I hear cancer cures smoking! [:p]
Sorry, couldn't help myself... what's been said is generally true for most smokers. You've got to want it bad enough, be truly committed to stopping smoking, accept that it is hard, and even that you might relapse a time or six. Patches work for the cravings, but not for the habit of smoking itself- you need distractions, as the urge to smoke will pass after a little while (until the next one). Keep at it, one cigarette at a time. There are Smokenders or other support groups in your area, just look in the phone book or dial 411. Try these online resources to educate yourself.
The best resource is QuitNet:
[url]http://www.quitnet.org/[/url]
The ACS has excellent materials to help:
[url]http://www.cancer.org/eprise/main/docroot/PED/ped_10[/url]
So does the AHA:
[url]http://216.185.112.5/presenter.jhtml?identifier=134[/url]
Good luck! It's hard but also important to know that many, many people have kicked the habit (including me, after 16 years of Pall Malls!).