly cautious here? I've encouraged him to remove the all the guns from his home and store them securely offsite - he's decided to hold onto his own 9mm.
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