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Posted: 2/5/2006 3:18:23 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/5/2006 3:33:08 PM EDT by VooDoo3dfx]
A friend of mine told me this girl was very angry at me... so, I approached this girl and asked her as to what her problem is.

She flat out denied being mad at me....

You could tell though.. by the way she acted, that she was very much indeed angry.

I brought up the fact that she was upset at me about a month ago over the phone.. and she flat out denied that too.

Why on earth?
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 4:46:27 PM EDT
Who knows exactly what is the truth in this situation but maybe she doesn't want to be combative and the reason she is keeping it to herself is that she can let it go and move on?

Its not always important that we understand everything that goes on with others. If you are aware of someone upset with you and you offer to make amends and they deny a problem then let it go. If they deny there's a problem and fail to resolve that problem then they have a problem themselves.

If you carry yourself daily in a manner of dignity and respect and others have problems with you, most likely they are based on that persons own individual insecurities and have little to do with you.

In a nutshell -- why concern yourself with something you can not change? Unless you've done something morally quesitonable?

Patty
Link Posted: 2/5/2006 4:58:09 PM EDT
Translation: "Yes I'm pissed at you, and I'm not ready to stop being pissed at you. I can barely look at you without wanting to rip your head off... haven't yet decided which one. Please go away before I have to hurt you."

Just a guess.

Link Posted: 2/5/2006 7:53:27 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 2/5/2006 7:53:47 PM EDT by DK-Prof]
Many people - not just women - do not like direct confrontation, and some prefer a passive agressive approach. Maybe she'll spit in your sandwich or something instead of yelling at you. People are just different.



Some are insane. I like to think of those as "other people"
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 3:37:33 AM EDT
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 5:27:29 AM EDT
If it were me, Voodoo, and I were pissed at you, I'd have no problem verbally ripping off your arm and beating you with it.

But I am just that kinda girl.

Link Posted: 2/6/2006 5:39:03 AM EDT
VooDoo..is this a friend of yours? If so, doesn't sound like she's a very good one, and I'd say ignore it, and she'll get over it.

If she's not a friend, why the hell do you care?

This is immature female high school shit. Don't let it bother you.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 5:51:26 AM EDT
How old are you?
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:24:48 AM EDT
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 6:32:28 AM EDT
Stop playing her game.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 7:11:25 PM EDT

Originally Posted By PlaymoreMinds:
If it were me, Voodoo, and I were pissed at you, I'd have no problem verbally ripping off your arm and beating you with it.

But I am just that kinda girl.




But.. I might enjoy that!
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 7:11:58 PM EDT

Originally Posted By daisywench:
VooDoo..is this a friend of yours? If so, doesn't sound like she's a very good one, and I'd say ignore it, and she'll get over it.

If she's not a friend, why the hell do you care?

This is immature female high school shit. Don't let it bother you.



She is a friend.. I've know her for awhile.

She is early 20s.. you'd think people would be over that shit.

Guess not.
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 7:12:57 PM EDT

Originally Posted By LadyLiberty:
How old are you?



21
Link Posted: 2/6/2006 7:13:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Trust me, she'll realize how stupid she's acting and will apologize for being an idiot.



I did call her on it.. she denied it vigrusully. (sp?)

I'll ignore her for now...thanks.
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 12:45:32 AM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By LadyLiberty:
How old are you?



21



When you're 35, I bet you'll wonder how you ever hung around people who act like retarded children.

Axe me howz I know.
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 12:47:54 AM EDT
Swingset speaks the truth. A wise man would do well to listen to him.
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 2:59:39 AM EDT

Originally Posted By bvmjethead:
Stop playing her game.




BINGO!
This crap is what CHILDREN do to get attention.
She says nothing's wrong? Fine! Act like nothing IS wrong...it'll go up her butt a MILE!
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 7:15:58 AM EDT

Originally Posted By PlaymoreMinds:
BINGO!
This crap is what CHILDREN do to get attention.
She says nothing's wrong? Fine! Act like nothing IS wrong...it'll go up her butt a MILE!



+1

When people act like children, the ONLY appropriate response is to treat them like children. Put her in metaphorical "time out" until she learns to behave.
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 7:29:56 AM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Trust me, she'll realize how stupid she's acting and will apologize for being an idiot.



I did call her on it.. she denied it vigrusully. (sp?)

I'll ignore her for now...thanks.



Here's a thought, Voodoo...maybe she likes you as more than a friend, and is annoyed that you haven't figured it out by now.

girls that age are dumb.
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 5:35:58 PM EDT

Originally Posted By daisywench:

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Trust me, she'll realize how stupid she's acting and will apologize for being an idiot.



I did call her on it.. she denied it vigrusully. (sp?)

I'll ignore her for now...thanks.



Here's a thought, Voodoo...maybe she likes you as more than a friend, and is annoyed that you haven't figured it out by now.

girls that age are dumb.



Do they ever grow up?
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 6:19:39 PM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By daisywench:

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By SP1Grrl:
Trust me, she'll realize how stupid she's acting and will apologize for being an idiot.



I did call her on it.. she denied it vigrusully. (sp?)

I'll ignore her for now...thanks.



Here's a thought, Voodoo...maybe she likes you as more than a friend, and is annoyed that you haven't figured it out by now.

girls that age are dumb.



Do they ever grow up?




with some exceptions (gabby comes to mind), IMHO, wimminz under 25 are useless as hell

Link Posted: 2/7/2006 6:28:52 PM EDT

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
with some exceptions (gabby comes to mind), IMHO, wimminz under 25 are useless as hell




I'll be single for years then...
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 6:36:52 PM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
with some exceptions (gabby comes to mind), IMHO, wimminz under 25 are useless as hell




I'll be single for years then...



no

date up

hubby is 5 1/2 years younger than i am
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 6:38:49 PM EDT

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
no

date up

hubby is 5 1/2 years younger than i am




Dunno where all the 26 year olds hang out. Defintely not at college.
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 6:41:15 PM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
no

date up

hubby is 5 1/2 years younger than i am




Dunno where all the 26 year olds hang out. Defintely not at college.



broaden your horizons, grasshopper
Link Posted: 2/7/2006 6:42:11 PM EDT

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
broaden your horizons, grasshopper



Ok.... enlighten me.

I've never dated that far up (23 max).

I dunno where to begin.
Link Posted: 2/11/2006 8:43:49 AM EDT
I'd have to agree. I've never dated a woman any less that 8 years older than myself... can't really figure I ever would.... I have FRIENDS that span all agegroups, but not "dating material".


Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
no

date up

hubby is 5 1/2 years younger than i am




Dunno where all the 26 year olds hang out. Defintely not at college.



broaden your horizons, grasshopper

Link Posted: 2/11/2006 10:56:12 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Persephone:
Translation: "Yes I'm pissed at you, and I'm not ready to stop being pissed at you. I can barely look at you without wanting to rip your head off... haven't yet decided which one. Please go away before I have to hurt you."

Just a guess.




Do I know you????? Did you ever live in central Jersey???? Heard almost those exact words once.
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