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Posted: 10/18/2004 11:08:34 AM EDT
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   PUNK..... |
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Posted: 10/18/2004 11:11:57 AM EDT
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tjmz is a chick.  I hope the legal system can help you, but I've never heard of a "rapist" or a "child molester" ever being cured. It sounds like the legal system is already failing you. If you can get the police involved pile on the charges - I'd be willing to bet that his copy of Photshop is pirated and you know a corporation will act. Some of the 'other' suggestions may be in order for his boyish actions - it may be time for him to be "more careful". 
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Posted: 10/18/2004 11:25:24 AM EDT
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I would like an update on this one.
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Posted: 10/18/2004 11:31:20 AM EDT
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missed this one while I was gone. Hope it ends with a kid in jail.
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Posted: 10/18/2004 11:56:21 AM EDT
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+1,000 |
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Posted: 10/18/2004 12:45:31 PM EDT
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Update please? If you haven't already, you should probably contact the local news media. When police don't step up and deal with something like this, the media will often be willing to take them to task for it. If things aren't happening the way they should (i.e., nobody's taking it seriously) then a news report can sometimes be the catalyst that gets things going.
I agree with the other poster who said that this boy is probably already a rapist. If the behaviors you've described are true, then he has exhibited a willingness to inflict physical pain and humiliation even after his inappropriate advances have been rejected multiple times and after authorities have become involved. He has continued with the behavior even after police and principal have talked with him. His latest threat is exactly that, a threat. And his previous behavior demonstrates the likelihood that he will attempt to carry out the threat. Remember, for a person like him, each act of violence and/or unwelcome sexual behavior will be bigger than the last. What the #@$! are you waiting for?! Are you going to wait until he's raped/killed her before you start making things happen? I'd suggest you get on the ball and get this kid arrested, get his parents and the school district sued (wake up call) and transfer the girl to a different school NOW! |
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Posted: 10/18/2004 1:09:48 PM EDT
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Only problem with the media is how much do you want to pimp your child out to them? I still say tall building. |
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Posted: 10/18/2004 3:17:01 PM EDT
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I am 41 now. I grew up with 3 sisters and my parents. I am short, 5', and I was very tiny when I was in school. I have had a few unusual experiences in my life. Here are a few. When I was about 3 years old, a hitchhiker tried to break into our home when my father wasn't there. The only thing that stopped him was my mother yelling that she would shoot him if he broke down the door. When I was about 5 years old, a man shot at my sister, a friend and I. The police wouldn't even listen to us, so of course they never caught him. To this day, I still remember what he looked like and what he was driving. When I was six, my grandfather had to kill someone in self-defense. Fortunately, the grand jury realized that a 77 year old man recovering from surgery was no match for a knife-wielding drunk who broke in on him. The sheriff responded, but they waited down the road, refusing to actually try to stop the break-in until they heard the shots fired. I learned early that no one will take of you, but you. Edited to add: I grew up in Kentucky. My dad gave me a healthy sense of self. He never made my sisters and I feel as though we were less because we were girls, no matter how often other men and sometimes women insisted that he must really want a boy after being stuck with girls. I wish all women could have that rare gift. |
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Posted: 10/18/2004 3:43:43 PM EDT
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How did today go?
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Posted: 10/18/2004 4:23:15 PM EDT
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Well... I'm sure there were no broken bones or gushing blood. 
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Posted: 10/19/2004 8:17:32 AM EDT
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So, Update....
Investigation is under way, and it looks like charges will be forthcoming. Good news is that the prick and his parents got another visit from the police over the weekend and was told to stay away from her; he stuck to that yesterday and there have been no new problems as of now. On a more positive note, her friends woke up over the weekend and have all gone over to my sister's house and apologized for their actions on Friday. Also, a number of guys at her school whom she does not know went up to her yesterday and have told her that they are looking out for her. This guy showed up after lunch yesterday with a black eye and limping after meeting some of these guys on his lunch break, so she feels very safe at school, now. Sounds like the students at school are looking out for her, which makes me very happy. I'll keep ya updated when I know more |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 8:20:51 AM EDT
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Tall building conference. eta - I am glad to hear this. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 9:33:05 AM EDT
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so glad to hear this. Please do keep us updated. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:13:42 AM EDT
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Good to hear that. It should have happened sooner. Getting the shit kicked out of him at school should get him to stay away from her. A few years in Jail would be better, though. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:15:46 AM EDT
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Came in late (was trying to figure out the origin of Wedge's "tall building" comments). Does this punk have friends who might assist him in revenge? It's probably a safe bet that he knows your address. Be aware. I've heard that rock salt hurts but doesn't (usually) kill. Just what I heard. It might be well to keep an ear to the ground and see what's "going around" regarding this incident, if you're not already. Please For Wedge1082... CAUTION: SCARY PICTURES FROM WAY WAY HIGH UP BELOW.  
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:20:04 AM EDT
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Brisk.. warning of tall building looking down shots would be appreciated.. I am scared to death of heights and now I am having trouble breathing! |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:20:24 AM EDT
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:21:49 AM EDT
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Views like that have been known to change minds. eta - forgive the double post, I am experiencing mental problems apparently. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:22:05 AM EDT
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Just imagine if you had been accused of sexual assault, and were discussing the error of your ways while seeing that view with the assitance of some big mean mobster-type who was holding you by your ankles...... |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:26:49 AM EDT
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I can imagine.. I see myself looking down at them, from somewhere above, holding a dead body, because they done gave me a heartattack from fear! Mission could be accomplished... if the said offender was as afraid as I am! 
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:29:56 AM EDT
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PLEASE go the fuck away.
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:32:49 AM EDT
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Brisk I think I am going to steal one of those pics to use in future posts when someone needs to be talked to about the dangers of falling from tall buildings.
eta - In fact I know just the thread to put one in right now...... |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:38:03 AM EDT
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Lawyer the fuck up right now.....
He is brazen with the attitude that nothing will happen to him. Make somethinghappen to him and get the local DA or state DA involved RIGHT FUCKING NOW!!! Own the school in the end... Oops...didn't see the update. Still I stand by my statement....Own that fucking school in the end! |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 10:48:59 AM EDT
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"All right, all right, I apologize. I'm really, really sorry. I apologize unreservedly. I offer a complete and utter retraction. The imputation was totally without basis in fact and was in no way fair comment and was motivated purely by malice, and I deeply regret any distress that my comments may have caused you or your family, and I hereby undertake not to repeat any such slander at any time in the future." MrsGungho, please accept this (can't be more than six feet off the ground) picture with my apologies for causing your distress (I didn't know heights bothered you):  
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:00:53 AM EDT
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And don't forget that the quickest way to get the school's, the police's and everyone else's attention is to get the media involved. Just like we are all eager to hear the outcome of the situation, the media will have the whole community rallying to make sure the kid gets what he deserves!! This kind of shit really makes my blood boil to know that the people who should be proetecting the little girl are to busy (or lazy) to be bothered until it's too late!!
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:27:43 AM EDT
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WTH is that alligator doing to that pillow? tjmz, I've been watching this thread but haven't had time to post in it. Glad to hear someone in authority is finally taking it seriously. Please continue to keep us updated if you can. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:29:40 AM EDT
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He's hiding under it. I don't want to know what you were thinking. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:29:54 AM EDT
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I have, but the guy that cures him spends some time in jail. 
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:33:57 AM EDT
[#29]
 So we're discussing the inability of the justice system to handle this, and he comes in here to tell us if the popos know everything will be fine? Drink up your kool-aid! |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:41:05 AM EDT
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Ahhh, you gotta' love mob justice - effective since 25000 BC.
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Posted: 10/19/2004 11:47:12 AM EDT
[#31]
MrsGloftoe  Your naughty... |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 12:25:14 PM EDT
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You're just now figuring this out? I was fine until TheBeekeeper1 corrupted me. But really, I don't mean to hijack this thread. Carry on with the justice! |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 1:23:24 PM EDT
[#33]
Definitely sexual battery......
Go directly to the prosecutor's office and file charges if the police won't do anything. And unfortunately, she'll have to have pictures taken of the damage to her body for the pending court case that will follow. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 3:40:06 PM EDT
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That is sexual battery without a doubt!!! I would go over the principles head, and over the cops head. The all have supervisors. Good luck. If that doesn't work have your dad contact RAINN. They should be able to lead him in the right direction.
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Posted: 10/19/2004 3:43:49 PM EDT
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Why? Because I advocate for justice instead of a mindless mob reaction? there IS a legitimate response to this situation that does not get anyone else in trouble legally and punishes the perpetrator, which is what is supposed to happen. Any other response is legally incorrect. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 3:50:52 PM EDT
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Oly, I understand where you are coming from; yes, thats all appropriate, but given the boys escalation of his behavior, something needs to be done NOW in the legal arena to get this girl some protection . Taking the steps you describe will take time, leaving the girl vulnerable in the meantime. I still say go to a concurrent jurisdiction agency that is willing to act NOW on the girls behalf. My concern about the first agency is that it may NOT be an individual officer who is too lazy to do his job, but the agency itself. That problem can be addressed after the fact , and retraining in domestic violence issues arranged for either the officer or the agency as needed. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 3:54:54 PM EDT
[#37]
ONE aspect of the legal system; ONE officer. There are always other options, and I encourage the poster to explore their other options within the legal system. People should not act outside the law; it makes them no better than the original offender. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 4:07:53 PM EDT
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Not to be the one who looks for the negative in things...But you need to be very cautious with every move your daughter makes(as well as the rest of your family)Guys like this NEVER LEARN!!! It scares the crap out of me as to how crazy people really are these days!! He or his family still may retaliate against your family!I hope this guy would have learned his lesson...but I wouldn't sleep well at night until his ass was definatley no harm to my daughter!!WATCH YOUR 6' |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 4:47:07 PM EDT
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tcsd1236 is right the justice system should hadle it. Billy (inmate #23473) will handle the nocking out of the teeth for a gum-job. And Johny (inmate# 37124) will handle the tough job of breaking him in for the rest of his future boy friends. Side note. I hope he learned his less from the light ass kicking that he received. If she where a relative of mine or of a friend of mine he would get more than black eye and a limp. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 5:58:31 PM EDT
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No. That isn't allowed to happen, either. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 6:12:58 PM EDT
[#41]
Not supposed to....... but that's the correctional officers problem at that point.
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Posted: 10/19/2004 7:12:26 PM EDT
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You're confusing justice and legality. Police are usually easy to see coming: marked cars, uniforms, etc. The mob is everywhere and could come from anywhere and keeps thugs on their toes. They tried the legal system and it didn't work at least not at first. I suspect the ass-kicking will leave more of an impression than the visit from the police to him and his parents. As gun owners and concealed license holders we surely have figured out on some level that the police aren't everywhere and that we may need to handle things ourselves on occasion. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 7:20:53 PM EDT
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+1 Court justice is for the suites and afluent. On the streets justice is truly blind. The quote is not 100% but you guys should know the movie. |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 7:23:19 PM EDT
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If vigilante justice is so bad how come we've really experienced a great increase in rape and sexual assault since it became taboo for older brother John to kick the crap outta the perp.
We made it throught the 30's, 40's and 50's where this was the PREFERRED method of handling forced unwanted sexual advances. Our society did not seem to suffer for it. |
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Posted: 10/20/2004 3:58:23 AM EDT
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Don't normally post here and what not.
But after reading the first post I must. Something very similar to this happened to my little sister when I was a Senior and she was a Freshman. As soon as I heard about it I grabbed a few friends and mya little sister. We informed the boy that my sister was going to kick the crap out of him and if he raised a finger the rest of us would help. She did her part, we strongly enforced the idea that he should forget she existed. She never had an issue with him or anyone else after that. (We were all under 18) Right or wrong it solved the issue. The next week I enrolled my sister in a local kick boxing school. When she turned 18 she got a .38. When she turned 21 she got a CCW. Its been a year since then and she now has a Keltec for the campus she attends. Better to get in trouble for possession of a gun on campus than to be reped. I wish you and yours the best and be very careful with this boy. |
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Posted: 10/20/2004 3:59:10 AM EDT
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wow, so that busted jaw my brother recieved while in jail wasn't suppose to happen?! I'll let him know that, maybe he can file a claim against the state or something. |
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Posted: 10/20/2004 4:04:35 AM EDT
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Brisk, no apologies needed.. I do like that first picture you put up there especially for me. Have to agree with MrsGloftoe on the other, it looks a little ... well.... you know. I also noticed the warning before I seen the pics skimming thru again.. I went real fast and didn't look at them this time!
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Posted: 10/20/2004 4:22:51 AM EDT
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And the man my uncle heard getting murdered while the guards watched wasn't supposed to happen either... It shouldn't happen, true. Too many people are in jail for marijuana or other victimless crimes. |
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Posted: 10/20/2004 4:38:04 AM EDT
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Then you'll like this short story! My daughter has a girlfriend who got punched twice (eye & mouth) by her boyfriend last Saturday night. 2 fine upstanding young men caught up with him an hour or so later. I think once he gets 3 new replacement teeth installed in his head, and the cracked cheekbone and (3) ribs heal a little, he'll have a much different attitude about what kind of behavior is appropriate around women. If they were of age, I'd buy them both a beer.
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Posted: 10/20/2004 5:33:45 AM EDT
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I was disagreeing with "it takes time............." |
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